How would you guys react to this? (I already know this girl plays games with guys, so I barely give her attention)
I’m in school and this girl will playfully call me a bitch sometimes and I’m not sure how I should even react to it. I can tell she wants to get a reaction out of me, because she’s said in the past “how she wants to annoy/get me mad” I’m usually pretty calm and quiet so I’ll just reply with “never” or ignore it.
At the same time this girl acts like she wants me, texts me randomly and asks me things like “why don’t you have a girlfriend?” Or “would you ever have a FWB?” She’s also been trying to see me outside of school recently. She told me “one day I want to just sit in your car and listen to your playlist” so it seemed like she was trying to hookup.
When we actually scheduled something she canceled last minute with some bs excuse. I just told her I’d be pretty busy the next few weeks and would see when I’m available again. She asked me to hangout about a couple days later, told her I was busy etc. she still brings up how “I never want to chill with her”. She’s attractive but I barely want to fuck her bc of her games, i just feel that if she’s throwing it at me I’ll take it.
Be completely honest, don’t hold back your thoughts on this situation.
Occams_Stubble 5y ago
What does your caretaker recommend? At least, I assume you have a caretaker. Most people with autism as severe as yours have them.
codek_sly 5y ago
Imagine being a grown man, trolling on reddit :/
Bruchibre 5y ago
AnxiousProof 5y ago
On her shit test exam you're pulling a C grade.
Enough to pass most of the material, but not enough to be considered anything special.
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Most dudes today straight fail, but the fact that you're still pulling an average grade shows you might be something special, but she's not sure so she's sending you random pop quizes. Sometimes you pass, sometimes you don't.
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All of that considered, stop caring what she's thinking or on about. Worry about your own issues first and foremost. Remember that women shit test subconsciously just like how we might catch ourselves staring at a woman's tits while talking to her, only to snap out of it mid conversation. It's a biological imperative. She doesn't know what she's doing, but she knows what to do with your reaction on an instinctual level.
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Anyways, stop caring about what she thinks. Focus on her behavior, take her words with a box of salt, and remind yourself that you (most likely) are only talking to her to get in her pants. Anything else that comes from her has no logical or significant bearing on your modus operandi.
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Next or keep going, it's up to you. Although, it's probably not worth it considering her attitude.
Startlivingfornow 5y ago
Calling you a bitch is a shit test. The fact that she uses it that way makes it pretty clear that she might be hot but she’s easy low grade pussy, probably insecure.
Invite her out again or do it in person after school. If she bails, then move on. Make her work for your attention.
Terdmuffin 5y ago
"Excuse me, that's queen bitch to you " or id start singing that song "I'm a boss ass bitch bitch bitch bitch ". Whatever you do don't take it seriously and treat the whole thing as a joke.
codek_sly 5y ago
Lol I’ve never taken it seriously and got mad about it, just knew it was a shit test but wasn’t sure if I was responding right
goblinboglin 5y ago
She is just retarded.
Don't mind her or pay any attention, you see it's such a waste of time, she even compelled you to post about her.
So many women out there.
embracingtheredpill 5y ago
Enjoy the attention. Ignore her when she's acting like a bitch. She honestly doesn't sound fun, I would let her orbit but wouldn't fuck. She enjoys the drama.
codek_sly 5y ago
Maybe I didn’t describe her right, but she actually isn’t that bad to be around she’s cool just she tries trolling me sometimes
embracingtheredpill 5y ago
She's cool sometimes isn't she? She's "nice" she's a "nice person" right. Does she add any value in your life?
She enjoys the chase. If she actually wanted to date you and respected you she wouldn't have cancelled at the last minute. She enjoys the drama and is low value. Think about it. She keeps trying to get your attention by being a bitch to you and she keeps asking you why aren't you having sex. When was the last time a high value women was so obvious in the way she hit on you or revealed her intentions so easily? She knows she's low value. There's so many girls like this, who don't have enough going on in their lives, they are usually studious and giggly or complete weirdos who eat poop. They don't to actually want to date you, they just like the drama and admiring you from afar. They like to orbit, that's what they're used to.
I get it. You enjoy the attention. But you're confused and frustrated right? Don't let a woman you're not even interested in fuck with your head. This chick deserves none of your mental energy. You seem young it's important you learn this now: just because you can doesn't mean you should with certain people. As you imbue TRP and work on yourself to become a high value man, more and more men and women will be needy and want your time and attention. Only give it to them when they provide you value and work for you. "Nice" doesn't get on your time. The amount of time I could have saved in my life if I stopped caring about people just because they were "nice", they are all about the drama, low value, suck value from your life and spending time with them reduces your value. No one gets your time only for being nice, you should hang out with people where they provide you value, and in the long run you must provide them value, mutually beneficial. Don't waste time and headspace on "nice" just because she shook her pussy at you.
Morpheus_TNTB 5y ago
A 14 y/o child called you a bitch and you came here for understanding? I suspect she may be correct in her assessment!
codek_sly 5y ago
Not sure where you got 14 from