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buttgoogler 5y ago
From the makers of "You know we're not having sex tonight, right?" and "I have a boyfriend".
AlfredKinsey 5y ago
And the award winning "I just got out of a relationship" and "I'm not like other girls."
YourZenemy 5y ago
Fucking a girl after she says one of these things is so satisfying. I wish everyone this success.
hayze105 5y ago
Its a filter for weak men
INNASKILLZ2K18 5y ago
Treat it as a shit test. No matter what you do, hold frame.
SauliusTRP 5y ago
That just easy beta filter, write them anyway.
Blackhawk2479 5y ago
Exactly. It’s often said in here that it helps to understand what girls say by adding “right now” to the end of their sentences:
“I love you SauliusTRP — right now”
“I’m not interested in other guys — right now”
I find for a lot of shit girls say, tacking “with average guys” on the end is equally effective:
“I don’t have sex on a first date — with average guys”
“I need commitment before I have sex — with average guys”
“Im not looking for hookups — with average guys”
Be high-value, not average, and the rules don’t apply to you.
Useeikill 5y ago
You've got it straight in the bullseye with this one.
sanitypanacea 5y ago
For reactive escape clause one can add "with you"
I'm not interested in a relationship right now - with you
AlfredKinsey 5y ago
Boom. Real shit.
resnine 5y ago
Why the fuck do girls gotta be so complicated like this? like 40 million layers of emotions.
Jesus-slaves 5y ago
Bingo.
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AnabolLecter 5y ago
These are the ones that are looking for hookups.
Ignore and escalate.
Imtoosexyformypants 5y ago
There’s some good ones on tinder who live out in the suburbs and work allot in the Midwest
I’ve met many woman on tinder, all want to date until they find a better one to settle down with. That length depends on the hypergamy
resnine 5y ago
It's a strategy to make themselves seem "scarce" and "rare". Just like a salesmen, same tactics.
stripethrowaway 5y ago
It's just used so that if someone they know finds their profile, their reputation won't be compromised.
Qyuk 5y ago
This needs to be upvoted more for visibility.
redpillparis 5y ago
This. The biggest sluts these kind lol. When a girl says this on Tinder, she is hoping to get her brains fucked out by a Tarzan on Tinder and then try to make him fall in love. But Tarzan got bigger and better mountains to conquer after so as soon as he nuts, Tarzan leaves like a free man he is. Always be Tarzan, never be yourself
whuttupfoo 5y ago
Tarzan fucks hard.
Moldy_Gecko 5y ago
To be fair... I don't think their hamster sees it that way. They've likely just been hooking up so much and feeling like a slut that they say "no hookups". Then, next thing you know, another guy gets their tingles going and they're hooking up. If that makes any sense. They say it, hoping for a beta that just won't fuck them until they "feel ready" but in the meantime are meeting guys that are thrashing them repeatedly on the first night.
redpillparis 5y ago
My opinion is that they rationalize making a guy wait as a sign of their holy character. Although, they don't understand that guys reserve that status to only virgins. Once the virginity is gone, their born again virgin personas mean nothing to most guys. Wish you could see the hamster of some of my Facebook friends. 6s banging 10s and then hamstering how they are unlucky, victims, always giving their all to fix men, etc when the 10s don't commit. Fuck me, it cracks me up so much that I can't even breathe sometimes lol.
BlkLeatherCouchActor 5y ago
Lol exactly. It’s used to filter out those with no motivation or ambition. Many of the great mentors of industry tell people “no, it’s not For you” when someone asks if they should get in their industry/business. Not because they shouldn’t, it’s because if someone telling them “no” stops them, they don’t need the motivation for what’s required. If a girl saying “I don’t want hookups” stops you feel hooking up, she wouldn’t want you anyways.
Kanvaslaw 5y ago
Amen bro, and this applies to all aspects of life.
Atheist_Utopia 5y ago
fight club
StellarMemez 5y ago
It's used to make her not feel like a slut even though all she's looking for is hookups
AlfredKinsey 5y ago
After all, it is FUCKING TINDER
BlkLeatherCouchActor 5y ago
That is another way to see it as well. It’s all a mental thing.
Anacondainahonda 5y ago
Yup. To help the hamster. "It just happened", "it was chemistry", etc. When she actually comes out leading with stuff like that, it's a huge green flag.
StellarMemez 5y ago
Of getting laid? Barely. This is no more of a green flag than her being on tinder at all. If anything it's a red flag that you'll have to put up with her hamster shit right out the gate.
TheRedditGod 5y ago
Every doctor I’ve ever met says “don’t fucking do it,” and I can’t be certain, but I’m pretty sure you’ve hit the nail on the head as to why.
Son0fMan 5y ago
No they tell you this from a position of hypercompetence and a fragile ego conditioned by overachieving and/or vicarious parents, likely instilled by the parents' brutal life of scarcity, which has left them (the doctor) with alcoholism and crippling debt - but boy does it feel validating to be the most successful guy in the room.
Source - In the medical field. Close friends with a few doctors, etc.
tl;dr - Pretty much the same answer just more elaborate.
TheRedditGod 5y ago
-parents had life of scarcity
-pushed into medical field
-addiction
Wow, ok. I guess I’ll fit right in
W_O_M_B_A_T 5y ago
.........with BB providers. Whenever women make any kind of declarations there's always a caveat they don't want to tell you.
There's always the exception which invalidates the rule.
Datanami 5y ago
Anal
caneyfan 5y ago
It’s just ASD 101. “Unlike the other girls on here I’m not like that” is what they are saying to themselves. That way when they make the “exception” for a guy, it’s bc this one was different. The message is meant for themselves to hamster away their behavior.
How many times have you heard, “I don’t usually do this” before they do it with you (you know damn well you’re not special unless your ego is that big and you’re naive). They’ve rationalized they don’t do it and each time is an exception. In woman logic, they’re not like all the other women, when in reality they are indeed AWALT. The irony escapes them. It’s amusing.
WhyNotJustEnjoyLife 5y ago
Kind of like smoking a cigarette when you decided you quit 5 years ago
AlfredKinsey 5y ago
If she smokes, she pokes. Hedonism.
Blackhawk2479 5y ago
If they’re on Tinder, they’re looking for hookups.
Pay attention to what they do, not what they say. Basic sidebar stuff.
DatingTank 5y ago
/thread
I'm so edgy
DetroitGangster 5y ago
It is just ASL. Words do not equal actions.
Orochimaru331 5y ago
How do I counter the “on-going consent” that my university policy forcibly insists when engaging in consensual sex?
The girl can just claim rape after we had sex. Despite having a sex after text saying that she had a good time.
Basically, my university has policies that protect girls from sex guilt.
My friend experienced this and he is on probation from the school. I don’t want to get into the same shit.
AlfredKinsey 5y ago
Get enthusiastic consent texts at least after and before and after if you can. Keep in fun, but get it done.
omega_dawg93 5y ago
xfer to another school.
that school is teaching backwards... making people dumb.
Jabbermouth 5y ago
Age/Sex/Location?
American Sign Language?
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Jabbermouth 5y ago
Yes that’s ASD. He said ASL.
AlfredKinsey 5y ago
Antislut language?
Bruchibre 5y ago
It simply means that's its not what they are looking for. It doesn't mean that it's not what they will get.
TheGillos 5y ago
I have "Not Looking for Hookups" in my bio too. It's all a joke.
Moldy_Gecko 5y ago
Ignore it. Just take them out, and if you do it right, hookups will happen. "No Hookups" or "ONS" is just a shit-test to disqualify beta chumps.
superman127 5y ago
I only see unattractive girls write that, hot girls get enough sexual comments.
a_nus 5y ago
Girls will always be willing to hookup if you tingle them just right. It means nothing. Putting that on their bio just makes them feel a bit better about themselves.
hot_soup19 5y ago
Girls on tinder that say 'no hookups' mean you have to watch at least one episode of the office with them before they'll let you fuck them in the ass.
TRP8myfeels 5y ago
It's just a shit test. Treat it as such.
mallardcove 5y ago
Ignore and escalate
ThrowsSharksAtBirds 5y ago
Honestly curious: How would you first try to get the girl going on a "date/meeting"? I assume texting for only logistics right? But as this is Tinder, doesn't it first need some basic comfort to avoid coming over as a creep?
mallardcove 5y ago
Yes but it has to be organic and not structured
Try to gauge how interested and invested she is. If it doesnt seem like she is either no force in the world will get her to go out with you
Blaak 5y ago
what about for a instagram model that super liked me but tries to b short when i message her
mallardcove 5y ago
It's about playing the long game and being patient
Too many men are impatient and try to make things happen and try to move to fast. It's kind of like a game of chicken. Not saying to wait for her to make the first move, but be deliberate. Make a move, and wait. Don't force things
kayfab 5y ago
don't they all say that... lol online dating is such crap
jhx264 5y ago
Saying im looking for a relationship on tinder is le saying I watch porno for the storytelling
mosham126 5y ago
Oh come on, if theres no build up then the climax is underwhelimg.
teveza11 5y ago
Lesson 1 about girls. Don't listen to what they say, see what they DO.
kaolin224 5y ago
The best is when they're in your bed and say, "I usually never do this!"
Right...
erthian 5y ago
I think its required by law. Means literally nothing.
beiberwholee69 5y ago
If I had a dollar for every girl I hooked up with that had that in their profile I’d probably have e like 12$
WayneNolting 5y ago
I also theorized that females swipe for alpha fucks during the first 14 days of their cycle, and edit their profiles on the second 14 days of their cycle.
Bleu_Cheese_Pursuits 5y ago
It is a shit test.
Kommanderdude 5y ago
Plausible deniability.
mrrooftops 5y ago
It's because they match (are attracted to) the guys who only do that with them. Escalate or avoid depending on your agenda.
DirtyBastard13 5y ago
Plausable Deniability, anti slut defenses. They're actually looking for something to "happen".
Zanford 5y ago
It means they have had hookups, which means they can and will have future hookups, which might as well be you
Sort of like how people who say 'I avoid alcohol' are more likely to've had past issues with it than be genuine lifelnong teetotalers.
TheRealIsBack1 5y ago
Pay attention to what they do, not what they say.
OrzhovPalatine 5y ago
Ignore it, most of the girls on tinder are hook ups anyways. Just like the girls on there that say "no playing games/no fuckboys". They just don't want to come off as slutty
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F_Dingo 5y ago
Let's rephrase by taking one word out...
embracingtheredpill 5y ago
Lol.
Thotasaurus_Rex 5y ago
Pretend it's not even there