I wrote this before i realized the age of the post...

The fact that she told you she is a "slut" means that -- for whatever reason, whether it is her own lifestyle choice taking precedence over the idea that she could find an LTR, or that she thinks you are below her or she is below you (i.e. that you are not compatible for a LTR) for an LTR -- she simply does not want or anticipate a LTR with you.

Honestly, i lean towards the notion that the explanation for the choice is probably that she is either currently dedicated to the slut lifestyle (aka just sleeping with who she pleases, when she pleases) OR she thinks that she is better than you and you are not worthy of an LTR with you.

The other possibility is that the slut comment was just a statement of fact, especially if she was drunk or manic (are you sure she isn't a manic depressive?), is that the slut comment was just an unabashed statement describing herself (aka describing her very recent past, being slut is like being a professional juggler, it's a status that can change) .

So, it's possible she would like to be with you, and if the sex is good, I think you can get a former slut to be faithful.

Thus, if she indeed would like to be with you in an LTR if the alternative is losing you entirely, then you can give it a try. Will she cheat? I am going to say it is far more likely than if she was a good girl who had only slept with, say, 4 men, all boyfriends she was committed to, at age 24. So, yeah, she could cheat.

But, she seems pretty honest. She's certainly relatively honest about being a slut. Just keep your hopes low.

FWIW, i was with an awful slut at a younger age, she sort of admitted it, and then she turned around and cheated A LOT, with A LOT of different dudes (ie there was no other man per se, just a bunch of random fucks), even though i fucked the shit out of her on a daily basis, made her cum hard constantly, introduced her to parents and she was in close contact with my fam and i was with hers -- none of this stopped her from behaving this way.

Honestly, if the sex wasn't great, i would say just dont give her too much thought, and maybe try to explain the value of commitmemt somehow, maybe there is an article you could send her.

But given that the sex is good, I would just fuck her hard as fuck, or well as fuck, refuse to eat the pussy obviously if she has been with another man in the past month or similar, see if you can't make yourself her preferred stunt cock, and just treat her like your favorite pussy hole, avoid an STD, and IF the time comes that your emotions actually make doing this impossible, THEN lay it out there for her. If there is any hint that she is doing anything currently with others, make sure she hears about you fucking other girls, preferably ones she knows. Sluts love that, I think it is seen as an endorsement by other women of their decision to fuck you. Good luck, you'll need it if you let your feelings get in the way of good pussy... it's pretty likely that if you treat her as more than a friend while she's still sleeping around her respect for you will go in the toilet, but maybe she's more self aware and wouldn't fall for that illogical ho antilogic.

NO HYMEN NO DIAMOND

Never mention TRP to a "slut", never! Its the Fight Club rule. Only bring up TRP to people you know are not sluts, and you want them to stay that way! For example- One could talk to their daughter to explain things like the "carousel" and "hitting the wall", and why she should only engage in hypergamy (which is a rational human instinct) to find a husband, but once found, should remain faithful.

When you mention TRP to a "sexually liberated" slut, and she agrees. All she's really doing is agreeing that "yeah, sexuality is about power play, so what?". Every tier-1 feminist knows that feminism and "sexual liberation" isn't about equality or freedom, its simply about power dynamics/power play. That's what TRP helps explain to men. Getting a woman to agree with it while she actively engages in it, means she's a no-no!

"How do I LTR a total slut?"

/r/Im14AndIsThisAlpha

We have a lot of stimulating, respectable conversations/debates on this topic, amongst several others. This is an amazing quality to me, I seek this out not necessarily in a partner but in my company, certainly. The fact that she can provide this makes me want to be with her more.

This has been my number one turn on for my entire life, and it has thus been my biggest downfall.

I know what you're thinking... this girl is sexy AND can stimulate my mind. It's incredibly rare in of itself for me to find someone mentally stimulating, and to find it in an attractive girl is intoxicating.

...but

Rational discourse is the antitheses to female attraction. Females are primarily emotional in their sexuality, and as such the romantic partners they choose will ALWAYS be the ones who can emotionally stimulate them the best. In my experience, rational discourse absolutely kills emotional momentum. Watch and see how quickly and easily she hops out of your bed and into another. Don't get too attached; she's already gone.

I talked to her about the red pill

The fucks wrong with you?

I dont understand why when we all tell you to fuck other women, you respond with "I have fucked other women".

This is not the past tense. You need to go fuck more girls immediately and get control of the situation. Girls can sense when a guy is slipping, in a slump, or unconfident. This girl will lose attraction in a nano second if you keep thinking the way you are posting in here.

I don't know what her family background is. I myself, have a thing for HB9 Indians. Some do not. To each their own.

If she's culturally Indian, being with you is not part of her long term family plan. She is being a slut with you even if she professes monogamy with you. Why you ask? Her family has an Indian guy in mind. A marriage might even be arraigned. Until she's with him, she's slutting around.

you can't make a ho into a housewife.

You're already done. This post is a symptom of the sickness. This chick is going to leave you because you're turning into a whimpering simp. The more you want to own her the more respect she's going to lose for you.

Oneitis is one thing.. But with a known and avowed slut? Cmon dawg, you're better than that. Snap out of it and see this chick for what she is: at best a nice piece of pussy and at worst the cause of your downfall. She ain't worth it bro.

I would suggest going no contact based on how twisted your thoughts have become. You're pretty fucking far from red pill. At the very least, begin the process of emotionally disconnecting from this bitch. Sooner is a lot better than later.

I want to transform a great, near perfect Indian woman who's a slut to be my monogamous partner. Help.

I want Dan Bilzerian's bank account. Also, I want to go back in time and re-inhabit my 18-year old body with all I know now. Both are about as likely as what you're trying to do.

Dude, you have a lack of abundance.

If you have 3-4 equally attractive girls on the side, you wouldn't be jealous. Jealousy is a product of scarcity.

And no it's not possible to convert a slut. Just enjoy her for what she is: free and easy sex. There are no unicorns and if you believe YOU are so special that she'd stop her resource hunting and commit to you, you are mistaken.

There's always a bigger fish. If she hasn't "cheated" yet, it's only because the bigger fish hasn't come along YET; not that there's no fish.

You are asking a question that goes against most principles of the red pill.

9-2 = 7

My rule of /r/theredpill SMV. x - 2 = smv

As part of the 6'2" Master Race, you're falling too hard bruh

She isn't your wife/GF, out-whore her.

You're a white American, you are not going to get any commitment from this girl. Plain and simple. I know this because I am an Indian male, I have heard this story a thousand times. Simple break down, it works the same for both male and female Indians who don't live in India.

1. If he/she is a slut, they will continue sleeping around with all different types of people and finally settle down with an Indian, end of story.

2. If he/she is not a slut, they will commit to one of the first few people they sleep with.

Thats it, there is really nothing more to it. I'm not saying there aren't exceptions to these rules, but this is just how this shit goes down, 95% of the time.

I suggest you move on, I mean, have you even meet her parents, if not forget it your wasting your time. Unless she introduces you to her parents as your boyfriend nothing is going to happen. And even if she does, its probably just to piss off Mum and Dad.

You're not fucking enough other women. This one slut is starting to seem special to you.

Don't you have other shit going on in your life that makes this one slut seem insignificant? Not just woman shit, but real shit. Anything at all?

Work on that. It should put the sheer insignifIcance of this one slut and how absolutely non-special she is into perspective. It'll help the rest of us out, too, by getting you to quit wasting time asking stupid questions about reforming a slut who, by her own admission, loves slutting.

Had one like this. Nothing but trouble. Best 3 months of my life followed by years in hell. If you can't avoid falling for her, go No Contact right now. If you can avoid it, fuck the shit out of her and smack her ass at least once for all of us here. Enjoy the conversation. Remember to never turn your back on her or depend on her like you would a man.

Ok, now you will see a lot of replys about the mistake you made discussing TRP and they are right. If she is the first one you discussed about RP I feel you. I once made the mistake to talk to a girl not about the RP, not even mentioned the name RP, but about some ideas I agree in the RP. She looked at me like I was some kind of heartless person, with no respect for woman or anyone. Never made that mistake again. Things went perfectly since then.

In your case the problem is that she reacted very good. And that led you thinking you didn't made a mistake. But if she knows what you think about this stuff, she loses interest and slowly become her beta toy, or you just breakup.

I think you didn't swallow completely TRP, not to say you are at the first steps swallowing it. If you had swallowed TRP:

1.You wouldn't talk about that, but just do like it says and keep everything for yourself.

2.You wouldn't have lost the opportunity to fuck another girl, while the indian watches you. That would lead to her joining in.

3.You wouldn't feel for the indian slut and think of her like a LTR ,instead you should make her feel you are the one that she can't afford to lose.(and this would have been done by just doing what RP teaches and not talking about it)

Now what to do to transform her in your monogamous partner?!

Don't talk about RP, go RP ,do RP. Find other girls, get one to have a 3some with the indian and see how things will go. If you want her so bad make her feel jealous about the other one. This way you are going to change roles. She will chase you.

But I wouldn't recommend being so fixated with her.This way you are not going to live your life anymore

"You can't make a ho a housewife"

She sounds like she has very masculine qualities for a girl, so I'd kind of keep away from that as far as LTRs go.

Also regardless of anything your children would be half Indian, dunno how the fuck that'd look.

She has higher SMV than you, and you know it. She knows it too.

She's on the CC and you are not valuable enough for her to try and get off of it.

Drop her like a bad habit and find some plates.

You've caught oneitis and it's going to hurt you.

She studied in Sweden for 4 years so I don't know if that could be where that came from.

Sweden

Yes

Lol. Dude this girl waaaay too deep into riding the carousel for you to ever make a dent. Witness hypergamy run amok. There is always going to be a more ripped, more famous, more alpha guy around the corner.

There was a thread on reddit a year ago where a 29 year old Indian girl was coming to the end of her carousel days and was so confused as to why white guys saw her as exotic fruit but wouldn't commit and Indian guys were turned off by her massive number count. She felt oddly betrayed by the system. This will be this little Indian minx in about 10 years.

From now until then, enjoy the decline and get yours while you can.

"TLDR: I want to transform a great, near perfect Indian woman who's a slut to be my monogamous partner. Help."

Reading this reminds me of a bit, Chris Rock(?) did ages ago where he said that two people need to be on the same wavelength to get along. The example he used was that if you were really into Church and your partner was a heroin addict, then chances are it wouldn't work out.

I suppose my question to you is, how big a red flag do you need?

"In fact, she told me she would find it sexy to watch me fuck someone else which instead of delighting me just made me madder." - You cool to reciprocate this?

"I can't really conceive of letting her go and finding someone else. I've met girls who are equally good looking but her compatibility in terms of companionship is very rare and I doubt I will find anyone like her."

So according to the both of you, she's a slut but other than that you're really compatible. I want you to replace 'slut' with something you find equally reprehensible and ask yourself whether or not that would still be a deal-breaker. Dude, you're 26 and despite what other people might say to you, life is LOOOOOONG. All the best.

EDIT: Here's the Chris Rock Bit

Whatever you into, your woman gotta be into, too, and vice versa... or the shit ain't gonna work.

lt ain't gonna work.

That's right. lf you born-again, your woman gotta be born-again, too.

If you a crackhead, your woman gotta be a crackhead, too... or the shit won't work.

You can't be like, ''l'm going to church, where you going?'' ''Hit the pipe!''

That relationship ain't going nowhere. Two crackheads can stay together forever.

You don't have a lot choice in this matter. You have to let her go, to show her that you don't approve of her behavior. She can't react favorably to you until she feels loss, the loss will motivate change if she values you, or if it's possible.

Dude, Nothing but heartache in your future.

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She's too young.

1. First rule of The Red Pill is, you never talk about The Red Pill (to women). Soooooo, not saying that you screwed yourself as far are fulfilling your oneitis dreams, but not a good idea in general.

2. You can't turn a ho into a housewife.