How do you create sexual tension or stronger chemistry when going on an dating activity you've never done? Example-rock climbing
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rad_dynamic 5y ago
Be funny bro. Make fun of yourself, don't act like an idiot, but don't be serious. Don't be all competitive and try and impress her, you will look like an ass.
If you're really bad, tease her and tell her she's a bad teacher or something. If you keep her laughing and you're both having fun, she won't give a fuck if you can climb up a wall first time.
aviator122 5y ago
???? will do
wanker7171 5y ago
you can still be playful if you have no idea what you're doing or if you fuck up. It's the difference between not caring when you fuck up and getting all apologetic by acting like a whipped dog.
A friend of mine is a master at this. We were playing "Clue" one day and this friend was playing as Mustard. Now he had never played Clue before so we had to explain the rules to him before we started. Now the first guess involved Mustard so when it got to him he looked up from his phone, without checking his cards, and said "No I'm Mustard, It wasn't me" so my friends immediately reminded him that he has to check his cards to see because it could be him. Instead of feeling dumb for saying that he just repeats it "No guys it wasn't me" so my friends again insist that he check his cards until he cried out "I'm not capable of murder!" before actually checking them. He went from being the idiot in the situation to making everyone else feel like the idiot for not recognizing that he was making a joke out of it. Since he did not get into his head about how dumb what he said was and instead just played into it.
Also just because you don't know what you're doing doesn't mean you have to act like it. For instance you can ask questions but frame them in a way that you're actually quizzing her on if she remembers. Heck you can also teach her how to do things that are absurdly incorrect and then act surprised when she says that's not how to do it, by way of saying "Oh you're not that advanced yet" It's all in the framing.
rad_dynamic 5y ago
Spot on. Do some weird move on the wall and tell her to look at you doing something that you just invented - "world's first double twist jump into a hanging banana". Tell her that you are better but don't want to make everyone jealous. Light hearted jokes to keep the playful fun vibe that she can only get from you. Then go home and fuck her like she's your slut. She'll soon become obsessed.
kooreh 5y ago
This is the best advice. However, when it comes to some things like the rock climbing mentioned by OP, you should actually care when you fuck up because your life is on the line. It's mostly a safe sport, but when you're completely new to it better pay close attention when learning basics.
Willkuer_ 5y ago
If you are at least moderately fit you probably enter any sports activity on a completely different level than she did. So while she might be better than you now you just showed her that you skipped over her first year of struggling.
So first question: are you moderately fit?
But honestly what matters more in most circumstances (hypergamy) is whether she got the best she can get (the guy who is actually just slightly out of her reach but for some lucky coincidence meets her). She evaluates whether you are one of them by
social acknowledgement (if there are friends they need to respect you or be into you)
other available prospects via superficial criteria (are there other muscular climbers doing everything with one hand and flirting with her?)
So it‘s a tinder match, she invited you, there will be her muscular pro friends which she actually has already slept with and you just came out of the basement after 30 hours of gaming? Good luck finding the right charisma.
She mentioned that she likes climbing, you told her you‘d like to try that as well, she mentioned the place and you setup the date, you read a bit about fundamentals to not injure yourself because that would be horrible for your gym routine/other sports? It will be a date just with you and her where she needs to touch your hard working body and you her hard working body? Why are we talking about charisma here?
Not everything is that black/white. But the basis of your game is not asking asktrp for charisma but is being a built man.
Kurush559 5y ago
Funnily enough...I started bouldering/climbing because I was seeing a competitive climber. It made me realise how insane the difference between men and women are - I had never ever been on a wall before, yet had no trouble having the strength to scale certain parts that she barely had the strength for. Obviously she had the technique and experience, so was better, but this was definitely a good revelation
aviator122 5y ago
Appreciate your analysis and feedback.
Good news yeah I am somewhat fit and enjoy lifting weights, Chrisma's not basement gamer level but needs work.
Bad news is last "date" wasn't great so its go big or go home with this one. We've have one date and a meetup but didint go super well IMO.
I think based on the idea of being built and proving dominance, it would be wise to learn the basic and do a few indoor climbs before hand to have that advantage. If feeling ballsy maybe doing a few challenges? Might be overthinking it
ConsciousnessisaGift 5y ago
You’re overthinking it
Willkuer_ 5y ago
Don‘t ever do something just to impress her. Completely wrong approach. The other comments were good. Just relax and let it come to you. There is no reason to be worried. Whats the worst that could happen? You learn a new sport?
mastercheifer 5y ago
Best way I found is challenging her in some way, such as seeing who can scale the rock wall the fastest. Wether she wins or looses, she will like the "fun and excitement" you bring.
Also comment on her muscles when she climbs, which will make her instinctively look at your too when your climbing.
Brethren_Of_Man 5y ago
Balls to the wall and outperform.
Metalgear222 5y ago
It’s always the same formula.
Don_Draper27 5y ago
Be cocky funny.
AWorseManThanYou 5y ago
You can be funny. When you are climbing you are supposed to keep your hips close to the wall. Tell her that’s something you’re good at and wink (if you know how).