I see pattern with all the girls ive been seeing. First few weeks is super awesome great sex great flow and than out of nowhere. poof. ghost. I always dont chase and let them go their own shit. Normally they find another guy but he fucks it up. So whether it be a week 3 weeks a month 5 months... they always come back for more. The bad thing is though im not full psychopath nofeelings mode yet so i end up catching feels for these girls and then i see them using me a second option. This has happened to a new girl recently.... i almost chased hard cause i really liked her but realized the pattern and ive pulled away has hard as she has. When she eventually reaches out do i even bring this shit up?
i feel fucked up.
sorry i just hate the thought and sharing intimate experiences with someone and than have them disappear out of your life randomly. I know the advice is going to be AWALT FUCK TEN OTHER BITXXXHESSS XDDDD but I seriously dont desire that. I just want something consistent and healthy.
UPDATE
welp the girl who ghosted for 7 days after me asking her if she was ok and her leaving me on read sent me a bullshit message of "my life sucks rn i need to fix it and sorry for ignoring you"
is it even worth it?
silent_dominant 5y ago
Be the first to push, before they ghost you. They go away because they know that they can always come back.
oilrigo 5y ago
she just came back what do
silent_dominant 5y ago
Fuck her then tell her to fuck off
0io- 5y ago
Models by Mark Manson is good for this sort of thing. You need to figure out what you really want and then reject or disqualify most of the girls who would be willing to have sex with you but don't fit exactly what you're looking for. Instead of passing shit tests and hooking up, you'll be eliminating most of the girls you meet and go on dates with. Quality over quantity. It will at least give you some ideas to work with.
I'm personally not convinced that this is a great idea compared to the standard Fuck Ten Other Women advice. Seems like you could do a ton of work to find the perfect girl and then she will probably AWALT her way to some other guy and want to come back to you for the D. But you don't know until you try!
Jester2552 5y ago
Currently dealing with something similar to this so I understand your struggle my man. If this isn't something you like or want then you have to set boundaries and stick to them!
StarSetEconomy 5y ago
Iron Rule of Tomassi #6 Women are utterly incapable of loving a man in the way that a man expects to be loved.
WindIsMyMusic 5y ago
AWALT-autism is a real problem here. Everyone screams AWALT way before actually reading the question, when it may be totally irrelevant.
But thtt be the karma hunters, what can you expect tho anyways
Lordvarkss 5y ago
Look, sex is good until you have way too much. Then it becomes "meh" because you've seen it all.
You are in that latter state. It's still good but you don't need it. You want something more.
Asking for women to fulfil that "something more" is a recipe for disappointment. You need to fulfil your own needs.
Herdsengineers 5y ago
Just echo'ing others in that it has as much to do with the character and values of the girls you select as anything else. If you want better than to be part of the hypergamy cock carousel at large for women in mass, then you need to be much more discerning in who to select to start with. You need to recognize that younger girls biggest asset is what's between their legs and further recognize that the girls that give that value away easily don't make healthy relationship partners.
Instead, a girl that is more discerning in who she gives herself to makes a better, healthy relationship partner. That means finding one that doesn't sleep around. And that definitely isn't found on Tinder. You gotta change up your hunting grounds to go find one, and you gotta be patient and understand it can take a long time to even meet one, much less one that you vibe well with. In the mean time, lift, develop yourself, your career, build your SMV, and protect that SMV from succubus's that will try to leech off you (that always sucks SMV away from you).
W_O_M_B_A_T 5y ago
lot of RP theory in evidence here.
> First few weeks is super awesome great sex great flow and than out of nowhere. poof. ghost.
You have a good frame and decent attractiveness, you have good game but not great. You don't have good push-then pull game. So you're a 6.5-7:10 for them. not boring but not tantalizing.
But, you're overinvesting too early which makes them feel like you don't have other options than them. She suspects that you're not really the first place prize she wants. After all nobody feels good winning a tournament with only two entrants.
Women don't like being in this situation, it makes them feel obligated even if they're attracted to you otherwise. People instinctively discount others who show signs of scarcity. That is, they get a gut feeling of "low risk = low reward." You're low hanging fruit for them. Your the third place trophy. Feminsm plus normal human narcissism will whisper that "yeah, but you could have done better, you could have got the gold if you tried just a little harder."
So if they have a chance to go after someone who acts like he has many options, they will. It's more appealing to them high risk, higher reward. Go for gold in the more prestigious tournament with more participants.
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Go for only seeing them once every two week and low communication in the beginning. Spin multiple plates.
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TRP8myfeels 5y ago
Nah it's kid shit. Once they are done riding that CC they wont leave you bb <3
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Go be a hoe and fuck a bunch of women, let women be hoes and fuck a bunch of dudes. Settle in your mid 30's with one that doesn't have children and STD's, maybe she will have a full blown career and a life and have already cut the shit out of her life, you know, like an adult would.
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Most relationships aren't meant to last, be the best person you can be all the time and hopefully you attract a few similar individuals throughout time. Trust all the others only as much as you have to, never trust anyone totally, not even yourself.
vandaalen 5y ago
Fucking cucks in here suggesting finding unicorns. fuck dat shit. Your problem is neediness.
http://archive.is/agtCP
http://archive.is/FaeIe
downvotesanimals 5y ago
They probably just don't see you as an LTR.
nexther 5y ago
You’re boring. Girls eventually realise that and move on. They want fun and thrills, they crave emotions. Lead an exciting and unpredictable life and expect girls to stick around much longer.
asktrp4433 5y ago
Even the most consistent of relationships will have setbacks. You don't have to be "full psycho nofeelings" to know when you're fucking around with a skank. Increase SMV, find some goals beyond "get a gf" and pursue them.
You met these girls off tinder / tinder-girl's associates? Don't expect to find diamonds when you're going dumpster diving lad. You get what you pay for.
bbcbarbarossa 5y ago
i wish i was chad like you
heyprestorevolution 5y ago
Healthy
The red pill
(Pick one)
Velebit 5y ago
You obviously want a relationship with a quality woman rather than stroke your own ego with getting the number of women you fucked up.
Best place for you is not all this redpilling stuff now but actually philosophy and values. Talk to women about what matters to them, where they want to go in their future, what are their values, what is their past, upbringing and who they spend time with and how are those people. Get a sense of how nurturing, smart, emotionally disciplined a woman is.
If she has no answer for these things and if she does not start connecting things after explaining, she has failed the questions or is too stupid which is again failing questions.
You want a woman that wants a relationship, commitment and has collectivist values. A girl with individualist values will prioritize herself over everything else and only measure you for how much pleasure per minute you provide her. A collectivist mindset (a religious, traditional, nationalist etc woman) will be in a mindset that when you win, she wins and will be a loyal person.
Women like that are not often found at parties, drunk and dressed like skanks. You have to understand what r selection and K selection is. Hypergamous r selected women are the stereotype of blondes going for blacks because their biology and kinks direct them towards toughness, hypergamous K selected women are the golddigger/groupie stereotype because their innate biology sends them to chase for status.
Both are examples of toxic femininity. Any man who wants to find a proper quality female partner needs to ask appropriate and sneaky questions that make women reveal what makes them go, what turns them on and what kind of environment shapes their brains, what makes then excited, happy, worried etc.
You are probably doing no filtering and relying on your dick to do choosing for you.
MattyAnon Admin 5y ago
At some point she figures you're not the best option in life.
Do you spend quality time with them? Do fun stuff together? Talk about life the universe and everything?
If not you're just a fuck and she'll look for deeper sooner or later. Not to say you have to be exclusive (you don't), but there has to be a bit more than sex.
Ok, here's an idea: do what YOU want with them as well as sex. What other stuff do you like, enjoy, wanna do? Drag them along.
NightwingTRP 5y ago
> full psychopath nofeelings mode
This is not a goal on here. Go review the better quality material. Stoicism. Not feelingless nonsense.
Blazerman_24 5y ago
Where are you meeting these women? How old are they? You might wanna start there. Also I hope you are not sending relationship vibes to early on. She should be the one bringing up a relationship not you despite if that's what you want.
Try to limit seeing women to no more than once a week initially. Let her miss you. Let her wonder what you're doing.
You have a really good problem on your hands. Just don't rush it, trust me.
Joeboard 5y ago
This happens to me too and you know what, 9/10 times there are red flags prior that I chose to ignore.
red_matrix 5y ago
These girls are riding the cock carousel, they can’t control their hypergamy. Accept women. Accept most girls will act this way. They’re like brainless butterflies just floating around: they come and go. Accept this. Accept them as plates, and plates only. Reward good behavior with attention, and pull away your attention as punishment for bad behavior. Do not ever LTR these girls. I can tell you want a gf, but you need to trust your gut and recognize the red flags. It’s hard to see how many girls are on the CC these days. Just accept it.
Mescalean 5y ago
Thank modern feminism there buddy
usernameishardtomake 5y ago
Weird flex, but okay
T-P-T-W-P 5y ago
You know that “talking” portion people refer to as the time leading up to actually dating? I basically have that with 2 or 3 chicks a good bit of the time and it’s sort of settled as my MO. I vet them enough to know they aren’t huge whores nor someone whose sole value to me is the hole between their legs. Not dating but also not just the “come/fuck/leave” combo. . For example I brought a plate of a month along to a beer tasting last night. Got a little tipsy, nice conversations, really nice fucking afterwards back at my place. Will I marry this chick or ever seriously date her? Very likely not, but I did thoroughly enjoy the experience and I’m sure she did the same regardless of what the future holds. Find chicks that aren’t huge whores and be interesting. Laying good pipe helps too.
SwoleyMoleyFrijoley 5y ago
Bro, you're not the second option. You're the first. You're getting the good sex. The betas are getting duty sex.
Casanova-Quinn 5y ago
One thing to keep in mind, to prevent the "oneitis", is to remember that these girls are hoes. Think about it, they are quickly jumping around from guy to guy looking for good dick. Are these the type of girls you want as a LTR? I don't think so.
InformalCriticism 5y ago
You're only noticing the pattern of the result. You should be looking for the patterns in what you're allowing into your life.
Just get better at picking them.
Crixusgannicus 5y ago
Better your dick than your wallet.
supersede 5y ago
you need to change your focus. you know how they say time heals all wounds? we'll the secret is it's actually sleep. focusing on getting a lot of quality sleep, and try to increase your deadlift max.
life will sort itself out on its own, get out of your head
StopGaming1234 5y ago
I had the same thing happen to me. I accepted how it is and now I find it hard to develope emotions towards anything.
mrpthrowa 5y ago
Well, she is treating you all the same, you're also fucking up which is why you are ghosted from time to time, then she goes back to the other dick, and they fuck up, and she comes back to your dick, and so forth, you could be option b, or c, or a, or whatever
It's called the cock carousel, she basically has you all on a rotation and jumps from dick to dick
nothing to do about it from your end, maintain frame, any girl who does this is not worth anything but being a plate
SubstantialBeanBoi 5y ago
western women are fucked in the head thanks to feminism and the social media arms race. they can go cock shopping on tinder and so they are in a perpetual state of thinking they can do better. Consistent and healthy is the counter-culture so you'll probably have to refine your search to a smaller pool of women.
ChadTheWaiter100 5y ago
I had girls literally tell me they just want me for sex. I’ve had girls that were hot tell me they want to have a baby with me. One girl said she just wanted my baby and I don’t even have to be in a relationship with her, she just wanted my seed. I’m not joking. They all have one thing in common though- they weren’t good girls.
The good girls, on the other hand, become extremely possessive over me. They want to own me. But I never let them awalt
StopGaming1234 5y ago
Never went softer when a girl told me "I want your baby"
ChadTheWaiter100 5y ago
This was during blue pill days for me. I was a pot head. She was sexy af. Part of me didn’t give a shit and a small part of me wanted it. As a kid- it was a “cool” thing to do. I realize now it would have been stupid. Like I said - blue pill dayz.
Ohboohoolittlegirl 5y ago
Well, depends on how you escalate. If you spin them as if they are plates, then this is a fairly reasonable thing to happen. I had a lot of women between 18-24 that I would have no contact with whatsoever, except when they called me to "come over for a movie". This is how I wanted it to be. I was clear I was gonna have sex with other women, that I did not desire having a GF and that they were awesome in bed and therefore I'd like to see them again. Most of these girls had cycles between 3-6 weeks that they would call in between. So what?
So, what did you communicate? Did you seem interested only in the physical contact, then IMO this is quite normal. If you don't want this, you'll need to learn how to show your beta side once a while to keep them close. GF's and LTR's require different game than just women you want to spin as a plate.
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oilrigo 5y ago
this was my first time i actually showed my beta side with this girl.
still got ghosted.
i probably went to beta.
i wanted to do shit other than sex with her and she would flake.
yet she would come over.
haughtyhay 5y ago
That last sentence or two is the problem. If you want an LTR, you need to be spinning plates to screen for a quality gal. If you’re dicking down women as good as you say you are, they wouldn’t withdraw attention. They’d be initiating nearly exclusively. In the words of the wise Biggie Smalls “she gonna come if she gonna cum.”
Attachment simply stems from non-abundance. Find a mission. And grind. And you won’t give a fuck about a bitch
CasaDeFranco 5y ago
My recent ex started out as a plate, I still have two other plates whilst I vetted.
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I failed to vet properly and she confessed to cheating in the first few weeks of exclusivity a year after a rather solid relationship.
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What are some approaches you use to vet? For me it was validate relationship with family, no tattoos, no excessive drinking or partying, montiors actions and not words.
haughtyhay 5y ago
I don’t believe the issue here was your vetting technique but rather your relationship game, or lack thereof. Did you get too comfortable? Did you let your SMV slip? Remember, you gotta have the mindset of “she’s not yours, it’s just your turn” in any LTR no matter how solid you think it is.
Relationship game is something Rollo writes about a lot, given the fact he’s been married for like 20 years. Get to reading
CasaDeFranco 5y ago
It happened before relationship, I was jetting stateside for work and she asked for exclusivity; until that point I was spinning plates and she was one of the three.
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If it happened months in, then sure, good point.
oilrigo 5y ago
it seems weird and specific.
these girls are young and off tinder.
they dont initiate exclusively. its actually the guys that normally do that in this culture. Its weird.
i also think there is alot of in group preference. I am teaching abroad. btw.
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TRP8myfeels 5y ago
Na I had Tinder women drop all the side dicks they had on them for me. It's definitely a level of value issue.
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My attention to detail, the level of sexual intensity, and the level of passion I bring on through my entire life is typically a mind blowing experience for most women.
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Work on loving yourself and everything that you do intensely, with detail and skill. Everything else follows that.
DiggerClam 5y ago
Why was this downvoted? Jealousy?
TRP8myfeels 5y ago
Also it's bad to ever assume any woman, no matter how good she might seem to be, might stop passing up the opportunity to fuck another man. That counts for how she was past, present and future.
That sort of mindset is one of the leading causes of a partner cheating, because 'she knows how much you love and trust her' giving her a sense of security that you will not suspect her, so she *might* not get caught and goes ahead and fucking cheats.
However it has been my experience a handful of times. I don't know many dudes on here very well, but most of them probably haven't broken the 30 LTR's mark. Lots of guys have been fucking girls, doing it right, being single and dangling the carrot. Me I used to go all in every time. I would love them, I would push them to get better, I would move them in, they would be with me a month or two, I would realize they weren't as awesome as I first imagined and were not going to change and..... kick them the fuck out and find a new one.
Good ol serial relationships! Now, did any of them cheat? Probably some, but most of them I believe did not cheat and would not cheat. It was because of my level of value.
It was also my employment. I worked in a field that allows me to 'surprise' visit my woman at nearly any time of the day wherever she might be. I would show up 10 minutes after leaving for work, or 30, or an hour depending on the weather conditions and workload. Sometimes I would get off after only a few hours because of some unforeseen circumstance. The bottom line is that makes it hard for them to pull any shit without me catching them.
So those things I bring to the table will NOT prevent a woman from cheating, especially not forever. Eventually a woman 'figures you out' and there is just something about deeply knowing a person that turns most women off. AWALT for sure.
In general, for everyone who might read this, it is good to remain fairly predictable, but still manage to surprise them now and then. Many of the deep knowing questions she might ask you should be met with some vagueness. If you are a very hard lined person, soon you become narrow minded and boring. Ride the line in the middle of not extremely rigid, but not so loose that shit constantly falls apart.
Women crave stability and support. Any time her world is tipped upside down it needs to be because you planned it and are having an exciting experience with her, OR shit is hitting the fan and you are absolutely handling it [or cutting her loose and throwing her to the wolves because she's a needy constantly in distress hot met bitch] showing you in control, even when things might seem out of her control.
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Also my touchy feely shit at the end doesn't win any support around here, it's vague and shitty. Just a bad comment. Thanks for pointing it out to me. I don't check my vote score at all.
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Flat out, women drop all the dicks they are sucking and become obsessed with alpha males. This is not always true, but has been a common experience in my life. I've always had a great ripped body, lots of money, lots of free time and fun things to do, and an extreme sexual focus. I was hard to reach when at work and very hard to irritate. I was a great tease and highly unpredictable. I would do things few people in my circle would ever imagine doing, even if it made people mad, broke societal norms or laws in general.
I never minded apologizing if I really hurt someone, it was never intentional and what I GAVE to the world allowed me the space to do just about anything I fucking wanted whenever I wanted. THATS where the detail, the love, and the passion come into place.
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SO SHUT THE FUCK UP DOWNVOTERS GHANDI SLAYED TONS OF HOT PUSSY.
TRP8myfeels 5y ago
Disbelief. It is always disbelief.
Most of life is chance, I've gotten lucky and my perceptions and beliefs reflect that experience.
leftajar 5y ago
Well, there you go. Tinder is a hookup app. Try Hinge, Coffee Meets Bagel, Bumble, etc.
opper-hombre1 5y ago
Coffee meets bagel? Tell me that is not a real thing hahaha
leftajar 5y ago
It is. It tends to be urban, educated women.
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leftajar 5y ago
Download the app, I didn't even know there was a website. Play store, apple store, etc.
codek_sly 5y ago
Agree 100% I went on tinder and saw a girl that was above a 7 with a nice body and added her Snapchat, only to see that she was literally selling pussy on her story
classylassy28 5y ago
Yep women want men to initiate the relationship and show that you choose her out of all the others. Look into high value women.
mabden 5y ago
Young chicks are as fickle as the underwear they put on. Check out 'Practical Female Psychology for the Practical Man', 'The System' by Doc Love, and 'the Sex God Method' on how to screen for quality chicks (23 and older,) how to maintain their interest level and keep them coming back for more.
Lightning14 5y ago
Goes for $99 on his website and over $99 on amazon. That's a steep price. Is it really that valuable a piece to justly the cost? What information is in there that is not available elsewhere in the manosphere?
mabden 5y ago
I got it on scribd.com. Had to make an account, then upload something to enable the download. Don;t know if this is still the case. You maybe able to get it on thepiratebay.
The doc used to have a column on askmen.com. If he still does, you can get a feel for his take on male/female relations. Back in the day, before redpill came along, his work was exactly what I needed to understand what the fuck I was doing wrong.
He comes off as corny, the format of the book is weird (dating dictionary) but his approach is solid. Main concepts are Interest Level, what it means wrt how the relationship is going and how to determine what IL the chick has by her actions. Challenge, how to generate it and use it to keep IL up. The biggest thing you get is how to screen these chicks for LTRs and how to avoid wasting your valuable time.
You have to judge for yourself whether the cost is worth it.
ainihon 5y ago
What culture specifically?
ogkushinjapan 5y ago
Online dating culture. Any 5/10 girl and above would get the 99+ likes notification within a day of joining tinder. Gives them automatic abundance to spin plates. Plus feminism encourages them to sample as many dicks due to sexual liberation.
BusterVadge 5y ago
You know that there are guys here who would kill to have your "problem", right? As a guy who prefers LTRs I kind of get what you're saying. You are pulling these girls from the wrong places my friend... They are polluted. You need to find better waters to fish from.
RedSkeller 5y ago
This brings up a good point - this is a guilt tactic used by women "You only want me for sex?" - when typically they are the majority offender. You are essentially 'Chad' at this point, which is a hell of a lot better than Beta Bux Bob. This is the sad state of things, however, and you only get through all this shit by pumping and dumping. You're a dildo with life support, so leave your emotions at the door about it - unless you're trying to scare them off again. A quality woman will eventually present herself in this swirl of chaos and your calloused dick and heart will drive her wild. So much so that you'll start thinking about how much fun it was to be out on the range plowing young fertile fields again.
You're likely fucking young impulsive women, give it time and work on why YOU feel this way.
dcis27 5y ago
Great advice
oilrigo 5y ago
i am so dumb.
for some reason im like well they watch romatnic movies and always talk about love and shit so theyre not whores.
im so fucking dumb
i knew it all along but never internalized it
bafled 5y ago
It's our social conditioning. Look at the top grossing movies.
Imtoosexyformypants 5y ago
Watch what people do, not what they say.
“I’m so fucking dumb” - stop being a whiny bitch, never put yourself down
FixYourselfFirst 5y ago
Mentally, you are not in the right place to spin plates. You seem to get attached to anyone you have sex with. Maybe you are better suited for a LTR.
CasaDeFranco 5y ago
Pair bonding is powerful, even within men.
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Plate spinning just removes the emotions of it all.
FixYourselfFirst 5y ago
Can you explain how he kept pair bonding with them, yet none of them pair bonded back? And how is he "pair bonding" when as soon as he has sex with the next girl, he forgets about the previous girl?
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CasaDeFranco 5y ago
Pair bonding should errode with plates.
neuromancerBG 5y ago
Well, its normal that you want to have a more consistent relationship. But have you considered that maybe you're pulling the wrong kind of girls? They are either too young (early twenties) and want to sample as many cock as they can OR you haven't learned how to vet the girls properly.
Why dont you check out the Tactical Guide to Women by Dr. Shawn Smith... Maybe that will help you vet for better girls in the future.
thrwy75479 5y ago
Yea, if it keeps happening then the common factor is OP, and it's a misalignment between his selection mechanism and what he wants.
Consider where and how you're finding these girls as a place to start figuring out the issue, OP.
oilrigo 5y ago
welp. first girl was an underwear girl off tinder.
and of course the second girl is her best friend.
im honestly retarded.
just typing this out.
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red2hilt 5y ago
Lol. This question and answer is comedy gold. :) good on you for recognizing it.
CasaDeFranco 5y ago
Tinder is mostly hypergamous women, I wouldn't expect much. Try places where the women are more long term minded, althetic clubs, hiking meets, morning yoga at Saturday 7am, etc.
TRP8myfeels 5y ago
Did you take pictures?
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I used to love the photo op with short term girls.
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Priceless and eternal.
rare_specimen_indeed 5y ago
TRP advice: Be the inffalible master of your own ship!
TRP in real life: I'm only attracted to crazy bitches, i'm retarding, just figuring this out as i type it
Pelikahn 5y ago
At least there is growth. I’d rather have that than the stagnation I kept myself at for my entire 20s
rare_specimen_indeed 5y ago
how old are you? 33 here, recently single and starting to digest all the red pill info
Pelikahn 5y ago
I'm in my 30s yes. I have an LTR and TRP has made me and by proxy my relationship with my partner exponentially better.
rare_specimen_indeed 5y ago
Care to elaborate on how it's helped? Looking back at my last relationship, I see that I blue-pilled and failed a bunch of shit tests when things got hard. I wish i'd found TRP while still in my LTR
DiggerClam 5y ago
No you don't. That's the past, and she is a corpse. Move on and become better.
rare_specimen_indeed 5y ago
I know what you mean. I'm working on myself, meeting new women, all the good stuff.
Pelikahn 5y ago
It's helped me get over myself and with many of my personal issues. Because I have been becoming a better person overall it has opened my options and deepened my love for the woman who has stood by my side through all my suffering and improvement. She is going through the same situations in her own life and I do the same for her that she did for me when I needed help.
If you focus on yourself, the people around you will notice and the good people will celebrate with you even when you're struggling.
Don't get me wrong though, you can easily slip back into the beta/bluepill/weak mindset and relapse.
For me it's all about finding balance and peace in my own life and when I have that balance, my life and my relationship are like an unstoppable force, rocketing me towards my goals.
Seriously, just focus on yourself, the rest will follow if you want it.
dtyler86 5y ago
Ha hahahahahah
whuttupfoo 5y ago
You just answered your own question.
UshankaDalek 5y ago
"Why can't I find a healthy relationship on this hookup app?"
ogkushinjapan 5y ago
Any girl who is online dating or always parties are not LTR material. But don’t assume all nerdy stay at home girls are 100% LTR material, the risk of cheating is just lower, not non existent.
rus9384 5y ago
My friend got his LTR online dating. They got acquainted 5 years back, and she treats him like he is an alpha. The app was not Tinder though. He says Tinder is about BDSM stuff or plain sex.
TBH, his GF used app just because friends told her and deleted it 3 days after (after their 1st date).
P.S. Although it's not the West, out culture is close to that when it comes to sex and relationships.
ogkushinjapan 5y ago
Watch what people do, not what they say. If she actually only used the app for 3 days maybe it’s an exception. But if it’s only what she said before deleting in front of your friend she may have sugar coated her past.
rus9384 5y ago
Maybe, but I rarely see girls making list of their BFs' favorite meals. Amd she was open that she had quite much attention from guys before she made her social network account "private" (so only friends could see her photos).
ogkushinjapan 5y ago
In Asia many girls make cute lists like that as it is a trend. The guys attention reveal was a shit test, not being open. Read the sidebar.
rus9384 5y ago
Well, she made it after he was angry at her for making shitty (cooked vegetables) meals.
ogkushinjapan 5y ago
Must be some Korean or Singaporean bullshit hahaha
Qba1994 5y ago
I got oneitis for nerdy girl, though she was gorgeous and extremely smart (best university in my area, having won some extremely hard competition exams). Thought she was very innocent and down for LTR. I couldn’t be more wrong! She ghosted me after I started chasing her and she happened to be BI with some crazy experiences. I’m 20, she’s 17 - don’t get fooled. They have options and like to party as fck. Unless you have strong frame and work on yourself / use social media to your advantage she will ghost. (Social media works for younger girls I guess)
ogkushinjapan 5y ago
That cock carousel is really tempting. Hell even I’ll ride it if I were a chick or gay.
livefreeofdie 5y ago
Ma man
alpha-zach 5y ago
We’ve all been there. The ones that think they haven’t still are.
This-Point-Forward 5y ago
First step is acceptance homie!