Met this girl a few days ago out in downtown, hit it off and got her social. She’s the one that asked for it too so I thought there was at least some attraction from her. Now I texted her last night which I got a pretty good response from her but after texting her again I haven’t heard anything from her. I want to have abundance about this situation but I keep overthinking and having negative thoughts like I screwed up the text, she thinks I’m weird. It’s fucking with my head and I can’t focus on anything else.
How do I get past a girl not texting me back because I am definitely wayyy to invested in her response.
dll142 5y ago
You're giving way too many fucks about this. Do you have three or four other girls that you're gaming and could text / ask out? I'd recommend putting more irons in the fire and not giving a fuck about any one single woman.
ThickMachoMan 5y ago
I’ve just started pursuing girls and she’s the only one at the moment but yeah I’m going to go out and focus on getting more numbers
dll142 5y ago
Focus on being the best version of yourself you can possibly be, and you will find that more and more women will notice you and be attracted to you. Be fun and interesting. Also, are you in good physical shape? Are you lifting?
ThickMachoMan 5y ago
Yeah for the last year I’ve been improving myself. I have some good genetics working for me so when I started dressing well and styling my hair i start getting a lot more IOI’s. Just from plain janes and occasional cute ones tho. I’m stupidly picky tho so I don’t want to try with these girls and just aim for the hot ones. but I also realize I need to start somewhere. Hence the chick from downtown above who would be considered cute.
The only way to get better now I think is to just keep trying and get more experience because the attraction seems to be there.
I also just got serious about lifting a month ago and haven’t missed a workout day so I’m hoping when I’m not skinny anymore that’s when the hot ones will start noticing and opening up.
CanaryCherryJewel 5y ago
Times up you been a bitch too long
FixYourselfFirst 5y ago
How do I get past a girl not texting me back
This is the perfect example of why you should text for logistics only. You texted too much and screwed it up.
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effyouasshole 5y ago
When you have multiple pots on the stove, and one doesn't work out, you don't worry about it. Or even notice.
wholewheatdirtydog 5y ago
I suggest getting women's snapchat usernames instead as I never message them and they always seem to view my story within an hour which leads to them commenting on something which sparks a natural conversation. In your current case its time to withdraw its the only thing you can do.
bluefingerblue 5y ago
Text a different one
Well, don’t just text a different one, fuck a different one. But you get the point.