Does your girlfriend know these dudes want to fuck her or is she oblivious?

Oh and your buddy being "friends" with your girl is wrong, only because you know he'd fuck her first chance he got. Time to reexamine that friendship.

I don't feel threatened because I'm awesome

Now that is some serious Red Pill action! Good for you, man!

orbiters

Invite them into your world. Be friends with them. Use them, like your girlfriend does.

Seriously... ask those dipshits to do stuff for you. Make them orbit both of you. The orbiter will eventually figure it out, and you did that kid a favor.

Be careful. She's pulling emotional validation from those thirsty dudes. Any time an LTR is seeking validation from other dudes you should be very suspicious of her intentions, and you should start considering her descent to plate status.

Mine always has a bunch of seriously dedicated orbiters too, it's inevitable but easily handled. You just need to:

1. Stay alpha. You need to be confident, physically fit and powerful, and just generally have higher SMV than the orbiters. Her knowing that you could wring these guys' necks at a moment's notice is going to go a long way.

2. Be desired yourself. Spin plates (stop short of fucking them, but have them interested and within a day or two's gaming of being on your dick), have friends. You always want to have somewhere to be and someone to see if you were sick of her shit.

3. Be dismissive and contemptuous rather than insecure. If the subject of these guys being after her comes up, laughingly calling them beta orbiters is perfect.

4. Get stuff from them. Women's contempt for betas increases as they bow to their needs, even more so when they're bowing to YOUR needs. Need some help moving? You've got the other end of that couch covered. Some tree trimming to do? Someone's holding your ladder and getting sawdust in the face. You can even have them giving you help on traditionally manly pursuits that they're more expert in if you're very clearly their master in other respects.

5. Use them to deflect criticism when she tries to call you on your flirtations. "What the fuck are you talking about? I don't complain about you and x, and you know that little beta boy is beating off thinking about you every night."

Think of it this way, if she wasn't getting her validation/emotional shit from her orbiters, she'd try to get it from you. Do you really feel like picking up all that baggage?

Let her have her beta orbiters. In fact, it should give you confidence that all these dudes are worshiping her, yet shes fucking you.

You should be happy your gf has orbiters. It means she's attractive.

beta orbiters are the shit. They can take part of the emotional stuff away you dont want to deal with

So you are not concerned but you actually are

Maybe it's because I have female friends myself, but my girl's guy friends have never bothered me. We follow a pretty simple formula: is her relationship with them taking away from something that is mine? Yes or no?

If they hit on her, she nexts them. They disrespect our relationship, they're gone. I know who they are and they know me. When she sees them I'm always invited, etc.

ETA: She works in law enforcement so she's in close proximity to mostly male colleagues, so understand that makes our situation a little different than a SAHM, for example. Nevertheless, we've never had a problem. Just for kicks I asked her as she was on her way out the door "so what do Ben and Rob (her oldest friends from work) do for you? What about their friendship validates you?" She paused a second and said, "Ben is the only guy I know who's a better shot than me and he built my last two rifles. Rob just tags a long because his wife doesn't want him at home."

Yup. Not worried.

The guys think they're getting somewhere with her but they really aren't. Sounds like your girl has game, so be alert. But I wouldn't worry just as long as you're routinely laying the pipe.

Best suggestion said here is to use them too. They're below you. But also note that any slip up on your part will be noted back to her from these leeches. Damn, I'm getting mad thinking about guys like that.

Kill the orbiters

Lots of guy friends, its Shit Wars Episode 4: A new dope. If you're aiming for LTR, she's going to be getting constantly validated by the harem of worshipers who apparently see her with a soft glow and a constant breeze playing with her hair.

What you're asking is DT territory, Trojan horse a couple orbiters and then convince her she needs better girl friends cause..."I don't like the idea of you doing girly things with a bunch of guys and I like thinking of you doing girly things."

Set boundaries: if that bothers you tell her so.

Make friends with them ASAP. They've know her longer than you, so they could give you insight in to her backstory. Plus they're less likely to stab you in the back if they view you as a friend rather than an obstacle.