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[deleted] 5y ago
This reads like some porn addict that was watching cuck porn and projected that shit onto his decent LTR and fucked everything up as a result.
CainPrice 5y ago
You think you're some kind of badass dude because you're used to spinning 2-3 girls at a time and you bullied your girlfriend into opening things up. But you're as blue-pilled as the newest guys around here.
Not because you downgraded your relationship. Not because you apparently didn't know that a girl could get 50 new guys in the time it takes a badass like you to get 2 girls.
It's because you're sitting here focused entirely on some girl.
You have what you wanted. You opened your relationship. Have you gone out and fucked any other girls yet? Are you back to spinning 2-3 girls at a time yet?
Nope. Instead of focusing on what you can do, you're obsessed with what your girlfriend has done. You're fixated on her sex life and who she fucks and how and why instead of going out and getting laid.
You have this illusion that guys can be some kind of magical "alpha male" where you can do whatever you want and every woman you meet will be happy to be 100% faithful to you while you're non-exclusive with them because you're just so gosh darn masculine. You expected your girlfriend to cry and argue, but ultimately stay faithful to you while you went around and fucked other girls from time to time.
You don't understand the true nature of women or how they work. Women enjoy sex. Your girlfriend had a fun time making some nerd's day, feeling powerful, getting naked for a guy who appreciated it, making him come quickly. And getting penetrated feels good for women. She had fun with another guy. And she's going to have fun with more guys. Women enjoy sex, sometimes just for fun. And when they're not looking for a relationship, they can try out all kinds of guys and do all kinds of things they'd never do for a boyfriend, like show up to a random guy's house, strip, and jump him. It's really liberating for girls to do shit like this.
You really don't understand women.
And like any random blue-pilled dude, you're fixated - in fact obsessed - on your girlfriend's sex life instead of your own. Why the fuck aren't you out getting laid?
Red-455 5y ago
I’ve fucked other girls since then. I think it’s natural that it makes me upset because I wasn’t expecting to feel this disgusted.
Almost everything you said was an assumption. I know women like sex. I know she enjoyed it. I lied when I said she could fuck someone else first because I was already doing it. I had plans to go to later tonight with another girl that I cancelled because I don’t feel like going out anymore.
CainPrice 5y ago
A lot of people around here omit a lot of relevant details from their original posts.
So clarify for me: what's the deal with your "girlfriend" versus other women? Why did you push for an open-relationship instead of just breaking up and continuing something casual with her?
Everybody you fuck has fucked guys before you. Some of them may be really cool dudes. Some of them may be goofy nerds. Lots of random plates you've fucked have probably had sex with guys you would personally consider losers. Why does that bother you in this specific case with this specific girl?
Red-455 5y ago
She went from a plate to an exclusive ltr. We moved in together not because I wanted to, but because my parents and friends disowned me because I stopped going to their church. I live in expensive city and my credit wasn’t good enough for a lease on my own.
She was a virgin, I took her virginity, maybe hat has something to do with it. I thought maybe she’d put up some walls to some cool guy but no, some random guy got lucky and put is dick in her mouth and fucked her for 5 minutes. Now she’s going to come home and sleep in the same bed as me and I want her to stay away.
My fault, I know, stupid, I know.Girls fuck guys, I know.
Gravel_Roads 5y ago
You do realize most women have had sex with people before you, right? 5 minutes of sex isn't exactly adventurous porn sex, it sounds like she found the quickest person to "get it over with" because for some reason you kept telling her to fuck other people. So she did. Because, as you pointed out, she does whatever you tell her to.
You're projecting your disgust at yourself and your own dumb thinking onto her. If anything, it's probably shame souring the relationship. This may not be salvageable unless you can figure out why this is such a hang-up, yanno?
tayowsp 5y ago
Congratulations, you cucked yourself.
dani098 5y ago
I love it
Red-455 5y ago
Honestly thought it was gonna be one of the big guys from the gym that’s been trying for weeks, not some weasley little Cheeto fingered nerd.
tayowsp 5y ago
Does it matter? You would have still felt like shit. I don't understand how people can even think about their SO getting railed by someone else, the thought disgusts me even though I'm not in an LTR. We're biologically programmed to avoid cuckold.
What you really wanted was to fuck other girls on the side while having her still be exclusive. There's nothing wrong with that. You should have told her and broke up if she wasn't up for it.
Instead you pussied out and went for an "open relationship" - you reap what you sow.
I honestly believe you won't be able to see her again the same way. Next her and start over, don't be greedy next time.
I was in a similar situation - cohabiting with LTR. I got lazier and more beta, and she suggested "opening the relationship". Even though I had no other options I still decided to kick her ass out. Being cucked disgusts me immensely.
Bruchibre 5y ago
What would it change? seriously? that's even more cucking yourself if you have this kind of expectations.
Throwaway-242424 5y ago
You say this like you were getting off on the idea.
Just tell her your type so you can get off to her escapades rather than feeling disgusted.
Red-455 5y ago
What I mean by that is I’d rather some high value guy barely manage to break her walls then some random scrawny fuck asks nicely and gets his virginity taken for literally 0 effort.
jefferson_ 5y ago
Lmao what the fuck did I just read?
Retstortion 5y ago
Lmfao cucked yourself
Randomjutsu 5y ago
Lmaooo damn i want to feel bad but its kinda funny and you might as well laugh at it too. You are the ironic cuckmaster.
You subconciously wanted to end things so you put yourself in this position. Now, conciously stop being an idiot and NEXT.
Red-455 5y ago
Either I got too greedy or it was a sign I needed to move on.
Bruchibre 5y ago
Congratulations. You've turned a housewife into a hoe.
Since your frame is totally collapsed on the floor it's time to pack your stuff and leave. I don't think you two will recover from that one.
Next time think more before doing something stupid like that.
fuck-fuck-fuck-fuck- 5y ago
HSV2 can be yours for the low, low price of $YouAreStupid.
Red-455 5y ago
I deserve it. I though an open relationship was the shit given how everyone talks about it.
fuck-fuck-fuck-fuck- 5y ago
The only people who think “open relationships” are awesome are girls and Chads who can get away with it.
Red-455 5y ago
It was great when I was the one doing the fucking. Double sided, I know.
redpilledjoe 5y ago
Why would you cuck yourself??
Red-455 5y ago
Isn’t that kind of the definition of an open relationship?
redpilledjoe 5y ago
Open relationship means you don't give a fuck who she sucks and fucks. Obviously you care a lot. Open relationships are one of the hardest things to do correctly
mrHappyPotatoe 5y ago
Excuse me... What the Ffff. What Red Pill have become.
freew33zy 5y ago
This is retarded. You, quite literally, got what you asked for. Now next her and move on.
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Oh, and next time, if you want to fuck other chicks while dating one... try a one-way open relationship! You should know that double standards are perfectly okay--you don't have to give her that option just because you want it.
Red-455 5y ago
I don’t think she would’ve gone for that but if I knew this is how I would feel I would have tried.
freew33zy 5y ago
Surprisingly, I think a lot of girls would do it. You just have to work into it. Being monogamous and never checking a girl out in front of your LTR and then saying "can we be a one-way open relationship" is pretty jarring and would cause issues obviously. On the other hand, starting by, for example, during sex mentioning you wanting her to see you fuck another girl... then in public maybe pointing a girl out and saying "wouldn't you love to see me rail a chick like that?" and then ACTUALLY proposing it because you think it's hot and ideally she falls in your frame... and then saying that you just really want variety but she's your #1... is closer to how it's done. I've been in a relationship like this for two years, so if you are interested to know, let me know.
[deleted] 5y ago
May I ask you something? What did you envision would happen? I mean, how did you think this was going to go, in your mind? I want to understand this mentality, or at least try to.
Red-455 5y ago
I envisioned I’d have lots of sex and she would to, although more sparingly, and we would come home and do our normal LTR stuff.
Before hand I didn’t give a shit if she slept with someone, as long as I could too. I had no clue I would be this upset.
[deleted] 5y ago
I can understand that. is there any specific reaosn why you felt she'd have sex more sparingly? I see in your other comments that you've been plating other women, yeah?
Red-455 5y ago
She’s really sexually reserved, had to pep talk her up about her confidence before she could go out and do it.
Which is why I can’t bitch, I practically held the guys nuts while he hit it.
I’ve never thought I’d be okay with something and then ended up hating that decision so much in my life.
[deleted] 5y ago
AWALT. That she was willing to go through with it should tell you that she's not who you thought she was.
What will you do now?
SoulRebel99 5y ago
And you live with her? Jesus mate, you could've just had a few girls on the side. It's not cheating if the guy does it... Good luck.
LucrativeMath 5y ago
The funniest part about this is you said she did everything for you around the house and went out of her way to make you happy. No problems in the bedroom either?
Bro you got greedy and now this is what you have to deal with.
Lessons learned.
Red-455 5y ago
Nobody to blame but myself. I almost literally made her do it. I though an open relationship was the solution. Thanks for actually giving me a constructive comment.
LucrativeMath 5y ago
Yeah. Not trying to kick you while you’re down. You could look at it this way though, you kinda forced her to see what else is out there and she was unhappy with her findings. Which in turn makes you more attractive to her. Sometimes in business (and life) we have to take an L in the short term to have a long term win.
Red-455 5y ago
I’m just afraid I won’t ever see her the same again. The thought of kissing her after someone probably just came on her face makes my gag reflexes kick in.
[deleted] 5y ago
I'm getting back on bumble.
Red-455 5y ago
Same
ThrowFader 5y ago
YOu shouldn't have entered into an exclusive relationship if you couldnt handle it.
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That was your main error. Also you shouldn't ask girls for permission to talk to other girls.
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Yeah those are your mistakes, fix them.
Red-455 5y ago
I thought I could handle it. Lesson learned.
ThrowFader 5y ago
Yep. Good luck bro
sandal_on 5y ago
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I will try to see it from your perspective. If I had an ltr that I valued and I left her alone, if she got an railed by an equal or higher smv guy, I would still be "offended" (not the exact word but you get what I try to convey) but in front of friends it wouldn't be an insult as the example below.
But if she went and fucked a nerd, then in front of friends it would be an insult. It would be like "ha! a loser fucked your gf" and it would be definitely bad.
I think that you feel this way because someone lower in smv than you fucked your ltr and it because he is a low smv guy, it also lowered her smv as well (while increasing his smv somewhat).
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Also I think we males are programmed to view ltr as our "property" and if a lower smv guy managed to f our ltr it would be considered an insult. Kind of like a nerd that knocks out a muscle guy metaphor.
Red-455 5y ago
Thanks for being understanding, that’s exactly it.
0kool74 5y ago
Guy gets tired of hole....check!
Guy says hole can get plugged elsewhere....check!
Guy feels sick cause hole got plugged elsewhere.....check!
Guy is a fucking idiot.....checkmate!!!!!
Red-455 5y ago
Do you have anything helpful to add? Of course you don’t. Many people have already provided helpful input which apparently you are incapable of.
If youre just going to spew mean shit why bother? To take a dump on an internet stranger and fill your “I’m an alpha now” tank for the day? Go right on, get your fill.