RPW women don't seem to exist in my life. If I met one she would definitely be a unicorn and I'd be interested in dating her possibly having a LTR.

I think where their strategy might be unrealistic is in that they require too much commitment too early on in the relationship. The prevailing viewpoint is that "once a plate, always a plate." However, I think with me the only way to achieve gf status possibly wife status would be to graduate from top plate status by having a lot of girl game and providing value to my life. I'm just not going to commit to a monogamous relationship right away. There are too many other options and that's just making me put way too much work into it without showing me that you have enough value to where I would be willing to do this.

My SO isn't a Redditor but I've sent her a couple of links to something I've seen on RPW to illustrate what I look for in a woman and a relationship. I like the sub. It offers a refreshing perspective and allows me to hope that not all women are men-hating femanazis.

When do we talk about being able to "redeem" yourself after slutting it up?

This is patently false. Please link me to it. I can assure you, we do not. If youve seen some random poster try to say that I can assure you you've Also seen them shot down by RPW responses

We don't tell women who fucked up "Oh, well you screwed up, die alone with cats" either. We tell them to own up to their past, not to lie, not to expect a top tier man and to be grateful to the man that will have them and never make him regret it.

When you look at the endorsed contributors on RPW they are the only kind of woman I would look for in an LTR... That being said I acknowledge that this is the internet and their posts may not reflect who they truly are.

That make sense?

A woman who sluts it up in her early 20's and then realizes that's not attracting the kind of men she wants is no different than a man who spent his early 20's as an incel or beta-boy wanting to change.

I advise young guys to avoid or be very cautious about reformed sluts.

But I do believe that they can want to change.

I've said it before:

TRP is full of beta men trying to become alpha. RPW is full of sluts trying to become wife material. Men want sex as soon as possible with commitment as late as possible. Women want commitment as soon as possible with sex as late as possible. For men who are looking for casual sex, "former" sluts are a waste of their time. For men who are looking for marriage material, "former" sluts are not going to be desired. For women who are looking for commitment from an Alpha, men who had to teach themselves to be attractive by reading online are not going to be desired.

Women are the gatekeepers of sex, men are the gatekeepers of commitment. Alpha fucks, Beta bucks has the counterpart of Slutty flings, Virgin rings. Thus the online communities that exist to help educate men and women on sexual strategy will necessarily have fundamental, irreconcilable differences.

Male and female sexual strategies are adversarial.

It seems counter intuitive but the complementary sexual strategy for both red pill men and RPW is the classic blue pill conditioning. For red pill men who don't want marriage (most of them), the best thing is the you-go-girl young chick exploring her sexuality. Young, fun, slutty, uninhibited. For RPW who want marriage (most of them), the best thing is the clueless alpha who doesn't understand his own relationship market value, that wants a marriage, that she can get locked down quickly (alpha fucks).

What you see in TRP and RPW by and large is people who have failed at sexual relationships due to blue pill conditioning. Neither group is desired by the other. No dude on TRP is going to be spilling his guts to a chick he wants to fuck about how much of a sexless beta he used to be before he read stuff on the internet. No RPW is going to confess to the man she wants to marry, that she didn't fuck until after 6 months of dating, that she used to get gang banged in college.

They're awesome. I'd love to date one of them.

So, you've already acknowledged the difference in sexual strategies of men and women. But beyond that, age is what accounts for the discrepancy. TRP had a lot of teenagers and 20 somethings.

For some reason young men today are incredibly literal. They fail to understand the difference between deterministic and probabilistic reasoning. So there's a sort of fundamentalism that emerges over there.

Personally, I'm OK with it, if it keeps them from making the same mistakes guys my age made.

Salt of the earth, those broads. We should co-host a fundraiser sometime.

not all TRP posters are legit RP either, most of us are on the way there but haven't hit it or are missing it altogether. It's natural that not all of the women are RP either

I think men who really and deeply believe TRP dogma can be easily controlled by women who understand that dogma and their predictable reaction to it.. As such, it is highly risky for an average TRP man to get with a TRP woman. Queue men convincing themselves they aren't average and can handle it.

lol they are sluts who are trying to 'change' (basically trying to not come accross as a slut). they get 5/10 for the effort though

Not nice women, talking in their chatroom about how they love cats, hate kids, would abort if they got pregnant, masturbate with dildos, and so on. No different from mainstream women they just know how to pretend to be ladies so they can better manipulate men. They are mostly married women who want to try to make their beta husbands act more alpha.

I've spent a lot of time there. All I'll say is this:

Remember that at the end of the day, women are women. Females behave as females behave. Don't expect otherwise. AWALT applies.

Since the beginning of times, women wanted to do everything men did.

They want to be like us.

There are some women in RPW that are true RP though.