So since october or november of last year I have been feeling like shit, I am unmotivated and depressed.
Everyday a feel lost and empty, I usually tend to evocate the past in mu thoughts, the experiences I had this summer while I took action and I compare myself with the past and see that I am not the same, that I am other guy and I have lost all my skills on game.
I have been waking up at 5:30 am, studying to get good grades for the career I want and started to learn german since september, but I feel lost everyday, even if I lift 4 days/week and get good grades, I feel sad and lost.
Sometimes I think that it’s related to my lack of taking action because I live in a 1000 popularion village and I can only approach and do game in summer, that’s why I focused mainly on myself (like a monk mode)
I would appreciate your help and thoughts, because this is shit
TLDR: Even if I have been lifting, getting good grades and started hobbies, although, I feel lost and sad everyday
_A_L_3_X_ 5y ago
i like to do a week off when im tired of life.
Also drink with your friends. i know its bad for you blah blah blah, but youre young only once so go have some fun.
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LifeIsGreat17 5y ago
Will do my man
DramaEmperor 5y ago
I disagree. If you know something it’s bad for you, why do you recommend it to someone else?
Alcohol could be addictive, could interfere with your gains in the gym and things could escalate in a bad way pretty quickly.
The advice is still good if he has fun without alcohol. Drinking alcohol solely to have fun is the same thing to working out only to become more attractive to girls.
Using youthfulness as an excuse to do stupid things is not right. I agree, you have to risk when you are young, but don’t be stupid while doing it.
_A_L_3_X_ 5y ago
theres no other time in life where you can have fun, get drunk and do massively stupid things without much consequences. OP would regret it later, not to have done all the crazy stuff, he could have.
Nomsonfacekcool 5y ago
Do you have any close guy friends? If not, I recommend it. Talk to dudes at the gym, people you sit close to at school, etc. Hopefully it will blossom into something that has both of your mutual interests in mind.
LifeIsGreat17 5y ago
Yeah, fortunately I have, but if I’m hinest I have excluded myself due to studying, I will go out this weekend and see how this thing improve
Thank you man
VinterBot 5y ago
I know the feeling. What you're missing is a mission. A purpose to fill your void. Find that and your life will auto correct.
LifeIsGreat17 5y ago
Yeah, I want to be a translator and also make a Business of it, but first I have to get the career,
BrodinsOats 5y ago
What’s your social life like?
LifeIsGreat17 5y ago
I only hang out with guys at the gym and in high school, I will start to hang out more in weekends
iLLprincipLeS 5y ago
Go in weekends to bigger town and approach there, no need to wait for summer.
BrodinsOats 5y ago
Ah so you have friends that you see consistently them. Hmm that’s probably not it.
Read Man’s Search For Meaning by Viktor Frankl
LifeIsGreat17 5y ago
Alright, it looks like an interesting book, will give it a try
SolidLiquidGasPlasma 5y ago
Straight up. You’re 17. Just have fun man if you’re working save money for college classes stuff like that it’s cool you havnt even been in the world yet just enjoy what you’re doing now fuck bitches hang with friends before you’re kicked into the world of “so how long have you worked here?” “Oh are you taking classes?” “Oh you’re gonna RETIRE HERE?!”
GRAFTER- 5y ago
Im 16 , 17 in a few weeks, and im happy i was depressed for 3years its been hard iv been suicidal for most of my teens but it is all character development when you come out of this you are ahead of the curve, feel it made me mature alot faster and I find happinness in myself instead of other things. Thats all it is dude find happinness in yourself
WalterBlackPC 5y ago
U need a T boost, get you back on track. PM me.
LifeIsGreat17 5y ago
I took blood tests weeks ago and I am fine
WalterBlackPC 5y ago
Ok.
Project_Zero_Betas 5y ago
Why do you tell the OP in every thread with a question to PM you?
WalterBlackPC 5y ago
Personal over public.
Project_Zero_Betas 5y ago
But its a public forum to begin with......................
WalterBlackPC 5y ago
I make my own rules. If you got a question and want some love, make a post with your concerns.
Project_Zero_Betas 5y ago
They already said "No" to me being a mod :-(
fallentigran 5y ago
I'd talk to a psychiatrist. Dunnoif you're that bad.