Title. She’s coming over today. We’ve been sexual in the past, and there’s definitely some sort of attraction there.
How do I escalate without creeping her out? In the past we’d just close the door and start making out, but idk if that will work now.
What should I do?
clausternn 5y ago
Ignore what she says, watch what she does. Escalate as normal.
If "close the door and start making out" worked in the past, do it again. If it doesn't work this time, pay attention to her excuse, play it by ear. If you get the feeling she's being dumb and won't have sex with you tonight, specially if she has no good reason for it, don't be afraid to send her home. If that happens, soft next her and do your own thing.
asktrp4433 5y ago
This. Actions speak louder than words. She's coming over to your house (presumably again), do what you always do.
ATLASV551 5y ago
Nothing happened no IOIs or anything and i tried escalating but nothing AND she was just texting some dude so I just said “you probably should go” and she did.
clausternn 5y ago
Yup, shit happens. You win some, you lose some. Plates break, it's what you sign up for when you choose the TRP lifestyle.
Soft next her and move on to other women. Don't reach out to her on your own, and if she reaches out to you, text for logistics and do the same thing you did today: meet up, escalate, and send her home again if she doesn't reciprocate again.
ATLASV551 5y ago
Was sending her home the right move? I’m going to the gym in the hour and like if we weren’t doing anything then she was just a waste of time.
clausternn 5y ago
Yeah bud, it was the right move. Some girls are gonna be a waste of your time, but that's a risk you have to take if you want to find a girl who isn't a waste of your time.
Don't focus on this girl, focus on yourself, and game other women.
SirKolbath 5y ago
Ignore what they say and pay attention only to what they do. Escalate as normal.
ATLASV551 5y ago
Nothing happened no IOIs or anything and i tried escalating but nothing AND she was just texting some dude so I just said “you probably should go” and she did.
SirKolbath 5y ago
Next!
Well handled.
McCarthyCohn24 5y ago
Flake to show abundance and re-engage inn7-10 days
ATLASV551 5y ago
Call it off today? Hang maybe Thursday?
clausternn 5y ago
Don't
McCarthyCohn24 5y ago
If she's expecting today put her off until Thurs. but don't say why.
Don_Draper27 5y ago
Focus on her actions, not her words.
ATLASV551 5y ago
Nothing happened no IOIs or anything and i tried escalating but nothing so I just said “you probably should go” and she did.
Don_Draper27 5y ago
cool. Hard next. focus on improving your SMV and gaining new prospects.
Bruchibre 5y ago
FWB is just a label. Find other words that please her. Even better, don't talk about it.
INNASKILLZ2K18 5y ago
There is some advanced game you can try.
Soft next, reengage in a couple weeks. When she comes, tease the fuck out of her for texting the other dude. Only lame ass little betas text. She gets validation from a dude with no options. Which means one thing....she isn't getting fucked right...
She may take the bait, get all pissy, blah blah...
If you can pull it off with the right attitude, sometimes it's about dismissing what a girl is choosing to do, pointing out her flawed thinking and getting her, for a second to think another way...