So over the last year I dated / had flings with a few bad girls and I realized I really have a thing for them. By bad girls I mean girls that exhibit any combination of the following:
- drink & party a lot
- cheaters
- multiple tattoos and/or piercings
- have daddy/commitment issues
- slutty / whorish
- no morals or values other than having fun
I've also dated a few 'good' girls over the last year too, and I appreciate them but I notice I let the bad girls take up much more of my mental bandwidth and energy. It's not dissimilar from the way a girl might have a 'nice guy' friend who does everything for her, but she still can't stop thinking about Chad who doesn't respond to her msgs.
Is it normal as a man for me to be thinking this way ? I feel like this may be some fucked up fetish or something. At the very least maybe someone here can help me snap out of spending my time & effort chasing bitches that I KNOW are going to fuck me around
anal_coke 5y ago
bad girls are more fun
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ChadTheWaiter100 5y ago
Dam bredda! That last story was even givin me a rock on!!!
waking-life 5y ago
Ah, bad girls. Some of the best sex I've ever had. Some of the biggest headfucks I've ever had.
vas_mhtro 5y ago
It's not just you, you aint special. Bad girls are more "fun", but they are a pump and dump, not nice to keep around because they cause a shit ton of drama.
SpinPlates 5y ago
Protip: Go sit in AA meetings and find court appointed party girls that caught a DWI.
OrzhovPalatine 5y ago
They're expendable and good practice, nothing more. I also hear hushed whispers some guys actually try to fix them too
brooklynbooked 5y ago
Like others said, bad girls are more exciting, but they'll eat your fucking soul. Much better to have more stable girls while you focus on your main mission.
gregoire_ 5y ago
So you’re the guy Taylor Swift was writing about
pridebrah 5y ago
Sluts are the best, you just can't fall in love with them. That's easier said than done sometimes as well, because when the sex is amazing, they worship the ground you walk on, and they're pretty cool, it can be hard to resist. Many men have fallen because of beautiful fucked up women -- it's a story old as time itself.
I too, tend to be attracted to beautiful women that have red flags or eventually reveal their flags. FWB them at best, but always keep your heart and mind at arms length realizing you're just having fun with a temporary person that you will discard at some point. Also, don't string them along with love or any bullshit so they don't key your car or light your house on fire afterward. If you can avoid that and getting them pregnant, you should be good to go.
StopGaming1234 5y ago
The harder they play to get, the more fun it is.
Proto_Sigma 5y ago
All of those things are massive turn offs personally. I'm aware of AWALT but being blatantly promiscuous, bitchy, untrustworthy and irresponsible is something I don't want to deal with, and I generally have a low tolerance for being around substance abuse. Tattoos, dyed hair and piercings are also make me go limp.
I'm not naive enough to think that there are any 'good girls' but I prefer it when a woman at least makes an effort to curb the more destructive parts of her nature and avoids marring the natural beauty of the female form.
That's just me, though. Slam whoever you want, we each have one less competitor for our desired partners.
Rkingpin 5y ago
They're link junk food
We all know they're trash, but can't deny a lot of them get ya dick hard
AWorseManThanYou 5y ago
Junk food gets your dick hard?
Irtotallynotrobot 5y ago
I like cookies now and then even though I know fruit is better for me.
W_O_M_B_A_T 5y ago
Hey, I like hangliding, but I'm not going to make an everyday career out of it. Shit's pretty risky. Had a couple real scary near misses.
Test drive bad girls, but don't buy under any circumstances. Or else prepared to get mentally fucked in the feels in ways it's best not to contemplate.
2comment 5y ago
Your type is extremely common in the west. A lot of guys wanting the hot party girl to show off or to save a hoe from herself, etc.
Blazerman_24 5y ago
It's all good, just don't fall for em.
ChadTheWaiter100 5y ago
Haha little bredda. One day you gon learn- you can’t save these hoes.