Have been lurking in the main sub for some time now. It seems to me that to swallow the pill, you essentially begin your self-improvement journey, and maintain integrity about it. Are there other aspects of integrity that you are supposed to work on? I am kind of confused on what integrity means, and what the red pill means in relation with integrity.
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Metalaggeddon 10y ago
These posts all gave bits and pieces right. They seemed to miss the actual core intention of trp in some way.
Integrity is an internal value. Just like physical fitness. It's a part of the whole.
Trp is about value. Value management, assessment, and improvement. That's it. It's quite simple. Master your value and learn to broker it correctly.
https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/32h23r/understanding_value_understanding_the_zone_from/
Go learn the basics.
RichardPalma 10y ago
You can have integrity, but still not recognize that AWALT, that they have a dual nature of AF/BB when it comes to the sexual marketplace (while men only have AF because we can provide for ourselves) and how you have both SMV and RMV and that hypergamy is real and it leads to deception and branch swinging (see AWALT). Recognize the truth of Briffault's Law and the nature of female solopsism. Take women off of the pedastal, be disciplined to never let your heart go towards one woman only (aka oneitis) or even focusing on a specific set of women (keep an abundance mentality), and never let yourself get into a situation where a woman can divorce rape you or hold a child over your wallet for 18 years. Lift to improve your physique and thus SMV, and keep a lazer focus on your goals. When you interact with another person, build a frame around the interaction and keep others within that frame to maintain dominance, do not let others pull you into their frame, if they do then just stay in yours. Only with doing these things will you improve your ability to navigate sexual and other relationships in the real world.
So mostly integrity and discipline.
NSA_web_spider 10y ago
Integrity, discipline, dignity and the removal of female assessment as the primary source of self worth. Combine that with a healthy respect for the female sexual strategy and a woman's contradictory needs. Add a dash of knowing what you want and leading others to it rather than convincing or arguing your point. That's about it really.
IoSonCalaf 10y ago
This is a brilliant description of TRP.
tekn0_ 10y ago
Wow! Really elegant description! Thank you!
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Most of TRP is just basic self-respect. But self-respect is so uncommon these days that TRP sounds radical.
DreadLockedHaitian 10y ago
And that's the gotdamn truth!
Cruel_Man 10y ago
Integrity is 1) behaving in a consistent manner 2) in accordance with your principles 3) that derive from your underlying desire and motivation.
Compromising any one of those factors compromises your integrity, and there is ample opportunity for that to occur in your daily life.
TRP is about reasserting the validity of #3 in men, and then realigning #1 with a new understanding of #2. Most Bluepill/Beta anxiety stems from a conflict between #2 and #3. Young men have the desire to enjoy to fulfilling sexual relationships, but they are given a whole host of counterproductive principles and methods to achieve that.
TRP typically focuses on sexual strategy, but when you understand this relationship it applies to nearly everything. That doesn't always mean you will succeed in a goal, since that is contingent upon factors outside of your control, but is does mean you will have attempted it with integrity.
For some, success is more important than integrity. In the music scene, we understand these players as sellouts. The punk guy who was always DIY but now has a production company propping up his brand has compromised not on his desire or consistency, but his principles.
Success and integrity are often correlated, but they are not causal. Understand this, and figure out soon which is more important to you as that will dictate your life.
MagicJuggler 10y ago
TRP is ultimately about not having to apologize for being a man, whether to others or yourself.
You live for your own destiny, rather than becoming an eternal sycophant seeking the desperate approval of women, coworkers, etc.
favours_of_the_moon 10y ago
Much of it is about having integrity. That's the main thing, because it's more about improving YOURSELF than it is about sexual strategy or banging a bitch.
However there is a significant emphasis in TRP theory about attempting to deal with the elaborate machinations of the female mind. Many women in today's society have a distorted woldview, for various reasons. A man needs to know how to navigate that.
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The fuck does it have to do with integrity?
I could black night dozens of women a week and it would be a valid sexual strategy...
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Not really dude.
I live in one of the most affluent areas of the country, it's full of rich post-wall housewives and divorcees.
The less integrity I displayed in gaming them for their assets the better off I'd be long-term.
NSA_web_spider 10y ago
If you can maintain your self respect and dignity enough to keep your frame in doing so, this is a totally valid strategy. I'm not judging, but it's difficult for most men to raise their SMV in the long term without embracing self respect and integrity. Your mileage may vary.
Also, where is this - I need to know for... scientific reasons...
[deleted] 10y ago
Yep, I'd agree with you on all of those points.
Just a personal bugaboo when people try to correlate trp with ethics and moralism when an obvious overriding theme here is that most women are anarchist, solipsistic hedonists who subconsciously would love nothing more than to watch civilized society burn, as long as they came out on top.
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marlybarrow 10y ago
The redpill is simply the reality of heterosexual relations made plain and using that knowledge to pursue your goals, interests and desires.
RPthrowaway123 10y ago
The red pill is very much a thing where you take what you want from it. Having integrity is definitely an aspect that many take - the integrity to be honest, to own your faults, and to pursue what you want openly. It's very similar to Mark Manson's concept of "vulnerability" in my mind - someone who has integrity isn't afraid to own themselves.
Apanthropos 10y ago
Not integrity, more like boundaries. It is a sexual strategy that stops people from taking advantage of you, and start taking actions to satisfy your needs.
Morality and integrity are labels used by society to control your actions.