Lasted 2 months. She left me, I didn't chase. I hit the gym and started improving myself. It's been 3 months now and I find myself in a pussified mood where I feel like I need her to make me feel better. She was pretty hot and I have trouble finding someone as physically attractive.
I've compiled a list of reasons for why she'd make a terrible partner and nothing more than a plate. I've been looking over them but I still find myself missing her:
- lazy and no willpower; "intermittent fasting does not work for me because people call me out to eat and it is too hard to say no"
- bad at sex: does not move, just lays in place and moans with an occasional "oh baby"
full back tattoo, roman numeral tattoo that she claimed was friend's bday, got tattoo of an anime character on the back of her arm - mentioned having escort and sugarbaby friends, doesn't seem to think there's anything wrong with it: "i have a friend on seeking arrangement that just LOVES it!" "i've met a few escorts and they seem fine" "yeah i would love to run an escort business"
- wears $500 gucci belts despite not having a well-paying job
- does not add value to my life
How can I better overcome being a bitch?
I deleted her number so I wouldn't be tempted to message her.
MrAgamemnon 5y ago
By meeting new women.
TheRedPillRipper 5y ago
u/sd_ta3 you've written a lot about her but not much about you. Missing someone you had feelings for is normal. How you go about processing these emotions, then using this experience to propel yourself forward is the key.
Acknowledge your emotions. Loss happens but change is good if you frame it as such. e.g. Man she was hot. I did well..
I won't go into social media and it's time-sinking black hole effect but I'll end by saying; focus all your energy not on the old; but building the new.
Godspeed and good luck!
INNASKILLZ2K18 5y ago
This chick sounds like one giant red flag. Seriously, she could compete in the Olympics for China she needs to be draped in a Red Flag that badly.
I would have nexted her and her 'friends' into the black hole called 'nextville' - do not pass go and do not collect $200.
The problem isn't her, it's something within you. Maybe you lack self esteem or confidence, maybe you feel 'less then'. Whatever it is within you, it's convincing you that having her would make you feel better. The old trick of 'seeking something outside yourself to fill a void'.
You have to work out whatever it is within you. Try to get some self-awareness. When you discover what your core issue is, you can begin working on it FROM WITHIN.
partynextdoor1 5y ago
Banging other girls has helped me
huggyblossom 5y ago
You hit the gym harder and you hit on girls.
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IT'S A NUMBERS GAME MATE - having only 1 option is deadly. Even in life you have 2 options - to live or die.
WiredT 5y ago
Yeah in your case monk mode isnt good to get over a chick. You need more chicks to get over her. Its really the sex and shit you miss bro. That first reason didnt make much sense to me, but she doesn’t sound like a keeper at all.
McDrMuffinMan 5y ago
It's gonna suck for a while, but find your friends, find some hobbies and push though it. You'll be a better man for it
PossiblyBreathing 5y ago
Get on Tinder and bang girls with a lower smv than yourself. Eventually you'll get talking to a girl who's your equal and you'll forget all about this one.
blackkzeus 5y ago
Why do you think she left you?
DiggerClam 5y ago
How can you look at someone's insta who's blocked?
goomerall3 5y ago
This is weird. Missing her? What does this emotion feel like?
nu121x 5y ago
Shut up, faggot.
goomerall3 5y ago
Sorry I hurt your teeny weeny feelings, drama queen
duck_tales 5y ago
being a passive aggressive bitch. other guy is a teeny weeny drama queen.
goomerall3 5y ago
Man that hurt so bad I need heart surgery. Good job