Is it possible to be “too” high value for a woman that she will reject you out of spite or fear?
Serious question. I am a young dude and I am ahead of other people my age in other aspects of life. Most women find me attractive. I could be socially autistic for all I know.
addwater 5y ago
Yes, women have success barriers and men of too high a calibre can literally scare them away or cause them to sabotage any potential relationship
alpha-zach 5y ago
Yes. But you clearly aren’t.
ChadTheWaiter100 5y ago
Ha. Dat par
redpharma7789 5y ago
Oof.
alpha-zach 5y ago
I don’t intend to be a dick, but it’s just not something you should be wondering about. It’s not useful information. If you’re there, you know it’s true and why. If you’re asking, you’ve got a lot of work to do.
bluefingerblue 5y ago
If girls sense competition for you is too high, and they’re insecure, then yes some of them will bail.
Project_Zero_Betas 5y ago
Can confirm. If they're reasonably confident there's no chance of getting a commitment out of you due to the competition, they won't even try, or worse, get outright resentful.
bluefingerblue 5y ago
I just had this happen with my least attractive plate. She knew she was bottom of the barrel with no chance of commitment. Pulled herself out of the race.
Project_Zero_Betas 5y ago
Sorry for your loss.
CherryNowAndLater 5y ago
People are giving you a hard time, but in my opinion yes....your SMV can indeed be too high. It took me a long long time to realize this for myself. Not to be a dick, but I'm a solid 8 amongst all ages, and within my own age demographic I'm a 9. My wife is the same so that helped confirm any doubts about my SMV I may have had. I could never understand why most of my life I NEVER got overtly hit on by girls, but when I'd go anywhere with a friend who was several points below me in SMV (like 5/6 dudes) I'd get clear flirtatiousness from lots of attractive girls. I finally realized it's because girls get uncomfortable around good looking guys, and my friends would provide the ice breaker they needed to talk to me. Apparently I'm a little slow on the uptake.
Blazerman_24 5y ago
If a girl sees you as a 10 out of 10, high smv, lots of money, and alpha lol, she will just be overly submissive and most likely very insecure. If your girl isn't overly submissive of you, you're not there yet.
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VasiliyZaitzev 5y ago
Yes. I've seen it happen with a buddy of mine who wanted me to go with him to approach a table full of 5s. I said, "no", and he went anyway. They all rejected him, and he doubled over in laughter.
If the disparity is too great, girls realize they will just be a pump-n-dump.
Project_Zero_Betas 5y ago
The correct answer.
FixYourselfFirst 5y ago
If you have to ask, you are not too high value.
W_O_M_B_A_T 5y ago
When you're pulling a seven figure salary, you're underwear model attractive, and fly your plates over from their home countries......you tell me.
If some girl you're dating was asked to dinner by the singer in her favorite band, would she say no?
McVaghunter 5y ago
no