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- Hide Preview | 8 Comments | submitted 4 months ago by TheManWhoSlays [Post Locked]

I’m never gone to a bar by myself, nor have I gotten drunk. I’m not much of a drinker and I’m somewhat of an introvert. I’ve only gone to a couple bars and that was with my cousin and friends. These times they got numbers and got laid. I didn’t. Not saying that for pity or anything. But I’m somewhat of a shy guy at times especially in places like these. Being a 21 year who has spent most of his life inside playing video games and what not. But of course, I’m been trying to improve. Have two jobs and go to college. Trying to improve my SMV buts it’s still pretty darn low. Right now I haven’t gained any muscles since I’ve been cutting these past couple months. Started at 252 now I’m 211. I’m 6’5. About 15-20 pounds more and I’ll be low BF and I’m going to lift hard and eat everything in my path.

Well anyway, yes I was thinking about going to a bar by myself. Just as a “experiment” for me. Get out of my head and put myself in an uncomfortable. I’m going to with intention of getting laid. (But that’d be awesome). I’m going to sit down, have a few jack and cokes and just enjoy the atmosphere. Don’t think I’ll talk to anyone unless they talk to me first. I just want to ease myself into this. In fact I’m going to a bar that’s known for marketing to the older crowd. Mostly 30-50 year olds. Hey I love MILFs so there’s still be woman to look at.

What do you all think? Waste of time for a guy like me?

[-] Terdmuffin 6 Points 4 months ago

I’m never gone to a bar by myself

This is exactly the reason you should.

[-] ttann71 5 Points 4 months ago

Do it. I’m a bouncer at a bar in my city. No one cares if you’re alone, and most of the time I couldn’t even tell you who is alone/who isn’t. Sit at the bar make conversation with the people around you.

[-] adam-l 2 Points 4 months ago

Try social dancing. Take some salsa lessons, or whatever you can find. Gives you a social circle, a subject to make small talk about, and the chance to go out alone at nights and meet people comfortably.

[-] btrpb 1 Point 4 months ago

Fucking do it. And DO fucking talk to someone. Talk to the other lonely guy sat at the bar gawping into his phone. Practice conversation.

[-] AWorseManThanYou 1 Point 4 months ago

I got good by going out by myself. You gotta be on your game go assimilate into a group and learn to handle AMOGing. (Learning how to handle AMOG is the most important skill. It translates to so many areas of game.)

It’s trial by fire, but you don’t get a better education. Expect to bomb at first. Keep going out. You’ll learn what works and what doesn’t.

[-] FereallyRed 1 Point 4 months ago

I hit up bars solo all the time.

Sit at the bar, chat with the bartender, waitresses. Talk to your nearby fellow patrons. A simple, "How's your night going?" often opens the gates.

Then you're in. I've had conversations about cutting edge battery tech because the guy is doing the bleeding edge work. I've talked cars, viagra, the economy, beers, you name it. Often you have to pull away from "guy talk" to keep your eyes open for fresh women.

You're now part of the group. You get introduced to the girlfriends and wives and their friends. Get the digits.

Nobody goes to a bar to be antisocial.

Do it.

[-] THEMIDLANDMAN 1 Point 4 months ago

Just started doing it myself, picking out random places I have never been to before. Rating places based on what happened in there and the general "feel". Returning to the good ones and has just started to get talking to new people.

It takes a while but I believe it will reap it's rewards if I stick at it.

[-] BigJohnnyCockRamPHD -3 Point 4 months ago

Let’s see... you’re a grown man asking strangers on the internet as to what you should do with your life. Why don’t you man up and do what YOU want to do. Now if you can’t figure out what you want to do you were clearly born the wrong gender and should address that