So I broke up with my ex about three or so weeks ago, and were still friends (school).
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In truth I really miss the emotional connection we had, and she was really a nice girl (N count of 0, I was her first). She was caring and sweet and all that, and I dumped her to pursue another girl.
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I do miss her a lot, and I am wondering if I should get back with her. We talk a lot anyways, and I can't avoid her, either. Yesterday she told me she still sees us being together, and told me she misses me. I told her I need to think about it, but we're talking tomorrow morning.
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What should I do guys?
underd0g- 5y ago
Man what has this sub come to...
You need to internalize more red pill. Why would you want to get back with an ex? You broke up for a reason, what's been said is done.
MDN_Mariner 5y ago
Yeah I know I’m sorry. I know what I’m supposed to do I was just looking for justification I guess.
It’s just game is hard and I’ve been feeling kinda discouraged. How can I keep practicing? I don’t have my license yet.
underd0g- 5y ago
Justifying is normal, especially since you must be new here. Assuming your in high school (?), The world is yours my friend. You have 8 hours a day to game chicks who you can easily smash with red pill tactics. Man if only i had the knowledge about Trpat your age..
Fuck your ex (not literally). Only a beta cuck gets back with an ex. Abundance mindset dude. Start hardwiring this shit in your brain. High school is a great place to practice game and get laid.
MDN_Mariner 5y ago
Thanks man. I’ve been reading TRM and so far I love it. Actually a girl in one of my classes literally walked up to me and said “Damn u/MDN_Mariner when did you get big dick energy”.
Thanks for the advice. Do you have any tips on what to do if you’re feeling discouraged about game or anything? It feels kinda sucky having like next to no knowledge on how to pull women when there’s dudes that do it with ease.
underd0g- 5y ago
Girls your age are stupid and will easily fall for TRP tactics. Highly recommend watching alpha male strategies on YouTube. Dude will change your game within one video.
Basically, don't be texting these bitches all day. Only text for logistics. Stop validating them and giving them attention. They live off validation and if a guy their into isn't giving it to them their going to go crazy thinking why isn't this guy giving me attention?
Otherwise you're just like all the other simps asking how her day is or throwing heart eyes on her Instagram pictures. Fake it till you make it dude. Make it seem like your banging other chicks if your not. She's gotta view you as a stud. Let her hamster wheel spin. Abundance mindset is key to everything. JUST DONT BE NEEDY. Biggest lesson I learned. When that girl mentioned to you about your dick energy, just play it off cool. Don't run up to her and ask her for her number right after. Let it come natural, but always take initiative. Now you know this girl wants it, just wait for the time is right to snag her number
Internet-Troll 5y ago
Man you fucked up
MDN_Mariner 5y ago
Sorry man
SauliusTRP 5y ago
You are a man, do what you want. Especially in this situation where you dumped her for no reason, not like it was bad behavior of her.
ultimatrev666 5y ago
Never get back with an ex. NEVER.
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If you value her friendship, that's cool, but find other girls for dating/shagging. You guys had your chance, it didn't work out... MOVE ON.
RedSkeller 5y ago
The only reason you're even considering this is because you:
A) Really care about her and made a quick decision without thinking of the consequences
B) Secretly have oneitis and were trying to be Alpha
C) Have no other options currently and are dwelling on the past
D) You miss that magic puss
MDN_Mariner 5y ago
Thanks. Im trying to fix the whole scarcity mindset thing, but how do I act like i have abundance?
RedSkeller 5y ago
Think "would I do this if I had 2 other women talking to me?". If it seems desperate then, it is. Also wanking it provides clarity.
CaptDeadlift 5y ago
Getting back with an ex ... Big Yikes
At max plate her.
You are probably second guessing since you mostly remember the good shit.
Cryativity 5y ago
"Iron Rule of Tomassi #7
It is always time and effort better spent developing new, fresh, prospective women than it will ever be in attempting to reconstruct a failed relationship. Never root through the trash once the garbage has been dragged to the curb. You get messy, your neighbors see you do it, and what you thought was worth digging for is never as valuable as you thought it was."
billybetasnan 5y ago
Some people can't be helped.
MDN_Mariner 5y ago
It’s good man I know what to do now.
billybetasnan 5y ago
Good lad.
mastercheifer 5y ago
You done fucked up. If your in your 20's and found a sweet and caring girl, who was a virgin, I'd hold on tight, provided she isn't crazy or something.
It's a bit harder if your in high school or college, the yonger you are, the higher the chances that it won't work out in the long run. You never know tho, a few good friends of mine married their high school sweetheart and it worked out great for them.
Sweet and caring is what you need. Just make sure they are not dumb or easy, not worth the effort.