This is the response I got. I told her that Friday or the weekend is the best for me to hangout. This girl sends me messages every morning and throughout the day, she got worried I blocked her at one point because I didn't respond for 6hours. Not sure where to go from here. I was thinking of just not responding and leaving it at that till she either falls off or hits me with a actual time. What's the plan TRP
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LogicalBrah 5y ago
You already fucked up by establishing you’re available to text all day long. Why would she come over you’re available to her 24/7? That’s how you reserve a first class seat to the friend zone. It’s hard to reset that back to zero. Texting should only be to set up dates, not to chit chat with your witty humor and meme game. You cannot build attraction over text, only in person. Stop trying.
With that being said, once you are only texting for logistics and you get hit with that response you need to revoke the offer. Chad doesn’t sit around all week and wait until Friday night for a response. Chad just plans other shit and forgets about the girl. I would say “ I don’t do maybe dates, just let me know when you’re free” and don’t text her again until she responds with a time/date. If she texts some bullshit, I’d say “sorry can’t chat right now but let me know when you can get together.” Repeat that until she gives you a date.
redensigncanada 5y ago
Solid man, respect. I'll see if I can recover. If it fails fuck it. Learning experience. Tons of them out there
OutsideTheCage3 5y ago
Texting guide.
CainPrice 5y ago
First dates should be Thursday or Sunday night, drinks at a place 5 minutes from one of your residences, at 8:30 or later.
Weekends are for people she's already having sex with. She's only going to invest a weekend with you if she doens't have any better offers. That's why she'll "let you know". She has to make sure she can't scare up anything better to do on the weekend first, and that's if she remembers you at all and doesn't decide to just go to bed.
The fact that you're free all weekend reflects badly on you.
Send her something like: "Hey. My weekend just got kind of crazy. I can still do Friday at 9:00. Drinks at (place 5 minutes from residence) after work. If not then, maybe Sunday at 8:30, same place."
I wouldn't expect a positive response. Keep setting up dates with other women. But it's just a 5-second message, so you might as well make the hail mary and see if it sticks.
redensigncanada 5y ago
Thanks dude, good shit here
redensigncanada 5y ago
Hey man I want to give you a update. Solid advice I did as you said . Told her my weekend is busy and probably won't be able to fit her in. And that I may be free for a couple hours Saturday. (I chose Saturday because of work Monday) she told me she works in the AM. I told her she doesn't work in the afternoon, and that I'll let her know if I'm free. She said okay sounds good. Then I said "talk on Saturday" she asked me if I don't want to talk rightnow. Told her I was busy all day and have lots to do, No time. So we will see come Saturday if I already dug my hole to deep to climb out of or if we are good. Thanks for advice I realized my mistakes. Won't let it happen again
CainPrice 5y ago
To the extent possible, set your date kind of late-ish Saturday night. 8:00 or later. Not Saturday afternoon. That will just get you guys chatting like friends at a coffee shop, while she sets up a fuck-date with someone else that night. Maybe text her mid-morning Saturday and tell her 8:00 at a place close to one of your residences.
And keep it simple. It's a first date. Drinks somewhere close to one of your residences, with a second location as a back-up if she doesn't seem down for sex after hanging with you for an hour or two.
No silly dinner and movie dates or anything like that. Just talk over drinks for an hour, touch, flirt, banter, have fun, and go home for sex. Starting your date at 8:00 or later avoids the question of whether or not you'll be eating dinner - she'll have eaten already. And starting at 8:00 or later, just for drinks, is code for hook-up. She'll know you're looking to fuck and not trying to wine and dine her and get to know her better.
And don't bank on this girl for Saturday. Keep trying to set up dates with other women. This maybe-date gets penciled in with whatever time you have left, if you don't have a better offer first. Now that you're looking at Saturday for this girl, set up dates with other girls Friday and Sunday, and keep looking for other dates for Saturday, too. This girl's not on the books until she's actually on the books.
Whisper Moderator 5y ago
There are only two answers a woman gives you. "Hell yes" or "no".
Anything that's not the first is the second.
FixYourselfFirst 5y ago
So you told her you have no other plans Fri-Sat-Sun. That's not projecting abundance. She's trying to make other plans with other guys. Now she has you as a backup plan, knowing you'll buy her dinner & movies. Without an alternative date from her, she's just not that interested in you.
Of course she will keep texting you, to keep you around as an orbiter.
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redensigncanada 5y ago
Solid advice. I can't believe I didn't see that when I said Friday or weekend. I guess my thinking was just planning ahead. This is why trp is vital. I'm new obviously
redhawkes 2 5y ago
If it's not fuck Yes, she's not interested. Smells like orbiter, no reply for sure. The ball is in her court.
Another thing, be specific when you're setting up a date. Not wishy washy around the bush bullshit.
jh1871 5y ago
Try to schedule a date with a different girl. If you get a date and then she gives you a time, tell her you can’t anymore. She will learn to jump at the chance eventually. Abundance.
redpillparis 5y ago
After a reply like that:
XT3M3 5y ago
"i let you know"
start finding other plans. and go thru with them. if she ends up seeing you great. in the 90% chance she doesnt, you still didn't miss out
frick-a-frack 5y ago
You’re her texting buddy. If you were her fuck buddy, welll...
McCarthyCohn24 5y ago
Delete block and ghost
IssaBigLife 5y ago
The best response for the "I`ll let you know line" is:
You: We should meet up at....
Her: I`ll let you know
You: Let me know by tomorrow lunch-time
This is a great response because not only does it show you aren`t keen on waiting for her response but you probably have other options .
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ChadTheWaiter100 5y ago
Here’s what you do when she says that. Find a different girl. For Thursday through Saturday. Whenever she hits you up, tell her- you said you’d let me know so I made other plans. Reschedule for Wednesday. If she doesn’t hit you up then you don’t care bc you found another chick to bone down.
RuleTheOne 5y ago
NEXT her, find another girl to replace her slot.
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