Hey all,
I’m a 24/M who went through a divorce about a year ago. It was a military marriage (I’m army, no kids thankfully) and RP really helped me find myself and realize how unhappy I was. With that being said, I’m pretty new to actual game and wanted to get advice on how to handle ghosting.
For a bit of context, I went on a date two weeks ago with someone who lived very close by. We hit it off and I went back to hers and we fucked a few times. She seemed very enthusiastic about meeting again, and also recently broke up with her long term relationship. I had planned another meetup and on the day of she didn’t respond to any of my texts. I was golfing in the morning so ended up making plans with friends anyways, but still found myself thinking about it.
My question is how do you handle this? Do you just not reply or try and salvage while risking sounding like a simp? I have a lot of anxiety on first meetups due to general nervousness and being a young divorcee/veteran, plus logistically she would make a great local plate.
Any advice would be appreciated, thanks all
enfier 1y ago
I'd wait until about 28 days after we fucked the first time and hit her up with a "come over" text.
BusterVadge 1y ago
It happens. She may have gotten back with her EX, gotten cold feet. It doesn't really matter, you just have to understand it's part of the game, happens, and you'll just move on. The sooner you forget about her the better.
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xaxixh 1y ago
I just want to say, congrats on getting out of the living hell so early. Cheers!
mattyanon Admin 1y ago
It's tough.... women do this a LOT because they are conflict-avoidant.
All I can tell you is that it's normal, it's what women do, and you have to accept it.
Definitely don't chase her. As regards this girl: quit while you're ahead. You met and fucked her a few times with no strings attached. In many ways that's the best outcome.
Ultimately the game is about moving on up..... getting more options, more dates, fucking more women. So do that.