On tinder, I’ll get called cute. Girls will tell me I’m a pretty boy or cute in person. I’m 5’9, 165. Built and Bearded. Good posture. Carry myself like a man. Tenor voice. Vocal tonality is in check.

But I still get called these things. I’m still able to hook up but I can’t help but think that this cute/pretty boy image I have is hurting me.

What am I overlooking? Are physical features that are out of my control (eg long eyelashes) causing this perception?