I’ve been actively cold approaching around 3 women a day for around a week now with great results, but the hardest part for me is to find the right girl to approach. Most of the girls aren’t up to my standards or would want in my rotation of plates. As I’m still fairly new to cold approaching. Do I just go and try to approach the girls I find attractive or just start talking to as much females as possible regardless of looks?
I read somewhere it’s better to approach 200 hotties and get 1 than get 200 unattractive women I wouldn’t want to touch. But in that case it would take extremely long to even find the 200 hotties in the first place. Also it’s not that I find the women unattractive it’s just that I don’t find them attractive enough to: approach, get in my plate rotation or just keep in touch with.
How would y’all handle it?
mattyanon Admin 2y ago
Within reason.
Ok, basically talk to as many people as possible.
Focus more on girls in your target age range, lower your standards a little for practice.
Except practice is good.
Yeah, I hear ya.... if you don't feel there's any benefit it's hard to be motivated.
I'd suggest you get the hang of chatting to people without outcome motivation....... it's a good way to be in life, where you can and do talk to lots of people.
r3z01v 2y ago
You don't find them attractive enough to validate your ego.
Approaching a girl doesn't mean you have to take her to dinner with friends and family by the end of the day.
It's ok to just have fun, it's ok to fuck around... even figuratively. You're out and about anyway, how is it more productive to walk around than to talk to and shoot the shit with a girl?
whytehorse2021 2y ago
I've noticed all the hot chicks go to one place and all the uglies go to another. Walmart vs Whole Foods. Miami/NYC vs Casper, WY. I absolutely will not approach any woman that isn't hotter than my wife when we first met. That basically means I have to go where there are women who aren't fat. So now I'm already down to the top 10% of women in the US. They have their heads so far up their ass I'd rather just pay a prostitute. And most of them are. And we all know where prostitutes hang out: gym and Whole Foods by day, and parties/bars/clubs/strip clubs/mens' beds by night.
coolsocks00 1 2y ago
If you dont need practice and you dont have approach anxiety you should just go for the girls you like. Time is valuable.
There are girls who are objectively hot and then there are girls that are more my type but less hot. The rest dont register.
Also chemistry > looks, in my book. Rather keep a cool 7 than a retarded 9.
NoSir__ 2y ago
Yeah I got you, but I’m not really looking for anything above plate status. So chemistry doesn’t bother me that much. Time definitely is important.