New to the plate-spinning world, what's a text you've had good success with in order to initiate a hang out?
I'm thinking of using:
Hey, hey want to see you. Let's hang out
Do I need to be more specific with the time or activity? I'm fine when I hang out with the girl and with the first meet-up as we'll usually go out for drinks, wondering how I need to initiate those repeats
edit: should specify I'm in my early 20s dealing with similar aged girls in a college city
football1010 8y ago
Come over
aboveaveragebabydick 8y ago
Trying this one tomorrow night. Got her to tell me "how much girls love sex too" after first night
RPNietzsche 8y ago
I usually go with:
I'm picking you up at xx:xx, activity A or activity B?
or
I'm free this friday at xx, and im going to watch a movie, come join me.
secret_barber 8y ago
Avoid emotional statements, such as "want to see you." Just suggest a good time, your desire is implied.
Tom_The_Human 8y ago
"Come to mine at x. Bring whipped cream."
cocaine_face 8y ago
I've had good luck with, "come over", "bring me tacos", "cookies and wine", and other incredibly low investment texts.
Or I'll ask her what she's doing, and then when she responds, I'll say, "that's boring, come do X instead"
4benny2lava0 8y ago
Yo ill be out (insert location) round (time) come through.
prodigy2throw 8y ago
Come do (insert activity) with me (insert time and day)
Edit:
Example: Come get drinks with me tomorrow night.
rpkarma 8y ago
"Netflix and chill"
Thizzlebot 8y ago
thanks fam
RemyPrice 8y ago
Are you tied up with anything tonight?
If not, there's something I want to tie you up with.
imthemanyesiam 8y ago
just send a dick pic
tnorth23 8y ago
I wouldn't use that.
I often used, "What are doing tonight?" or "I'm free tomorrow at 8, lets do "insert activity"
Some guys on here will say you shouldn't ask for permission or when she's free but I don't agree with that all the time.
babyboi12 8y ago
"I'm free @ xxx (or on XXX), let's do xxx."
VasiliyZaitzev 8y ago
"Drinks. Friday. 8pm. {venue}."
or
*"Dinner. My place. Tomorrow. 6pm."
I would add, "Wear pretty lingerie for me." or "No panties" which gives you an automatic escalation for purposes of verifying dress code compliance.
SkorchZang 8y ago
Keep it simple, keep it lazy. According to Angelina Jolie, your line would never work: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Dou09M9AJuI
Har har. According to me though, I said a lot worse and it still went over pretty well.
"Drinks at Abe's such and such time.. what say you?"
or just the classic, "I'd love to see you.. when are you free in the evening in the next few days?"
Try to always propose specifics and stay away from "masking your intentions" with phrases like "hanging out", because that's how beta males always do it, women know that too well, and so the betas permanently ruined it for the rest of us.
aboveaveragebabydick 8y ago
Good video, already sounds better
wont_tell_i_refuse 8y ago
Beta as fuck. Avoid question marks.
aboveaveragebabydick 8y ago
What about
I'm feeling "Come over" might be too commanding, already kind of fucked up by asking her if she wanted to hang out Saturday night and she replied she "hadn't slept in 24 hours and was staying in"
Edit: Got the second date set up, god I love TRP