I'm talking hundreds of matches the first couple of weeks of opening accounts. Up to fucking three new girls per week. 100 percent of my fucks, plates etc all come from online dating. Why? Because I don't need to approach in real life. A lot of Red Pill guys underestimate what's possible with dating apps. I'm here to shed some light.
Thisismybot8
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bigflame123 5y ago
How do we know you’re not trolling?
Thisismybot8 5y ago
Look at my post history. My account has been around for awhile.
bigflame123 5y ago
Okay I see you’re genuine, so I’ve got a couple of questions:
1) is texting always strictly for logistics or do you need to build some rapport?
2) What sort of pics so you recommend/avoid, should you remove all selfies from your profile?
3) Is tinder gold a scam? As my account hasn’t had high HB matches in a while which makes me think of deleting and starting over?
4) Is it all just about having a good physique?
Thisismybot8 5y ago
It depends on the vibes you get from the girl. Some are very easy. 95% of women need you to build at least some rapport before meeting and fucking you. This comes down to being witty, patient when replying, maintaining frame, and passing shit tests, just like you would at a bar. She has to know you have some actual value before fucking you, unless you're a straight up model which I am not.
Honestly it doesn't matter. They just have to be relatively high quality pics where your face looks good. Definitely target your better angle if you have one. I straight up have 4 selfies only showing my face, one selfie showing my whole body and one taken by a friend at a stadium. That last one is my main picture. I'm also smiling in that picture. I smile in one other one but that's it. My personal experience with this set of photos has been tremendous. So don't let anyone tell you to get rid of all selfies.
Logistics like that are tricky. I've been using hinge as my main app nowadays. I will say, whatever tier gives you unlimited swipes in any app is worth it.
Not in my case. I'm relatively fit but that's it. As a matter of fact, I'm probably 10 pounds over what I should be ideally. The one pic showing my body is in black jeans and a white polo.
Joeboard 5y ago
You in NYC or SF?
Thisismybot8 5y ago
By NYC, so technically competing with "the best" according most red pillers on this sub.
Rapp5601 5y ago
How good would you say you looked on a scale from 1-10? How muscular?
Thisismybot8 5y ago
According to the true rate me subreddit, my face is a 6.5, which is actually really high because they have stupid high standards.
My body is probably slightly above average but that's it.
Startlivingfornow 5y ago
Basically, I am genetically gifted AMA. Absolutely 0 game to tinder n plow when you have that many matches . . . It’s like a salesman saying I can close 3 out of every 50 hot leads, let me tell you how
No, anyone that’s been in sales for more than 90 days can close any marginally hot lead
Thisismybot8 5y ago
Incels always think it's the easiest thing in the world once you have a match, it's not.
SpinPlates 5y ago
I got on tinder in 2012. Since then I've had over 15,000 matches.
There is no great secret to tinder. Just be good looking. I'm a published male model and my profile is nothing but professionally shot photos of me.
I matched with a 7/10 Asian girl yesterday. Got her insta and steered the conversation sexual immediately and we are scheduling a fuck session whenever she comes back to my city in a few weeks.
80/20 rule is real.
Thisismybot8 5y ago
Thanks for being honest. I agree about the 80 20 rule. However like I said before, I'm not a model. I'm probably between the top 10 and 20 percent. With that said, I still have to pass shit tests and outsmart the women I want as well as men I compete with if I want to fuck as many women as I would like to. I actually prefer it this way because it keeps me on my toes and keeps me sharp.
SpinPlates 5y ago
You can find "experiments" on YouTube where guys make catfish accounts with gorgeous 10/10 male models and say they are convicted pedophiles in their bios and women let it slide. Its so easy to fuck if you're good looking.
Case in point Jeremy Meeks.
Thisismybot8 5y ago
Yeah I've definitely seen that stuff.
anal_coke 5y ago
Fascinating
AstuteBlackMan 5y ago
What would you describe your smv as currently?
Do you post your job, status, or show your wealth in photos?
Is it purely looks to obtain tinder matches?
How many matches do you get and how many have you succeeded in fucking?
Thisismybot8 5y ago
It's definitely above average but nothing incredible. I'm 5'10 but put 6'0 on my profiles and get away with it.
I'm a pharmacist and have that on my profile sometimes but the women are usually too stupid to even notice that because they still ask what I do.
I'm nothing close to jacked, just a healthy looking dude.
My strengths are my face and texting game. My face is probably in the top 20%, my text game is probably the top 10%.
Sometimes I post my job but that's it. I could be more flashy but I haven't had the need to do that yet.
I'm not going to lie, it's pretty fucking critical. Make sure your face looks it's absolute best in your photos.
I get more than enough, to the point where when I get bored, I swipe some more and get a few more. If I wanted, I could fuck three different women this week. I'm busy though and try to meet a new one every week or two.
BrodinsOats 5y ago
Where are you located?
I get really shitty results with Tinder. Majority of matches I’m not especially attracted to. The few that I am attracted to either don’t respond, or don’t seem interested in their responses.
I feel like I’m decent looking and my pictures are okay. Sometimes I have to wonder if my locale (Los Angeles) is just ultra competitive or something.
Thisismybot8 5y ago
LA is probably very competitive. I'm in the northeast next to two big cities and several colleges. Of course, I think my location helps because it's a numbers game.
UnluckySand 5y ago
Someone posted on the main sub that the ratio is set up so that 80% of the women compete for 20% of the guys. Essentially if you're not a top 20% guy then you're fucked. How do us non 20% guys compete? How do I know if I'm a 20% male?
Apfeltee 5y ago
Well I guess you know you belong the top 20% percent, when firstly top tier girls match you and secondly they will also go out on dates with you.
Thisismybot8 5y ago
I think you need to spend forget about dating apps for a bit and work on yourself if you're not getting matches. Get better looking and get your finances in check.
UnluckySand 5y ago
I already have decent finances I just don’t know how to show that on my profile. Wear a suit? Add my job?
Thisismybot8 5y ago
Have you optimized your body and grooming? Make sure that's all on point first. Make sure you have good photos of your face. Do that before relying on your finances. If you're still struggling, I would say then you should add your job, wear a suit and maybe show off your car if you have a nice one.
Thunderfin 5y ago
I get a lot of tinder matches, girls ranging from 6 to 8 too, but can't convert a match to a meet up. Advice?
thealmightymalachi 5y ago
Don't be so much of an asshole.
Thisismybot8 5y ago
If I had to guess, you're not passing shit tests, appear too eager to meet, respond too quickly, aren't agreeing and amplifiying or deflecting etc. You can pm me screenshots of your convos or post them here and I can tell you what I would have done.
MisterMarbles1988 5y ago
These seem to be sticking points for me too. Especially being too eager to meet. How much banter/rapport building do you do before suggesting a meetup?
Thisismybot8 5y ago
Good question. It depends on the vibes I'm getting. Most times I get the number the same day or the day after we matched. I'd say a good convo with chemistry can be as short as 4 or 5 messages from each of you to a whole hour or two of texts. I try to get it while it's hot. BUT I always try to get the convo sexual to see how she reacts and if she'll be worth my time. That saves everyone time.
VisualCreme2 5y ago
How do you turn the conversation sexual? Any examples?
Thunderfin 5y ago
I will pm you stuff. Cheers
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Thisismybot8 5y ago
That's beneficial to no one. Ask specific questions.
Vikingcel 5y ago
It's beneficial to everyone. We could assess your bio and pics and emulate.
You're likely just very good looking and your 'special tinder tips' boild down to being fit and handsome, thus useless to 90% of RPers.
Thisismybot8 5y ago
There's nothing insanely special about me or my profile. Yes I'm good looking but I'm not model tier. You can ask questions and assess if my responses are worth shit or not.
Vikingcel 5y ago
Tldr be good looking
Thisismybot8 5y ago
Tldr pretend the entirety of your shitty life is shitty because you were dealt the wrong cards. Here's my advice, accept whoever the fuck you currently are and do something about it.
Vikingcel 5y ago
What's this have to do with my life? Are you just mad?
Fine. I'm ugly and could never pull from tinder like you (maybe if I was 225lbs shredded).
That has nothing to do with you thinking you tapped into some Necronomicon tier secrets, while you're just good looking. As you said, you have selfies showing only your face and a clothed full body shot. You also say you're not extra fit.
Why do you think you do good on tinder?
PrequeIMeme 5y ago
Found the incel
Vikingcel 5y ago
Congrats, you're literate.
Thisismybot8 5y ago
I don't have secrets. I have experience. I know how to pass shit tests and show value in a conversation. I'm not here to tell you how to get matches. I'm here to tell you how to close the deal.
Vikingcel 5y ago
That's the easy part
Thisismybot8 5y ago
Okay
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Thisismybot8 5y ago
Here's the thing, I actually take a look at their profile. This lets me evaluate how easy they might be and I plan out how aggressive I can be accordingly. I use pick up lines I like (see my profile submissions to the tinder subreddit and check out that subreddit in general) every now and then if I'm bored and want to have some fun. But most of the time I tailor it to them. It's usually about a feature I like about them or something in their profile. It's also usually back handed so I might say something like "some of your photos caught my attention". This implies that some of them didn't and gets her hamster spinning and when that happens she's fallen into my world. From there, maintening frame is easier, especially if you're still new to some of this.
SATHelpPlz 5y ago
how to get the number? do u just tease and then ask for it or what? also, when is it appropriate to ask for it?
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thanks and keep slaying
Thisismybot8 5y ago
Getting the number is nice because it can set you apart but it's not even necessary. I've hooked up with women just by texting through the app.
Having said that, you can either go for it early if you have a high smv or you have to be patient and pass some shit tests before telling her (not asking) to give it to you. Maintaining frame is critical for building rapport.
You definitely have to approach the situation like you are light years above her in terms of smv. That is the ONLY way she will respect you. Like I said, most guys will need to build some rapport first. I say get it (don't ask, say give me your number) if the conversation has flown well. Specifically, if you've passed maybe at least 5 shit tests, you should get her number. Again, no need to force it.
MisterMarbles1988 5y ago
Can you expand on this. Specifically, what kinds of shit tests do you commonly see when chatting up girls on Tinder?
I can't remember being shit-tested much on Tinder. But I stall seriously when trying to set a date, or go for a number. Or they flake before the first date.
Thisismybot8 5y ago
Theyll just tease and challenge me a little bit. They'll always try to be smart and comment on something I say. Agreeing and amplifying as well as deflecting are all critical but eventually it is just natural. Being witty goes a long way on these apps too.
You need to make sure you know how to recognize them. Anytime they challenge anything about you, that's a shit test.
As in you wait too long? Get their number at the end of the first convo. I don't know why you have so many flakes tbh
Amiksthrowaway 5y ago
Same here brother ! Cougars and 20 year olds are my specialty. 100% close rate as well
Thisismybot8 5y ago
Beautiful. Try and tell that to most guys here and they'll just put their heads in the sand saying it's not possible.
superyute 5y ago
mind delving into your game for each?
MeatMetal 5y ago
I know it may be a tad stretch but do you kind posting an example or two of successful text game? You can obviously blur shit, but I think examples help a lot.
Thisismybot8 5y ago
I have a decent amount on my profile here. See what I've submitted to the tinder subreddit.
MeatMetal 5y ago
Thanks dude
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Thisismybot8 5y ago
I can tell you they're 100% legit. I don't post their pictures as a courtesy. If you have any specific screenshots that you want proof of, I can send you the convo with their face if I still have it on my phone or if I'm still matched with them.
Swanniie 5y ago
I also noticed this.... some of the posts also completely contradict himself.. sorry I call BS.
Thisismybot8 5y ago
Sometimes I'm feeling high, some days I'm feeling a little lower. I'm human like everyone else. My convos are legit though.