Year into my LTR, and this was the first time I had to set a firm boundary on her - she didn't take it well.

In the past, her and some of her friends would do blow and when that was disclosed to me, I made it subtly clear that I didn't want a LTR that did it. Since getting into a LTR with her, she stayed away from it until recently when she went out with her friend. I know this friend of her does it quite a bit, so after they went out I asked her if she ended up doing some as well. She was honest and said she did, and that she was sorry.

From there I told her "I don't want a girlfriend that does cocaine , I'm drawing the line on that. Don't do it anymore". Her response was okay, however she thinks that I'm being controlling.