The moment where you did something, even though it felt wrong to do, and it totally worked.
For me it was when I was texting a girl who I KNEW had a boyfriend. Relationships were sacred to me. Cheating was one of the worst things you could do.
"You wanna go for a ride with me?" "I can't. I have to study." "Shouldn't that be, 'I can't, I have a boyfriend.'?" I was like "HA, ZING. GOT THAT BITCH." Then she texted back. "I really want to see you."
Oh... Oh wow. It baffled me. This particular event is completely innocent compared to what I've done since then, but that was the moment that made me start devouring and practicing RP philosophy.
SlickJamesBitch 9y ago
Actually helped me at work I always got shit from the HBs I work with, became really assertive, got respect.
[deleted] 9y ago
find red pill after 1 year dry spell.
go out two weeks later
try red pill
Mudmen12 9y ago
This deserves a FR
Offensive_Brute 9y ago
when I went to the supermarket in work boots and a tshirt with a company logo and noticed a woman stalking me throughout the supermarket. I even doubled back to different areas to make sure I wasnt just being paranoid, and then she ended up behind me in the checkout line too. She was a little too old and a little too fat, and not pretty enough in the face, or well enough dressed to compensate, so I did not engage if you're wondering.
Dreamtrain 9y ago
A girl I met that I'm not interested into because she wants a LTR, I've flat out told her I don't want a girlfriend a couple times, unintentional dread game from my lack of interest, which turned into a bit more intentional and added in some negging, mentioned seeing other girls time to time (half truth, they were actually women I was friend zoned by), all to see how far I could take it, how she would respond, I expected her to lose interest and would rather seek a nice guy who focused on just one girl, as I was still not 100% sure about RP despite having read it, it hadn't sunk in yet completely and to me surprise she is all over me. That really did it for me, to see it really work.
She has been VERY tempting, she tries to nudge me into going further with her and describing pretty much how she wants my former more BP self and how she'd love if I were more like him. But I can't, you'd have to plug me back in and erase my memory. I just don't see or feel the world the same anymore.
Beastly_Squirrel 9y ago
I was on the phone with my LDR and we started talking hot and heavy. She put up some resistance but I pushed through aggressively. She asked me why I was being so sexy. She had no idea that she had tied her own noose with those words because I cut all contact within the next week. Feels good men.
This just goes to show how lame I used to be, but I have come so far in the past 6 months.
xxTin 9y ago
WHY
Beastly_Squirrel 9y ago
Long Distance Relationships are like having imaginary friends.
Meglomaniac 9y ago
After spending 9 months trying to digest TRP and get back with my oneitus girl and flailing at thin air, I scored a threesome with 2 metal chicks that were a LOT easier to deal with and totally pain/stress free.
My co-workers were completely jealous and it was a huge score for me.
redbluepilling 9y ago
The Japanese have finally finished those androids, eh?
[deleted] 9y ago
The day that the screen door hit my fat bitch of an ex-wife on the ass.
Meglomaniac 9y ago
Shoulda went to Counselling, you would have been able to fix it. You must be unhappy with all the young women in your life.
Offensive_Brute 9y ago
Real men deal with bullshit from jaded old cunts!
UrNameIsToby 9y ago
And they're all skinny and stuff too. Gross. You can tell where their face ends and neck begins. Disgusting.
joe_bruised_ego 9y ago
Any man who won’t date a 45 year old obese princess is just a dudebro neckbeard pedophile who can’t handle mah curves.
whoops_fap 9y ago
Ew. Just puked a bit.
magicalbird 9y ago
Seeing beta friends get cheated on constantly
Seeing female friends constantly admiring alphas
Pushnikov 9y ago
I always knew RP worked, but believed there was a better way than being a "jerk".
The day I knew it worked is when I had 5 plates lined up one day after the other all ready to fuck.
Veqq 9y ago
I was 16, my first girlfriend and still my oneitis after not having seen her in 4 years, told me how stupid every other guy she'd ever met was and she liked having guys take her out to really expensive restaurants just to see what they'd give even though she'd never kissed anyone til me (I do doubt that part a little, but it does seem plausible, oh well) which promptly led us to 8 awesome dates where the beta guy paid for me and her, with him as a third wheel... Highschool was weird.
[deleted] 9y ago
I was in a club talking to a girl, while she goes "Oh, I know him, I'll be right back" all of a sudden and just leaves me standing there. I just think "let's try this" and approach another girl right next to me. Girl number 1 saw it and instantly came running back to me. That was the moment that made me just go "damn, that stuff works".
stm08 9y ago
[deleted] 9y ago
If I had a dime for every girl that said I'm not usually into muscles but...
dmt267 9y ago
The last one, couldn't agree more
samep04 9y ago
Took a cue from Christian McQueen's blog. told a fwb that knew I was just coming over for dinner and dessert to wait at her door with only her panties on, blindfolded, kneeling. When I knocked, she opened the door, I close it behind me and stick myself in her mouth. I used and abused her the whole night. At points I was straight rude and demanding.
She ate it up and keeps telling me how unbelievably sexy it was.
That's when I knew that TRP works; being a commanding alpha makes the panties wet.
RobertCarraway 9y ago
You. Kick. Ass. You have inspired me sir. I've never been into "spinning plates" but my recent fascination with TRP has warmed me up to the idea. I had this whole plan about how I was going to make an excuse to visit a city 2 hours away just to call up a girl who had previously offered herself to me back in college (I denied) and suggest we get a drink. All so I can get that plate spinning. Fuck that shit. I know what she wants. I think I'll just call her and tell her that she's coming to my city, and that she's going to spend the night, and that if she knows what's good for her she'll show up with without panties, holding a six pack of old chub. This is gonna be good.
[deleted] 9y ago
Not sure if the truth... If so, mad props bro.
dousche 9y ago
Well it was quite a while ago. I was already applying trp to some extent but I had spent an evening reading up on everything on here.
I was at a bar. Without disclosing too many details, i was sitting with this blonde and her friend that had a boyfriend (my buddy banged her still later that evening). I kept talking to this blonde. She kept acting hard to get. I tried to get her number, but she seemed to not be interested. She said to me no sorry not gonna happen. I though fuck it, let's try some of this RP- shit. I started being cocky to her, without saying it to her face just hinting that she wasn't all that, escalating up until a moment when in the context i pulled her closer, looked her in the eyes, and did this half dramatic speech. I told her she's decent and whatnot, but not really my type. -You're too blonde, girl. You know what I prefer? Dark haired middle eastern chicks (yes I am middle eastern). I prefer that strict religious chick that sneaks out the back door to go to a party and get fucked up, and I like to give them all they want. That really gets me going. Just get the most strictly raised dark haired beauty and just bang the years of religious supression out of her.
I said this while keeping long eye-contact with her and pulling her platinum-blonde hair lightly and a grin on my face.
I later got a call from a friend of mine, told her it's a lady friend of mine that needs help and that we might see eachother later. Like, maybe. Now I was hard to get, not her. She threw her phone at me for the number and then went for a kiss trying to french me right there outside the bar.
Needless to say, I fucked her good later that night.
TL;DR BANGED BLONDE 8 BY SAYING I'M NOT INTO BLONDES
Holy hell am I glad I found this sub.
RedArgonaut 9y ago
Going through old threads. This is by far my favorite story here. Thanks for sharing.
user0159 9y ago
This was before I even knew what red pill was. Ended up having some classes with this girl so we quickly became friends. First thing she ever said to me was if I knew her boyfriend since I used to go to the same school as him. Didn't know him though. Her being taken I genuinely didn't give a fuck which made her want me so bad. One night she obviously wanted to fuck and I didn't give it to her being beta. Turned out to be good because I talk mad shit and she wants to see me deliver, literally asking me to fuck her so next time I fucked her brains out. It was entertaining laying in bed when he'd call and they'd chat, then I'd just fuck her right after. One night I hit her up to hang out after work, but she's busy for awhile. I told her that I'd probably just go home then and just chill there. She was livid for whatever reason. I told her we aren't dating and I had no obligation to wait on her. That shut her right up and things went well for a few months. Eventually the three of us end up at the same school and she decided she couldn't do this anymore after he didn't like us hanging out so much. Now they are married, poor guy.
topspeedj 9y ago
Accidental RP behaviour pre TRP looking back is pretty funny. I met up with this one girl a few times, kissed her and then never really bothered texting her or contacting her, because I didn't really care about her. In fact a few times I was just straight up insulting. But she was always up for meeting up, and dropped pretty much everything to come round.
[deleted] 9y ago
Filmed an amateur porno with a girl. Then after the multiple orgasms, she vented to me about how her boyfriend wants her to go down on him but she just isn't down and that's why they have so many fights. Did I mention we filmed a porno? Or that we met 3 days prior to that? Or that now they're back together. And I still have the porno (;
[deleted] 9y ago
Sex with a chick I was friendzoned by for two years. I described it like Neo seeing the code in the hallway.
vorverk 9y ago
What just blew my mind is when I pulled the L card on a girl I was orbiting for months. No sex, constant shit tests, deep in oneitis, started reading TRP material. Still in denial, but I said, fuck it, let's try this.
Approxiamate texts:
Her shittesting: "I'm going to go and find another guy for hugging."
Me: "Sure, go ahead"
Her: "What?"
Me: "Bye bye"
Her: "Are you serious?"
Me: "You're still here? Chop chop, go now..."
Her: "Why are you acting like this?"
Me: "You can come at 8pm and I'll fuck you, but then go find someone else for hugging"
Her: "At first I wanted to come, but now that you're acting like this, I'm not sure anymore."
Me: "Then go find someone else"
Her: "Just act normal please"
Me: "I don't have time for this. Let me know till 5pm if you're coming or not."
Her: "I would come and bring new panties, but I'm not coming just to get fucked. I want hugging too."
Me: "Bring the panties."
Her: "OK at 8?"
Me: "Yes."
She came. We fucked. I did cuddle after. But the pill worked and it blew my mind. Months of orbiting, oneitis, pain... got me to second base - a friendzone kind. Few alpha I-don't-give-a-fuck texts and she comes to my house to fuck me. Like a totally different person. This shit's amazing.
[deleted] 9y ago
Bring the movies reference?
vorverk 9y ago
budi badi movi what?
joe_bruised_ego 9y ago
What does the “L” stand for?
-drukpa-kunley- 9y ago
Usually "Taking the L" means taking the loss. In other words he was willing to take the loss and lose the girl.
The person who is willing to leave has the most power in a relationship.
joe_bruised_ego 9y ago
Cool, thanks, got what it meant that from context, didn’t know what the L specifically stood for- I guessed “take the leave”
gohammer3 9y ago
I remember my senior year of college I was completely focused on self improvement and I stopped going after girls, completely ignoring them. Even though I wasn't trying I got more pussy then the previous three years combined, girls would legit gravitate towards me because I was focused on myself.
Pyrocyde 9y ago
I've noticed this too with myself.
[deleted] 9y ago
It was when two women that had friendzoned me before started talking how different I was and how more manly I seemed to be.
[deleted] 9y ago
Relationships may not be sacred, but you're still a dick.
Mr_Get_Right 9y ago
I agree that flirting with girls that I -know- are in relationships is a bad thing to do. I've done it more, since that first time. Every time the girl always reacts positively, even when I talk directly about their boyfriend. Shit man, ESPECIALLY when I talk about their boyfriends.
I haven't taken it past flirting yet, and don't intend to. I'm just shocked that so many girls, especially "nice" girls, go right for it. It's been enough that I'll never look at having a girlfriend the same again.
aaron_the_just 9y ago
The complete joke of the modern boyfriend/girlfriend is the farthest thing I can think of from "sacred".
A more apt description would be "profane"
[deleted] 9y ago
I consider myself one of the more moral members of TRP, so I'll say this: yes, cheating, whether you are the cheater or the person you are cheating on with, is bad. However, let's not mistake TRP with bad morals. TRP is about gendered behavior and men's reactions to it. Some redpillers cheat, some do not. It does not affect the effectiveness of RP.
What you're seeing in people like OP is the elation of seeing the light - at this point, other concerns go out the window. It's the same thing as all the Tumblr cis hate. It's lashing out.
There are number of resources of moral redpillers. My favorite is Dalrock; a married, Christian, redpill blogger.
tl;dr RP does not necessarily make you immoral.
[deleted] 9y ago
I never said it does make you immoral. I said that OP is a dick. The downvotes do suggest that the majority of people here are dicks too. When I say "hey, that's fucked up" they defend themselves like babies that I just took candy from. These women aren't candy. Stop fucking with cheating bitches or there will always be cheating bitches. I'm glad there are at least a few of us who haven't lost our minds.
[deleted] 9y ago
Yes, RP is very new and raw for some of these people, and is very hard to swallow. They defend other RPers, even those that do immoral action, with zeal. However, I think this is because of the siege mentality that we RPers are under, being constantly insulted and dismissed by feminists and white knights. It is better to defend an immoral action than to lose the ideal that brings us together in the first place, at least that's the sense that I have gotten over the years I have been here.
It's a tough call - Schadenfreude is very alluring.
[deleted] 9y ago
Is schadenfreude alluring to you? The way I see it, girls that cheat aren't even worth my time. It's just not a tough call for me.
[deleted] 9y ago
In general, yes. Not this particular Schadenfreude, but I would say that it would have been 20 years ago, if I was RP.
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[deleted] 9y ago
Would that it were that we had so much power.
You can't make a woman do something she doesn't want to do.
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[deleted] 9y ago
No one can con an honest man. Same way, if there was a way to make a woman do something she didn't innately want to do, patent it and make millions.
Either women have agency or they don't. So, which'll it be?
[deleted] 9y ago
These guys think that just because a woman has the ability to justify cheating, it's cool for them to make themselves available for the woman to cheat with.
We always talk about how women don't have the sense of honor or empathy that men have. Some of you fuckers around here don't have it either. We talk about how beta men are responsible for women being the way they are because they enable the behavior. We are just as fucking bad.
johnnight 9y ago
Holding yourself to the rules of honor in a land of the honorless is stupidity.
E.g. I am not stealing from shops. I adhere to the rules of society. But if society failed in an apocalyptical scenario, it would be foolish NOT to loot.
What we have right know is an era of sexual anarchy aka freedom. The problem is not as much that looters are raiding. The problem is that the person that is supposed to hold the fort, the woman, is letting looters in and society is cheering her on. I may lament this, but I can not deny it. We have MGTOWs saying: I can not have a fort with you woman, because you can not be trusted to hold it. It makes more sense for me to go nomad.
The red pill is acknowledging, that there is looting going on outside. Some decide to obey these new rules of this lawless society, some want to stay away from it. I can not call this looting honorless, because having honor implies adhering to rules and the rules are right now out of the window.
You are speaking blue pill, when you deny her agency in this. It's her, who has all the power, the total power over her body, but you are infantilizing her. All she has to do is to say no to the offer. It's the easiest thing.
[deleted] 9y ago
One response says I'm BP for infantilizing women, the other says women are animals with no self control. Which is it?
[deleted] 9y ago
You bring up a very important point for discussion in the ongoing battle of the sexes, but believe you're catching redpillers in some sort of cognitive dissonance, as if we're all in lockstep with the rules.
So yes: which is it, red and blue pillers? Should women have agency or protected status? (There's no easy answer, of course.)
bradyo2 9y ago
Grow some fucking testicles you woman.
[deleted] 9y ago
Because I suggest we demonstrate the honor that we claim to have all the time?
bradyo2 9y ago
I don't claim to have any honour. I do what's best for me, and only me. Honour is a white-knight buzzword.
Why is it my problem if some broad can't control her emotions enough to not cheat on her boyfriend?
[deleted] 9y ago
You're right. It's not your problem. Hopefully your not one of the guys that complain about women and ask why they do that shit, because you're partially responsible.
bradyo2 9y ago
Cry me a river
Offensive_Brute 9y ago
mad because you got cheated on? dont be. Shes just a collection of holes for your amusement. Don't expect anything more and she will never disappoint you. The mistake is buying into all that women are people too bullshit. Women are domesticated animals. they serve a number of useful purposes, but will inevitably shit the rug. Understand this, and free yourself from the anger and pain. She cant be more than what she is, and you are wrong for expecting her to be.
[deleted] 9y ago
I haven't been cheated on. If women are so simple, why can't we stop giving them the option to "shit the rug". I make sure I'm the best man my woman will ever find. I do it without fucking other women, and I damn sure don't fuck women that another man is with. If I had been doing that, I wouldn't have found this girl. Not only do I not understand why you guys fuck with bitches like that. But I also don't understand why we turn around and complain that they are like that.
Offensive_Brute 9y ago
You are... TheFist ofThe North Star. Lolol
[deleted] 9y ago
Wrong sub. /r/emotionalbetas is what you're looking for
[deleted] 9y ago
I'm an emotional beta because I can say to myself "I'd rather stay away from this cheating bitch"? You defend your actions like these girls are worth something to you.
[deleted] 9y ago
What actions? All I did was point you to a sub where people might actually care about your feelings
[deleted] 9y ago
I'm done preaching to you guys. Continue to fuck worthless women if that's what you want.