I’ve observed a pattern with a lot of women I approach. They start super into me, then tend to act distant and moody at times, and I’m speaking about the first/second date before closing.
Many of them fall before anything happens. Is it because I reciprocate their interest? Too much investment? I don’t get it
redhawkes 2 5y ago
It can be a game (push/pull), many chicks use that to measure your levels of investment. At that stage, bloops put the investment to max and dry up her cunt.
Another option is that you don't escalate or show any sign that you're sexually attracted to them.
Another one, too much talking and revealing so she got you figured out (always give the hamster a fuel to run) and you seem boring. Woman's imagination is your best tool in your arsenal. Dont't be boring, woe be the man who plays it straight — his fate is the suffering of the beta (Sixteen Commandments Of Poon).
Those are blunt answers, post FR for more detailed approach.
44361066 5y ago
Seems like this is closest to truth. I don’t leave them wondering if I like them. I do escalate by the way. The last girl I lost because I was escalating too much.
Is my frustration at myself justified or is it all learning and experiencing? I’m 24 by the way, autistically bad with women until 1.5 year ago
redhawkes 2 5y ago
How you learn to play basketball? Keep practicing.
desertfox130 5y ago
This is your fault. What are you doing to make them loose interest?
By reciprocating the interest too early you have devalued yourself and youre no longer someone whos attention is worth getting. Your scarcity mentally is showing
CaptainKidd96 5y ago
Because they lose interest and you are no longer their first option. If a woman really wants you she will go as far as inconveniencing herself to be with you.
_thechinaman_ 5y ago
Perhaps you are very boring
44361066 5y ago
How to know whether I am?
Project_Zero_Betas 5y ago
Self-awareness.
_thechinaman_ 5y ago
Retention rate