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wobbleelbbow 5y ago
Well leave her be for a while.
CocaineOnYourClit 5y ago
Search "Tears" by Whisper on the main sub
RedLegendx 5y ago
Like nothing ever happened, you’re not her boyfriend. You handled it flawlessly.
rustymirror 5y ago
Agreed.
Auvergnat 5y ago
He was the safe harbor that withstood her emotional storm. You can't handle that any better.
OfficerWade 5y ago
Indeed, you’re her rock. If she can’t wash the waves over you then you might as well sink. You did good, mate.
heyuguyzbrekfazt 5y ago
If she is strictly a plate, then you don't do shit all dude. You're in it for the sex and that's it. If you're FWB or GF/BF, that's when you start to act like you care and comfort her.
Retstortion 5y ago
Use tears as lube
jay_jay_man 5y ago
Continue being the alpha rock you are and fucking her brains out. Alpha dick is a natural stress-reliever for plates.
As for her problems, they are that, her problems. Let her deal with them. If she brings them up again, don't encourage the conversation. Go silent, switch topics, and move on. You don't want her to take you for an emotional tampon.
CainPrice 5y ago
You did perfectly. You acknowledged her feelings, indicated understanding of them, but didn't try to fix them.
You're not her boyfriend, and if you started acting like one, you'd be breaking the casual relationship rules. Frankly, you'd be making things harder on her. She already has a boyfriend. You're there for fun, sex, and attention. Acting like you're there for something more would just confuse her.
Keep an eye out to make sure she's not letting herself develop feelings, but go on with business as usual.
NameUser18 5y ago
Lol she’s crying because her boyfriend is long distance?
Not like, because she’s cheating on him?
cirrusice 5y ago
Shit like this is preventing me from leaving anger phase lol. At least acknowledge the fact that you're a slut right?
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DubbleFUPAwitCheez 5y ago
Exactly, if you're keeping a long distance relationship going you're a fool and sympathy for fools only goes so far.
Tousen71 5y ago
Agreed. LTRs are just validation. I can’t imagine anyone takes them truly seriously.
shubhidoobi 5y ago
You mean LDR or LTR?
Yeralt 5y ago
I guess l
IncognitoMaster91 5y ago
Probably just one titty.
zboo1h 5y ago
It's entirely his fault for entering into such a bullshit contract. Hopefully homie's getting his own side.
flapjacksrbetter 5y ago
People dont like to criticize themselves
Tousen71 5y ago
I know bro. My mind keeps reeling back to, “damn these hoes ain’t SHIT.”
czatara 5y ago
“Bitches ain’t shit but hoes and tricks!”
Morphs_ 5y ago
No need to anger when you're not committed. Stuff like this reminds me that plates/FwBs are much better than LTRs.
VasiliyZaitzev 5y ago
No Hamster left behind!
Auvergnat 5y ago
It requires a gigantic amount of rationalization to be able to tell your lover after fucking that you are stressed because you miss your long-distance "boyfriend". That hamster is a world-class athlete.
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Aarxnw 5y ago
They exist in their own fantastical universe
flapjacksrbetter 5y ago
Hahaha
Auvergnat 5y ago
Long-distance relationship is not a relationship so technically, she has no boyfriend. It's just that the poor guy doesn't know.
FeralRed 5y ago
You displayed excellent plate management skills. A touch of comfort but no burden shouldering.
Act like it never happened.
But why aren't you hitting her up to fuck?
newflame97 5y ago
I'm working 50 hours a week Web Developing and between lifting and BJJ and my other hobbies, I don't have the ability or energy to contact her and make shit fit with both of our schedules.
So when she wants to come, she can hit me up and if I'm free and at home that day, then it's a go.
MattyAnon Admin 5y ago
NOT YOUR PROBLEM.
I don't mean to be unkind here, but she's a FWB. Don't take on her problems. Beyond listening to her a bit (not too long!), don't try and help her too much or fix her life, you'll be beta-bucks security-blanket before you know it (with no sex and cheating on you with a guy like you are now).
This is good.
This is good too.
Carry on as usual.
Look, every girl has problems. Every person has problems.
She's got a lot of hours (probably doesn't work too hard) doing what she's chosen to do.
Her boyfriend who she chose and is cheating on is long distance by her choice.
The suicidal friend sucks, but if that friend is female it's most probably a needy cry for attention rather than a real suicide attempt (this is statistically true for women). A friend she chose. Sucks, but that's life.
Don't get sucked into her problems - she'll just dump them on you and won't appreciate it.
NameUser18 5y ago
It’s kinda ridiculous tbh. One second we’re complaining women don’t understand honour and the next we’re saying it’s fine to fuck someone else’s girlfriend.
That’s not honourable either really, is it?
We rationalise it saying “we don’t owe that guy anything”, but with that in mind how are you any better? There’s plenty of single girls out there. These guys doing this shit are just as bad.
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RaughKee 5y ago
She'd be out banging the next Alpha dude, totally not his problem. This isn't a morality sub this is a sexual strategy sub and OP's doing it right.
throwaway642455 5y ago
Who‘s complaining about women not understanding honour? Maybe some butthurt incels who pretend to be TRP, but most redpillers just acknowledge that 80% of people don’t care about honour when they get an opportunity to fuck.
And of course we don’t owe that guy anything. We don’t even know him. Probably his fault for getting in a relationship with that girl, and it’s not like she wouldn’t eventually let herself get fucked by someone else if we don’t do it.
If you think fucking a stranger‘s girl is immoral, that’s your opinion, and I respect if you really stick to it and don’t fuck any girls in a relationship
Saberinbed 5y ago
If you aint fucking her, the dude next door will. Shes not yours, its just your turn. Take it or go home and jack off to her pics while she gets fucked by the dude next door.
oyoungpadawan 5y ago
Yeah cheaters will cheat, better it's you then some other dude.
ZeroSixNiner 5y ago
Admit it. Some Chad fucked your girl while you were at home jacking it to Fortnight, amirite?
friendandadvisor 5y ago
We aren't trying to make women and men equal. We are trying to maximize sexual strategy. FOR MEN. MEN. MEN. This isn't a suffrage meeting.
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Ldr doesn't even count as cheating lol
NameUser18 5y ago
Just because some other dude would do something doesn’t mean you should. It’s like talking to 4 year olds here sometimes.
Zanford 5y ago
beta bait. LOL at her crying to her 'other guy' about her distance boyfriend. World's smallest violin.
You did well. Understated, perfunctory sympathy. Don't bring it up again, act like it never happened.
NameUser18 5y ago
It’s 100% immoral. But likewise it’s also 100% immoral on the girls side too. Both parties are in the wrong.
No reason at all to fuck someone else’s girlfriend or wife. Plenty of single girls out there. Unless you’re that starved.
If guys didn’t engage in this bullshit then the girls wouldn’t be able to cheat. You can’t complain how girls aren’t worthy or an ltr or marriage if you’re the one contributing to them cheating.
Iron_and_Glass 5y ago
Who the fuck cares. Shit like this is listed as bannable if you read the side bar. Your concern should be yourself, improving male sexual strategy and building power, and thats it.
We aren't here to have a pity party for whoever her boyfriend is for being such a fuck up that they'd LTR a hoe. Op can bang who he wants and good on him for doing so.
Khiv_ 5y ago
This isn't the morality subreddit.
oyoungpadawan 5y ago
Some girls are in a ltr forever, how do you think this happens hmmmm. She's fucking the next one while with the previous one.
Try some "single girls" almost all of them have multiple strings attached, abusive exes, first loves that they can't get over etc...
They just label things differently.
Also most girls don't even tell you that they have a bf, once you know it's too late.
NameUser18 5y ago
Exactly. That’s why we should be better if we’re really going for self improvement here. Think about it - is the best version of you relying on taken girls?
But yes. If you don’t know until afterwards that’s obviously different.
I’m just saying I know the best version of myself doesn’t need to sleep with someone else’s girlfriend. Why create more misery for other guys?
If you want to, go ahead. I just don’t see the point. Pussy is pussy. Why not have standards about it?
oyoungpadawan 5y ago
No one should rely on taken girls. I agree you shouldn't actively pursue clearly taken girls.
But who are you to say no if some taken girl wants you, there is obviously something wrong in her relationship if she wants to cheat, if not you she'll take someone else.
Ofcourse if I even know 1 mutual person I'd never do it.
"Why create more misery for other guys?"
You'll always create misery for someone even if you fuck a single girl there are always a bunch of other guys fucking her or pining over her that'll be hurt.
Just as we have been hurt, I'm not saying this in a revenge kinda way, it just is what it is. In the end it's about a connection between two people. Be it between her and him or between you and her.
If you want to fuck her and she wants to fuck you, but say you don't do it because she has a bf (you assume it's a good relationship but it isn't else she wouldn't try and cheat).
Then you hurt her instead of him. We are not here to save other people, put yourself first, he's not your friend and he probably wouldn't do the same for you either.
NameUser18 5y ago
I’d rather hurt a cheater than some guy who’s done nothing to me. Like I say, if you want to bang a taken girl, feel free. Hell if I’m drunk enough and she’s hot enough then I might. Usually though, I think it’s good to have your own moral code.
“If not you then it’ll be someone else” Fine. Let it be someone else. I’ll go bang a single girl instead.
That’s just me though.
oyoungpadawan 5y ago
I'd rather not either! Just playing devil's advocate ;)
My point is no one wants to bang a "taken" girl, 9/10 you'll never know if she has a bf or not.
Just as many girls say they have a bf as first line of defense while it's not even true.
If she doesn't even tell people is she really "taken"? The truly taken ones you don't have a chance with and they don't go out hunting for dick.
NameUser18 5y ago
I don’t really care either tbf. I dunno why I’m arguing about it lmao. Basically both parties are cunts but obviously the cheating party is more of a cunt.
redisthetruth 5y ago
everyone has emotions. there's nothing you can do. just relax and don't say too much. everyone's lives are filled with suffering. there's nothing much we can do except listen if we feel called to.
opper-hombre1 5y ago
Ahhhh, had me at the “long distance. Lol AWALT
NameUser18 5y ago
Actually I’ve never had a gf, only ONS and FWBs, nor have I ever played fortnite... try again.
ZeroSixNiner 5y ago
Well, you're awfully damned butthurt over clear redpill truths. The kind of butthurt that could only come from experience as the cheated on boyfriend. It's pretty obvious. You're taking this way too personally.
Also, learn to use Reddit.
minoc_uo 5y ago
50+ hour/week intership is bullshit. I work at a fortune 500. Our interns are there to learn in a relaxed environment.
NameUser18 5y ago
I’m just replying to your comment - what do I need to learn exactly?
And like I say, it’s not first hand butthurt, it’s just obvious basic human decency. Are you really that desperate for pussy you need to fuck someone’s girlfriend? Nothing alpha or red pill about that.
NameUser18 5y ago
I’m just replying to your comment - what do I need to learn exactly?
And like I say, it’s not first hand butthurt, it’s just obvious basic human decency. Are you really that desperate for pussy you need to fuck someone’s girlfriend? Nothing alpha or red pill about that. Screams scarcity to me.
bowhunter6 5y ago
GTFO with your moralizing. This is not the place for that.
NameUser18 5y ago
Nothing to do with moralising. It’s just obvious that there’s no need to bang someone’s gf unless your operating on scarcity. “Because I can” isn’t red pill.
ZeroSixNiner 5y ago
No, I don't go looking for taken girls, but if I approach and attract a girl who I have no idea has a boyfriend, husband, or other, and we hit it off, I'm only going to assume she wants it. I don't go out looking to break up relationships; if anything, it's the girls who become attracted and who act on that attraction. It's not my job to keep her relationship intact. It's her's.
Besides, hypergamy goes both ways. Sometimes she swings away from you to another branch, and sometimes you get to be the branch.
oyoungpadawan 5y ago
This, it's her job to tell you if she has a bf, if I go asking her she might say yes even if she doesn't have one.
No point in stabbing myself in the foot.
You don't know what their 'relationship' is, might be a 6 month sexless one, long over or other issues.
NameUser18 5y ago
Just revisited the main thread. No idea why it’s posting my replies as new comments when I’m pressing the reply button - my bad.
UEMcGill 5y ago
Your answer would have been flawless even if you were married. Acknowledge her feelings and move on. Don't fix.
newflame97 5y ago
If you were married wouldn't there be some level of comfort game you would be running?
UEMcGill 5y ago
That was comfort game.
2comment 5y ago
Off-topic but I hope she's getting paid for that bullshit.
newflame97 5y ago
LOL are you saying she's lying or saying that she better not be working for free?
2comment 5y ago
Idk if it's an unpaid internship or not, but if it is that's modern day slavery esp with those number of hours.
not-trp-questions 5y ago
Where's that post on the main sub about when she complains about something, it talks about just picking her up (physicality) and responding by being exciting and focusing on having fun?
I keep searching for it every once in a while but can never find it. Should this just be an asktrp?
usernameishardtomake 5y ago
I think what everyone is saying is great, but how about making her laugh? Like don't try too hard to make her laugh but something light to make her feel ok while she's with you. Idk if this is a bad idea or not
friendandadvisor 5y ago
Anal.
BuckNekkid18 5y ago
Keep doing exactly what you're doing. Keep fucking her since it's not your problem.
seedster5 5y ago
Boyfriend?!??! What the actual fuck.
general_landur 5y ago
You must be new here.
seedster5 5y ago
No, just never seen a plate openly admit it
oyoungpadawan 5y ago
Yeaahhhh you're in for a ride my friend. You'll be suprised the things they tell you once they know you're openminded and non-judgy/dgaf.
Whisper Moderator 5y ago
Same as before.
You are not the emotional support guy, you are the sex guy.
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I don't know if I can link it but look up the TRP post "tears" by whisper I believe
Tousen71 5y ago
LDR*
JustChopItOff 5y ago
Would saying something like this be good:
"I find its important to relieve stress to handle life challenges... healthy eating, exercise, and good sex"