I've been seeing her for a couple of time and this os the first girl that reacts like this, though kino as been good and I got as far as fingering her from "behind". Here's the catch, whenever i try to escalate to sex, either trying to take her pants off or having her grabbing my dick, she always "blocks" me. She either tries to stop me immediately (taking of pants, usually when I'm fingering her), or she just starts acting very nervously (grabbing my dick, starts laughing and shaking while still looking at my dick with an eye that's "craving" it). So I'm assuming that she wants to fuck but I'm not sure if I'm fucking up somewhere (I may have been a little of a pushover last couple of times) or if I need to help her "loosen up". Also as far as I can tell she's pretty insecure and possibly a virgin.
What are your guys thoughts on this? Also on a side note, she's very submissive when I tell her something (take your shirt, take your bra, etc).
vandaalen 5y ago
how about you take off her clothes?
Blue_Bill_69 5y ago
She's never had a problem with me taking either her bra, shirt or something similar, I just have been telling her to do it herself as of late. She has no problem with me playing with her thigh's either but the pants are the "brick wall" so to speak and I don't exactly understand why.
vandaalen 5y ago
how old
Blue_Bill_69 5y ago
16
mistaw00dy 5y ago
Next time she grabs your dick, say that’s not for you, then take her shirt off or escalate some way
resnine 5y ago
Girls don't react to you as they are, they react to you as you are.
They mirror your behavior and do things based on your social standards. You may be are acting too conservative and it's making her reluctant to do things for fear of your sexual judgement of her.
Focus on what the actions are not the words.
Blue_Bill_69 5y ago
So you're saying i should be more bold and make it seem more natural when trying to escalate right?
ChadTheWaiter100 5y ago
If she’s laughing nervously then what did you do? Stop? And if so why.
Blue_Bill_69 5y ago
No, but she usually just starts staring at it after grabbing it acting like I said previously, which i think it's kinda weird