New to the pill. I have this plate I've been fucking over the last month and been noticing she's getting more and more distant. Yesterday I asked her if she was free today and made a comment about a TV show she suggested.
She responds 36 hours later today with a short text about the show, nothing about my text asking her if she's free. I saw she made an IG post with her hair dyed and changed the subject, asking if she dyed her hair, she said yes, I made a joke, no response again.
I feel like this is a shit test. Should I just soft next for a week and then follow up?
Filmguy000 5y ago
If you've been fucking her then soft next is the best option. She is ignoring you're texts which probably implies waning interest/boredom. There's a solid chance other opportunities are either present or on the horizon for her.
Don't hit her up anymore. If she comes back, just set a date and go from there. But if you set a date and she doesn't respond/flakes, hard next would be in order.
a_nus 5y ago
You're acting needy and letting her disrespect you. You should've stopped texting after she ignored the portion of your text asking if she's free.
EvenLibrary 5y ago
This is a good point. Gonna forget about her unless she texts me
linsanity2016 5y ago
find more plates; you want to cultivate abundance mentality so if one plate doesn't respond you have IDGAF attitude bc you can hit up like 3-4 other plates to get sex
always have options; don't put all your eggs in one basket
EvenLibrary 5y ago
Trying. So far have two more, but both are busy. The sex with this one is the best
Asktrpthrowaway420 5y ago
You're very possible getting a pullback. Watch Alpha Male Strategies video on youtube about this
EvenLibrary 5y ago
Link if possible?
Kurush559 5y ago
Bro you can't soft next when she's not replying. Soft next is withdrawing your attention when she's done something reprehensible
The_DailyDrive 5y ago
Yes you should soft next but there will be no follow up from your end, this is probably over anyways seems like she lost her attraction