So 20F wanted to hangout. Date 1 we did exactly that. Date 2 she was busy, cancelled and rescheduled. What would have been date 3 now she just straight up no showed. Sent a text the next morning apologizing (thoroughly or so it sounded) and asked if she messed things up because she doesn’t want to mess them up but feels horrible for no showing. She gave some lame excuse but in my book a no shows a no show. She has also offered to reschedule this second date.
Texting has been minimal because she seems flakey.
McCarthyCohn24 5y ago
Shit in a basic brown bag (the kind you may have eaten lunch out of as a kid), put the bag on her porch, light the top of the bag on fire, ring the doorbell (or knock) and run to a pre-set hiding/viewing location. If all went as planned the victim will see the flaming bag and be all like "ahh fire!" followed by a quick stomping of the bag.
boy_named_su 5y ago
Are you fucking kidding? Have an ounce of self respect, boy. Ghost this bitch forever
Also, you realize she was sucking Tyrone's dick the times she flaked right?
redpharma7789 5y ago
Not showing up without texting = ghost = go find someone else
WhatIsThis------- 5y ago
Even if the offer to reschedule was there? From what I’ve read here is if they offer to reschedule it shows interest.
At this point I’m trying to raise myself in her priorities but not acting like I really care.
redpharma7789 5y ago
She ghosted your ass, and you shouldn’t tolerate that disrespect. If she would have shown up, you wouldn’t be asking this question.
Hard next.
WhatIsThis------- 5y ago
Fair enough
For future reference, can you still answer the question about how to deal with apologies? Does it depend too much on context?
redpharma7789 5y ago
Apologies are sort of useless to an extent, and depends on context obviously.
Saying sorry for accidentally putting something in the machine dryer VS saying sorry for cheating on you are two very different things.
dontlike-hotz 5y ago
Sounds like too much effort, try finding another and consider if that is more effort or not
Edit- next sentence:
If you get the apology before then it’s different. She stood you up man let it go. If you get a genuine apology before then ou can play it into her making it upto you
WhatIsThis------- 5y ago
Solid advice thank you