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Me: Oh, so you a sassy chick huh? I like sassy chicks but still think I could teach you a lesson ;)
Her: put me in my place Daddy
Me: Oh you want it rough huh!
Her: lolol I wish I was easy but I don’t tell ????
Me: I guess I’ll have to find out the hard way then
Her: Eh, haven’t been slutty up until now so I don’t see a point in starting ya feel? Idk also more valued if you don’t spread your legs to the public
It seems like some last minute resistance. Just not sure how to combat it. Any advice?
mallardcove 5y ago
You should have escalated to logistics immediately after
Instead you cock blocked yourself by continuing with the banter which cooled things off.
Another issue.
On dating apps you need to be able to get something - a number, logistics, and/or meetup - sooner rather than later. Some say 5 messages or less, I don't like to put a strict number of messages, but it needs to be fast. She has dozens of other guys likely hitting her up at the same time. Shit or get off the pot
Less is more when it comes to shit like this.
TheRedPillRipper 5y ago
Hahaha! Pinching this bad boy for The Throne Room.
Anonymous8675 5y ago
Solid advice. Lesson learned. So should I abandon ship or is there something I could respond that may save the interaction?
SirKolbath 5y ago
Respond with logistics only: “I’m going to XXXX bar on YYYY night for live music. I’ll pick you up at 7:30.” Once there, escalate as normal. Ignore what she has said and focus only on what she does.
She might ghost between now and then. She might not.
vullnet123 5y ago
I've been trying the 5 message or less but I feel like you need to build rapport, especially with girls my age (21 under). The only time I get numbers is when I talk a bit with them
hazelstein 5y ago
Yeah I agree, I am trying to figure out that same thing because I don't like to waste time texting and knowing people over text.
gregoire_ 5y ago
You came off as more interested in sexting than being about the action. Strike while the iron is hot. Take it off tinder and set something up asap
FereallyRed 5y ago
You text too much.
bigboxguy 5y ago
She’s not interested enough in you. Just banter on tinder. I have it all the time with girls. All the people saying you texted too much is cope. If she’s down to meet up, you could text her for hours and she still will.
WiredT 5y ago
Sounds more like slut barrier. If she’s serious she just wants you to work a little for it. Take the topic off sex, now that you have a peer into her” ideals”. Her bs ideals.. or you could Say “Public? Ig I feel you but once I find out we vibe, Itll just be me and you in private. “ She low key is tryn to display gf material a little too hard in my opinion. Sort of a red flag.
INNASKILLZ2K18 5y ago
Too much text. You throw out logistics, or ask for a number. See if she's for real, or not.
You're giving her time and attention, and you're also showing your cards. She knows she can have you, so there is no mystery or chase for her. You also look thirsty.
Women often don't like to be direct, it triggers her anti-slut defence. (after you fuck her, it gets different).
Don't try to fuck her over text...you do that in person.
Search for 'OmLaLa's guide to Tinder'. If you can find it, he was great at Tinder.
bluefingerblue 5y ago
Be about that action boss. Too much banter. You activated her anti slut defense and shot your dick off. No need to get so sexual before you meet. Save that shit for in person interaction.