So took the red pill 4 years ago yada yada college student senior year yeah yeah.
Okay so I’m usually used to dealing with girls who are confident and extroverts. They’re pretty easy to deal with.
So there’s this chick in one of my classes. Knew her from a crowd I used to hang out with the year prior. Used to flirt with her a little bit but nothing beyond the usual. So we’re in this class right which is pretty intensive. She gets my number and all she talks about is the class and starts flirting with me a bit. I’m like okay a lot of people know I get stellar grades, she’s probably just playing me, whatever, not happening.
That’s until I find out she’s getting better grades than I am and she seems to have the material down pat. So then I thought wait maybe she’s not trying to use me.
So I start talking to her more, constantly trying to shift the conversation away from academics. I know when I was blue pulled and shy when I’d talk to girls I’d always use academics as a talking point, so I figured that’s what she’s doing too.
At this point I know she’s into me because she’s becoming more girlish when I’m around her and double even triple texting me when I eventually get tired of talking about school and ghost her.
Thing is she WILL NOT stop talking about school. She can talk about other things but seems to get uncomfortable and immediately changes the conversation back.
I just want to fuck her brains out.
How do I break through the wall?
replicaplater 5y ago
Lot of the "shy" types have nothing other than school to talk about, its their entire world. What I've found helps is to get them out of the school environment and doing something fun that requires some level of physical activity (i.e. mini-golf, playing frisbee in the park, ice skating etc), basically anything where they can shut off their academic brain and engage the "fun" side of their personality. If she's already into you, it shouldn't be that hard to get her to come along with you for something, from there its just running whatever game got you to this point.
Cazken 5y ago
I’d suggest just being upfront and let her know you like her so she doesn’t feel as shy. It can range from “let’s talk about something else, I’m curious about you” (dunno kinda cringy but anyway) or “let’s lose the formalities, come over tonight for some wine and a movie”. You get the point.
Project_Zero_Betas 5y ago
Stop texting and ask to hang outside of class.
_Anarchon_ 5y ago
Shy chicks are the biggest sexual predators out there. They know exactly what they're doing, and they like for you to take control. I recommend you do so.
HurricaneHugues 5y ago
How about you just fucking ask her out dude? Enough with writing your novels through text. Just ask her out. Has that never crossed your mind, that you can only fuck a chick if you and her are an isolated environment following some time of bonding over, say a drink, or some pizza?
UsernameIWontRegret 5y ago
Right well obviously but being in a class together can make things weird for the rest of the semester if anything doesn’t go right.
But I guess a good portion is my hesitancy, that’s why I usually like extroverts because they’re easier to sniff out if it’s a sure thing.
Alphabetron1 5y ago
Hey man, it's only weird if you make it weird and let it bother you if she says no.
Gruss_p 5y ago
She is as shy as you are attractive (for her). Thing is, she is not shy.