see my recent post. Girl was just using me for my dick and has a emotional crutch even though she would hint and looking for a relationship and lovebomb the shit out of me. i got addicted real quick to all the sex forehead kisses cuddling and affection that i never had gotten before( im 20). she became distant and i asked her if everything was ok. she left me on read for 8 days. just responded last night with some sorry ass lame excuse. a mutual friend just sent me a screenshot of her personal fake instagram that pretty much said "i feel bad but i used you as a temporary fix to escape reality i hope you can forgive me"
Fuck this mental rancid cunt.
I blocked her on all forms of social media and didnt even dare respond to that bullshit. I felt like calling her a bitch i felt like calling her fake i felt like asking her why she would do such a thing, i felt like crying i felt like smashing my mirror i felt like trying to communicate with her in the hope that something could somehow magically work out.
Instead i just hit block.
I hope i can hold out when she eventually tries to reach out.
It feels like drug withdrawal.
I caught massive oneitis, except this time i was fucking her.
Im still emotional, im still fucked up i still have feels, but i guess im working on being able to control them.
how do you guys stay strong? Again fucking other girls is not really a long term solution
gregoire_ 5y ago
If you’re going to be full of those negative emotions, at least take it out on some weights.
It phases me less every time, so I just replace women who I kick out of my life.
INNASKILLZ2K18 5y ago
Ok...so 'she used you to escape reality'. That means something in her 'reality' is fucked up, and that's something you want to avoid. She also has no ability to deal with whatever it was.
This behaviour is extremely manipulative and either BPD or narcissistic. They use people, then do the 'callous dump'. It's like WTF?
I've been through this before. I did my head in trying to figure this one girl out, until I realised 'anyone who I'm doing my head in about this much, is just a fucking energy vampire'. Last Christmas she committed suicide.
She'll do it to someone else, and it says something about the way she views and perceives people. For me, this kind kind of stuff is Red Pill on a broader scope. It's not just about ridding bluepill illusions that women are princesses, and in truth they're hypergamous. It's also realising that many people in GENERAL are fucked up.
You learn how to screen for this shit, in future. Ask yourself why you loved all the instant attention so much. Was there any lack of self-esteem or whatever, and she filled it? Those bitches are great at recognizing people's vulnerabilities.
The truth is, I'm wary as fuck of all that lovebombing and over investment too early. Yeah, I can walk around with a PRIZE mentality and think 'of course she fuck'n loves me'. However, nobody healthy thinks they love someone so quickly. If they show signs of that, I'm like 'sorry, but you don't really know me'. It's not natural pair-bonding.
Be thankful you got the experience, and vet chicks harder next time. Sometimes we need the real life experience to get the real perspective. Keep working on you, and what fulfills you, so if this ever comes around again, you're better prepared to say 'no thank you, I'm good'.
It can be a little weird, a little shocking. We swallow the pill a little deeper and stay prepared for crazy.
Welcome to the club, of those of us who can truly say 'NEVER EVER STICK YOUR COCK IN CRAZY'.
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StellarMemez 5y ago
Because women also need the woman's Red Pill. Being a hypergamous social media junky who drowns out her negative thoughts with beta attention and alpha dick, and cries when the wind changes direction, isn't healthy. Who knew?
That's another reason why "you are the prize" is so important. Give them the privilege of having you in their life to give them some structure in their life (your frame).
INNASKILLZ2K18 5y ago
That's a big one. Gotta believe you're the prize who probably has shit sorted much more than she.
It's one thing I see with guys debating if on-line or real life approaching is better. On-line is full of shit. Show her you're a man who can guide real life interactions. Prize.
thatbadrogue2 5y ago
welcome to the matrix, neo.
goomerall3 5y ago
Why all the anger? Move on
teveza11 5y ago
The ONLY problem here is the oneitis.
You got some good times and notched up another score, stop being negative and find another one.
Catching oneitis is never a good thing.
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RedLegendx 5y ago
Goddamn you need like 2 years of side bar with a side of Rollo’s TRM, you were fucking, caught oneitis because you weren’t spinning multiple plates and fucked a potential FWB JUST because you’re in this blue pill Disney land conditioning of wanting ‘the one’ and relationships...
Should have fucked her till it ended and walked away like nothing happened, way better chances of her coming back for a second round with the big man, instead you buried this 30 feet deep.
Can’t do anything about it but actually move on.
There’s NO other way around it, if you’re just starting TRP you HAVE to fuck multiple women at the same time if you don’t want to catch oneitis. I think fucking just 1 girl and not catching oneitis is on some advance shit that you’re not there yet.
awaken471 5y ago
this, it's too dangerous to go really deep in a relation with one girl if you're not spinning plates. Been exactly on your situation, she'd just use me for sex. The answer is friends and plates
teveza11 5y ago
Very well said!
hazelstein 5y ago
Damn, These bitches are really playing with one's heart. I was reading this article why some men go full killer mood after their wives or girlfriends cheats on them. It said the women played with their partner with an emotional rollercoaster, telling them they love them but afterwards fighting over small things and disrespecting them.
StockBoat 5y ago
Lift
HurricaneHugues 5y ago
Lesbian relationships are tough. Hang in there girl. You'll be alright.
This is what happens when you put all your eggs in one basket and disregard TRP philosophy