I don't have plates in background right now...I know how having plates feels (because i have experienced in few years back). Do i just fake the confidence right now? How does one go about it?
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RunawayGrain 10y ago
Consider it like a trip to the store. Just because you have not bought anything yet doesn't mean the shelves are not lined, does it?
MrFritzH 10y ago
Brilliant analogy.
Overzealous_BlackGuy 10y ago
Faking only works if you can act, legit learn to feel and become valuable, other people will see it. Abundance mentality is no different from self confidence.
tepper2 10y ago
Abundance mentality is real. There are tons of women out there. Just because you don't have several plates right now doesn't mean they aren't in your future.
LeGrandDiableBlanc 10y ago
The abundance mentality is a proxy for being willing to walk away from a relationship if your needs aren't being met. So long as you are only engaging in relationships whee you feel you are gaining some sort of benefit, and especially as long as you are leaving relationships that are causing you harm (physical or emotional), you are reaping the benefit of an abundance mentality.
I say this, because these ideas are naturally occurring when someone has a lot of options. You can't really fake the natural feeling of these thoughts emotionally, but you can understand the underlying logic.
Primarily, you will need to be disciplined.
[deleted] 10y ago
Next time you game a girl and get her number delete it after she walks away.
If you can't do that then you are still stuck with a scarcity mentality. Abundance mentality is a powerful deep self confidence in yourself.
slcjosh 10y ago
Fake it til you make it can work. But it's pretty easy to get a tinder account and build a "harem".
Dred 10y ago
Fake it til you make it. Period. Who's gonna know besides you?
favours_of_the_moon 10y ago
Get your dick wet.
The world will look like a different place. Tell a bitch to fuck off once in awhile.
gqtrees 10y ago
yea, its not matter of getting it wet per say. i have done that before, its just the well has gone dry recently. Need to get my shit together.
DrakeSaint 10y ago
I remember my ultimate abundance mentality/confidence test yet: dating a spoiled, depressed, VIP CC-rider feminist.
I did it on purpose. She hated I was so self-confident. Claimed multiple times it was fake. Hated that I was so shit-faced to her attempts at minimizing my self-esteem.
She rejected my first move in a club. I shrugged, then proceed to dance with a redhead next to us, she grabbed me and kissed me, like to prove something. Then a few minutes later told me "she liked to kiss random people"; AKA I-didnt-want-to-admit-it-so-i-want-to-give-a-bullshit-excuse-to-my-3-minutes-earlier-move.
If I could handle this shit, I could handle anything. It was like an initiation test. And god, I passed it with honors (don't stick your dick in crazy).