I'm living with my parents with no prospect of getting my own place in the near future. Any suggestion on how I should isolate girls and get laid?
I can't really move out because I'm studying at an uni in the same town so my parents think it's thrifty for me to stay at home. Furthermore, a part time job here can't really afford you your own place. (The pay for unskilled labor here is shit, I'm not living in the US)
I'm stuck here until after college when I can get a real job.
DeputyDelicious 10y ago
How about you spend this time working on yourself, taking up a hobby to master and developing your brain, body, and soul. Good things come to the patient man.
"What are you trying to say? That I can pick up chicks?"
"No neo, I'm trying to tell you that when you're ready. You won't have to."
RPthrowaway123 10y ago
This is what I did for the 4 months or so I lived at home post-college. It really helped me to work on myself without distractions.
feelinglazy 10y ago
So you're basically saying: be an incel until you get your own place.
RPthrowaway123 10y ago
But its not involuntary. You are deliberately focusing on yourself instead of trying to get laid in an awkward situation.
DeputyDelicious 10y ago
You're looking at this in a negative way. It's not actually a problem. It's a gift.
If you take all of that pent up sexual energy and frustration to a gym and to some books. By the time you're done with college you'll have a bangin body and a real Job. With the way you're looking to go right now, you'll end up just wasting all of that testosterone on chasing women instead of becoming a man that women chase.
If you don't see that then the answer to your question is simple. Have friends, be a social butterfly, have game, go to house parties. Get laid at friend's houses/in your car/in girl's car/at their place.
richbeerstore 10y ago
Game chicks with places? It's rough escalating since you're in hostile territory if she has roommates.
Starswarm 10y ago
He's saying that this is a problem most men have and one that's not really avoidable.
Go fuck in a car or a hotel room or figure out a way for your parents to be cool with you bring chicks back.
AZTRP 10y ago
Are you living in the room you grew up in? Went through HS in? If so then...
You need to man that room up immediately for starters. Take down kid shit, high school shit.
There's a thread, I think its in the sidebar in /r/seduction about what your room should look like. Follow that advice.
That will be your first step towards your parents respecting you as a man and your desire to bring girls home now and then. They'll see your manly fucking room and respect.
Also, you're dad will be inspired.
despoticVeracity 10y ago
The thread isn't there.
AZTRP 10y ago
This is the one I was referring to. Its simple easy stuff to do. Imagine your room laid out well. http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/ovn0w/life_hackspro_tipsbro_tips
oldredder 10y ago
make prospects, MOVE OUT. In the mean time fuck the girl at her place, in a car, behind an alley, a bathroom, whatever. A field, behind some bushes nowhere people will see.
Right now I know of a guy who isn't staying at "his place", may have room-mates there not down with plates, and instead sleeps with several girls and sleeps where they sleep.
This guy is almost my home town's version of the NY homeless guy who sleeps with a new girl to get a place to sleep. Except there's a lot of repeat of the same girls and has his own place in theory.
No excuses, if you want the lay you'll find a way
TekkomanKingz 10y ago
What culture/country is this? My answer will depend on that.
However, a general answer is to just get hookers until you can afford your own pad. That's what I did when I was getting my career started and didn't make enough to move out.
Masonjarteadrinker2 10y ago
Either car sex or suck it up man, orrrr just get a part time and some roommates.
Scott555 10y ago
As the other commenters have noted, quit worrying about this and focus on yourself.
Chasing tail is pushing string. Put yourself out in front and that shit will fall in line behind you.
Fentrix 10y ago
You have a car?
truchisoft 10y ago
Don't you have sex motels in your area? Go there for long sessions, have sex everywhere else meanwhile.
Sex in (almost)public is great :), like a plaza, a construction site, a car, cinema, bus, get creative!
full_package 10y ago
Socialize, hang with people who landed a job in your field and have a place and dorms. Opportunities will present themselves.
Good for you being thrifty. Exploit your uni connections to find free or low wage internship or a project to build your cred and resume. Unskilled labor is for talentless people or school kids, since you have your folks supporting you, don't waste your time on it.
Once you have some cred to show, paying skilled job will land itself easily. This is your first priority. The pussy will land around your success, especially if you're still a student and socializing appropriately.