Seriously what’s the issue? If you have fun hanging out with a girl and you’re cool with not fucking her what’s the issue?
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btrpb 5y ago
Wait to till you get to 40, look back on your life, and ask yourself where those female friends are.
There's a 90% chance they will all be gone. At some point they will meet a guy for an LTR and drop you like a stone.
Of course, when I was 20 years old I hung around with plenty of women in my social circle. But their friendship was totally superficial.
Your good male friends will stick by you think and thin. Marriages, kids, divorces; they will still be there. Women: no.
Enjoy their company, but their friendship is skin deep at most.
PitchBlackGrin 5y ago
I have enough blabbering and gossiping at work and at parties, why would I want any more of that?
gregoire_ 5y ago
Because most guys who come here wouldn’t know how to handle it. This is essentially a niceguy rehab sub.
Curedincel 5y ago
Makes a lot of sense, it’s a solid advice for a certain demographic.
Aptote 5y ago
you two should get a room for your circle jerk
Curedincel 5y ago
bring lube
Aptote 5y ago
why would you want to have female friends?
tell me what is so great about platonic female "friends"?
have fun hanging with them? what's fun about that?
what's in it for you? false validation?
men and women can't be friends, unless you alter the meaning of the word friend
you can be friendly with unrelated women though, familiar acquaintance is as close to being friends with women that you will ever get,
the only exception, that i can see, is when you knew them from childhood from your parents being friends of each other and you grew up together. girls you came up with in the neighborhood and or school sorts itself in your teens
other than that, cousins, aunties, sisters and the like aren't friends either
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Project_Zero_Betas 5y ago
The problem is most of the posters in this sub are friendzoned, and are only hanging onto the female friend because they're hoping one day she'll promote him out of it. If you're perfectly fine with not having sex with them, there's nothing wrong with female friends. But for a lot of guys, that's simply not the case.
dakila5 5y ago
If you want to have female friends go for it, why do you care what internet strangers think?
Curedincel 5y ago
Discussions are neato
Aptote 5y ago
you aren't discussing though
you aren't pointing out what it is that is go great about females friends, what are the benefits?
randomfire9 5y ago
If I like a chick I like her because she's attractive and calming to me. The two have to go hand in hand. I'm not looking to "just be bros" with a chick that's not attractive to me,and if she is I wanna be fucking.
CainPrice 5y ago
Female friends are usually a bad investment of your time.
Some female friends can, sometimes, be awesome. A girl who's fun to hang out with and also fucking you? Great! A girl who's constantly talking you up and introducing you to her slutty friends so you can have casual sex? A girl who's winging for you at a bar and making you look good? A girl who's networking the heck out of you and helping you get jobs, clients, promotions? All great.
But the overwhelming majority of the time, if you're "friends" with a girl, she's not fucking you and not doing all that much for you besides occasionally giving you the pleasure of her company when she doesn't have any better offers.
The overwhelming majority of the time, women just aren't very good friends. They'll hang out sometimes, and sure, they can be fun to hang with, but most of the time, they won't wake up at 4:30 AM and drive over to jump start your car, help you move to a new third floor apartment, let you sleep on their couch when a pipe bursts in your apartment, or buy your groceries for a week when you lose your credit card and are waiting for the new one to get mailed. They're not real friends. They don't actually care about your happiness. They just hang with you sometimes. You end up doing stuff for them - helping them move, fixing their computers, changing their oil, buying dinner when they forget their wallets, all in addition to being great company when you hang out. But all you get back is their occasional company, and only when they don't have anything better to do.
It's just not usually a very good investment of your time.
WesternDoughnut 5y ago
If you could have fun hanging out with a cool girl and not having sex, or hanging out with a cool girl and having sex, in which girl would you invest your time?
Curedincel 5y ago
Why don’t you use that logic with male friends?
patacsiipse 5y ago
He’s not a fag, also male friends are much cooler than girls
Project_Zero_Betas 5y ago
Yeah but guy friends are more likely to stab you in the back, the worst a female friend is likely to do is not fuck you.
Curedincel 5y ago
why invest time with cool males you don’t wanna fuck when you could invest time with cool females you do wanna fuck?
Same logic
WesternDoughnut 5y ago
Feel free to be "just friedns", but from my experience its more like acquaintances, you can spend time with them, you will help them when they need you, they won't help you cuz they are girls, and they will instantly forget about you as soon as they find some alhpa. Go find guy friends, there is higher chance friendship will last.
patacsiipse 5y ago
You can fuck with females, but life is so much more than just fucking, you also need to spend time with friends and girls are shitty friends. Having a plate/LTR could seem like a good way to have both, but she’s really not your friend.
Aptote 5y ago
why invest time with cool females that you dont want to fuck when you could invest time with cool females that you do want to fuck?
are you just a troll or what?
Project_Zero_Betas 5y ago
Why not both?
Aptote 5y ago
what do you get out wasting time with a cool female that you dont want to fuck, when you can do literally anything else?
pre-selection? bang her friends? fat chance
just tell me what you guys get out of having female "friends"
Project_Zero_Betas 5y ago
Intelligent conversations.
Aptote 5y ago
lol, funny man
Project_Zero_Betas 5y ago
:-D
uniquan 5y ago
This sub is just a toolbox, just take whatever advice is useful to you. I get what you mean, having female friends is not bad.
Aptote 5y ago
what is not bad about it? be specific
uniquan 5y ago
If you can't think of one, then it doesn't matter what I say.
Aptote 5y ago
i want to know, i keep hearing here and from you that its not bad
so tell me what is not bad about it?
i am always open to change my view on the basis of new information
Curedincel 5y ago
Some women, while rare, are fun to hang out with.
I know a girl who loves partying, drinking, doing outdoor activities, and is friendly and respectful to almost everyone.
She’s about a 5/10 looks wise so I’m not that interested in sleeping with her. I’ve had better. If I enjoy spending time with her, at an equal level I enjoy spending time with males, then there is no issue.
Curedincel 5y ago
I saw you like fornite.
You’ve probably never met a cool chick who enjoys playing fortnite, they’re rare, but if did meet one, and she gave you no drama and only wanted to do things you enjoy and was a kind person, why wouldn’t you want to be friends?
What’s wrong with hanging out with a girl that you have no sexual interest in for maybe 1-2 hours every other week?
FilthyStylish 5y ago
The only women that truly care about you for yourself are your mother and sisters and very close female relatives. And I’m only sure about your mother here. Other women will only talk to you and hang out with you when they benefit from it. Be it sex/love, validation, companionship or resource exploitation. The worst part is that only valuable thing a woman can provide to you is sex. If she ain’t giving you that, you are most likely just wasting your life with her.
With that said, it’s actually great to have some female acquaintances that you talk to and hang out with every once in a while. Even if they aren’t giving you sex, you can benefit from it in other ways. Like they can introduce you to other girls or just passive preselection. Just be careful not to over invest in those relationships because you will end up giving more than taking and you will be used.
tothetopbaby1 5y ago
When was the last time you met a chick and thought...damn she is funny I genuinely want her around because she’s actually a cool chick?
Zoddo 5y ago
Because the majority of guys are thirsty losers, and their 'friendships' with women are contingent on the slim chance that she'll have sex with them. If no sexual tension ever develops the friendship will inevitably end.
Put it this way. Let's say you have a female friend, and one day for whatever reason she tells you she no longer wants to be friends with you. No texts, no phone calls, and no dates. All she wants to do is come over every other Saturday, cook you food, fuck your brains out, and leave. Would you agree to her terms or would you try to convince her otherwise so you could 'save your friendship'? lmao
Project_Zero_Betas 5y ago
The correct answer.