can someone explain why girls always seem to come back even after disrespecting you and treating you like shit if you decide to walk away?
ive seen this in every girl ive dated.
how do you know they are actually trying to fix shit or just fishing for validation?
FereallyRed 5y ago
Puppies.
Stop chasing and they stop running.
IncelTearsIsLowIQ 5y ago
can you elaborate?
kcmahip 5y ago
Small puppies, when you're playing with them tend to tease you and run away and run away more as you're continuing to chasing them. Just stand still and don't chase them, they come to you. Just a playful nature and an analogy, nothing to literal as a comment, i guess?
NordicVikingKing 5y ago
Women are like cats. Once you start ignoring them, only then do they start acting curious. Your strongest negotiating position with a woman is to walk away and never look back. They don’t want to miss out on the one that got away!
danisoexz 5y ago
Corey Wayne ????
IAMB4TMAN 5y ago
Actually the better analogy is a cat/puppy and its favorite toy.
Buy it a new one it will chase & play around with it. Sometimes, it gets bored with it and returns to its favorite toy. Even if it doesn't, & new toy becomes a thing, take away the old toy for a few days, bring it back, and what happens?
For OP.. judgment call. I like to think that when they reach back out they are consciously entering your frame - that is, until you fuck it up
thrwy75479 5y ago
Exact reasons would vary from girl to girl.
Generally, they see some value in you, and you've already passed basic screening requirements, i.e., you're not a psycho, so they feel safe enough to go back.
There's an opportunity cost in finding new guys with value, it takes time and energy.
MCFiletMignon 5y ago
They merely test.
Are you going to accept substandard behaviour? Then you are substandard.
If not, you exhibit high value. Then they will test some more.
Project_Zero_Betas 5y ago
They assume the reason a guy would walk away is because he's found a higher SMV girl than them.
SenoritaGatita 5y ago
Maybe they are testing you, however unconsciously. I hope I didn't do that to my crush...