TL;DR: What are the effects that the absence of the father figure plus a single mother riding the CC past 35+ can cause on a 19 girl?
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(Forgive me for the bad English) Hello once again, TRP! I'm kinda new here and some of you may know me already from this post. I recommend that you read it since my question is related to the story.
So, focusing on the comment of RedPillWatchTower:
There is nothing that screams "daddy issues" like a dirty whore with tattoos and piercings in her nether regions. She is resentful of a father who was either abusive or absent, and letting strange men draw all over her "naughty" parts is one way she says "fuck you" to her father.
And he was right about the "dad issues" thing, which formulated some questions about woman behavior so I wanted to see what are your thoughts about it.
The chick of the story (Rose 19) works at this clothes shop and lives with her single mom (Violet). Violet is a 35+ woman, works with business (administrating the employers, doing interviews and stuff like that). Violet is apparently the model of a successful woman: she is financially good, have her own car, easy 8/10 blonde milf style. The thing is, in the early of the LTR with Rose, she told me something about her mothers previous partners and lifestyle and stuff... So here it goes:
About Violet:
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Violet was married for about 3 years with Rose's father, Ted, with whom she had two daughters. Ted openly cheated on her more than once. She left him when Rose was 2 years old and no contact whatsoever;
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Violet rode over 10 cocks in a year (as far as Rose knows);
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She once started this LTR with a guy, they moved to the guy's house and he cheated on Violet while Violet were on a business trip. Rose was at home the day the guy took the slut to the apartment. After the trip was over, the guy dumped Violet and they had nowhere to go;
- While I was dating Rose, I noticed that her mother still CC. She goes out randomly sometimes, comes back 2am/3am plus Rose tell me about her mother's Thundercocks.
About the relationship between Violet and Rose:
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Violet pushes Roses a lot to start college already and be less lazy. Their relationship is based a lot under screaming and verbally fighting each other. None of them gives the plunge;
- Rose often just comes from work and goes watch NetFlix, making Violet crazy because she needs help doing house stuff (cleaning, laundry, cooking), which none of these Rose is actually good/cares to do;
Well, there is a lot more but I think you guys got the idea. If you need more info just ask me in the comments, but I presume I dodged a fucking monster spacial rocket. I just wanted to know: what kind of impact this environment may have caused in Rose's behavior?
EDIT: Not sure if flair is correct or if I've posted on the wrong sub.
The_BeardedGentleman 9y ago
First and foremost shes lazy as fuck. You don't want a house woman whos lazy as fuck. Thats just a moocher.
Secondly, theres a 90% chance that shes going to be jealous and untrusting to the max. The only men in her life have been ones that backstabbed the closest person to her. Any male in her life is going to have to put up with so much shit just to have any amount of social life.
Hammerway 9y ago
Here is what happens after a few years into a relationship with a girl like that:
Rose resents her mother and her choices more and more. Stays very conscious about not repeating her mother's mistakes.
Why? She doesn't know any better. This was how she grew up, even if she consciously knows that these choices were not good, this is still 'normal' to her. Her hamster will take care of the rationale gap.
As for Rose's behavior at the time - it looks like simple escapism (netflix, not doing chores, not caring).
Altogether, Rose has more red flags than a USSR parade.
KevinRagnarson 9y ago
Apanthropos 9y ago
If a woman grows up without a proper father figure, she will never understand the importance the role of a man in the family. If she does not witness her mother trusting completely her father, she will never let a man make decisions in her life. She will never understand having boundaries and consequences of your actions.
Women like her will end up making decisions on spontanious emotions leading their lifes to ruin.
Laxman14 9y ago
I can only assume a negative impact. I wouldn't get too emotionally involved in this girl's life. Her mother is only a source of negativity in her life. I don't see any benefit beyond plating this girl, and even then I would be skeptical. Just avoid her. Sounds like a mess you don't need in your life.
[deleted] 9y ago
Positives: Rose is not college or career oriented and she seems to be embarrassed about her subhuman flesh-bag of a mother.
Negatives: Rose doesn't sound very domestically inclined.
Possible solution: If she's willing to submit to a very strict BDSM relationship where mutually agreed upon physical discipline is administered when she falls short of her domestic duties, you may have a manageable interim LTR.
This is definitely not a girl you could ever wife up though. You could however temporarily enjoy the regular sex and submission of such a girl despite her abandonment and daddy issues. I say use and enjoy for the time being.