Approached a girl, she offered her number I didn’t even ask. Very sexual vibe. Anyways I hit her up a few days later, she replied to all my texts within 1-2 minutes of me sending them (heavy interest).
After a few texts I cut to the chase and just say: Meet me at XXXXX tomorrow night 10pm
She replies basically saying she’s down but she would like to see my Insta or FB before meeting up. I deactivated mine a long time ago so I don’t do IG anymore. I assume she wants to screen me just to make sure before she meets a random guy who she only talked to for 2-3 minutes.
Anyways do I treat this as a shit test, ignore it, or what? She met me in person, knows I’m attractive because she offered her number, texts back instantly, etc.
TopTRP 5y ago
It is a test, but I'd call it more of a value test than a shit test.
These kinds of questions can always be answered with WWJBD.
If you are a high value male, a thot wouldn't be dropping this on you to begin with. She'd be so wet at the thought of getting to hang out with you she wouldn't need to scout your social media first.
But in the event you're Justin Beiber, and you do some chick a solid by inviting her to hang out and she hits you with "lemme see that Insta first though", what do you think he's gonna do?
He's definitely NOT going to care if she comes or not. He doesn't give a fuck because he has 1000 different options on how to spend his night and his enjoyment doesn't depend on some random chick deciding whether she's going to show up.
So if you're that high value guy who has his own shit going on and isn't focusing his life decisions on what some girl, how do you respond to her asking for your social media?
That is your answer.
PM_mecolorlasernudes 5y ago
OP, Are you Justin Beiber or not?!?!
PhaedrusHunt 5y ago
I thought you meant James Bond and you come in with that lil fag LMAO
Kionjabb 5y ago
I’m not so sure.. she gave me her number in fact she volunteered it. If I was low or even mid-value (average) she wouldn’t have done so.
I think she just wants to lurk on my profile to show her friends.. not to brag here but I would consider myself at least a 9 in looks. My Instagram has a bunch of social proof and girls/ex plates commenting “sexy” “handsome” “miss you!!” And a bunch of friends commenting “Swole!” Etc on my photos. But I do not want to deactivate it solely just to impress a future plate
TopTRP 5y ago
Missing my point.
I'm not attacking your smv.
I'm trying to get you to think like a high smv guy naturally thinks because that's what she's testing you on and it will help in the long run.
You posted this question because you're in the mindset of:
"I want to bang this girls pussy, how do I pass her test?"
If you just want a defacto answer, then the answer is "ignore" because you can't screw it up that way.
I'm trying to get you to see there is a different approach to it entirely, where that question never enters your mind to begin with.
If I'm in a playful mood I might pressure flip her and be like "dang girl you going IG creeper on me already? I'm not sure we're at that point in our relationship yet."
I would only respond like this if IT GAVE ME PERSONAL ENJOYMENT since teasing girls is fun. I'd be like, hell yeah that response was tight and fist bump myself.
That leaves the door open though and most guys will fuck it up, which is why we preach logistics only.
If I'm busy and can't be bothered to devote any time/thought to it, I just close it and put my phone away and get back to what I was doing. This would be your "ignore".
The one thing both of those responses have in common?
Neither of them comes from a place where I'm asking myself how to respond because I'm desperate to lay some pipe.
Pynewacket 5y ago
then you already have your answer
mrpthrowa 5y ago
"I don't do social media".
Shit test.
Kionjabb 5y ago
This is why I don’t want to reply seriously “I don’t have any anymore”.. I was just going to ignore it until an hour before the date and text her “I’ll be 10 minutes late”
Good thing I asked. What are some good responses?
pm_me_chuck_hagel 5y ago
A simple "I don't do stalkers" should suffice. If she's not doing something to salvage the date after that, she's not that into you and you should find some other slut.
mrp_awakening 5y ago
Somebody might have something better, but you could try:
--pressure flip: "I don't like people stalking me out before we get to know each other"
--dread/AA: "had too much unwarranted sexual harassment from other women so I deleted it"
--"I'm too busy for social media"
--"Maybe later"
Kionjabb 5y ago
How about “I only have Tinder” Or is that too try hard dread wise
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Pluglord 5y ago
That sounds like butthurt qualifying.
JamesP2018 5y ago
It's explaining in plain english what should be the conclusion derived via her mystical power of female intuition.
Peter_B_Long 5y ago
"I'm not really on social media"
IMO, a part of the reason why she's asking for your IG or FB is because she wants you to follow her on these sites. Unless you have thousands of followers, social media is always in the girls frame. She wants you to see all of her followers and all of the thirsty comments dude leave on her pictures.
Viking_RnP 5y ago
Just tell her the truth and dont worry about her or what she wants to do
As-You-Were 5y ago
“I’m only like a 9/10 in pictures, it’s quite embarrassing”
Or send her Brad Pitt’s (or equivalent) twitter handle.
If you met her in the street and she knows what you look like chances are she just wants to show you to her friends. Keep her guessing.
Kionjabb 5y ago
This is my gut feeling here. Her text implies that she has already tried looking for my social media handles.. otherwise she would have never asked and just lurked.
I have had a lot of ex girls ask why is not on social media and they hate it because they can’t figure me out.. I have learned it to be a plus however this was always after they were already hooked on me after hooking up a few times. I haven’t had a girl ask before meeting up unless it was over Tinder
FlyingSexistPig 5y ago
reply: hahahahaha
menial_optimist 5y ago
You could tell the truth, just say you deleted it long ago, then ghost unless she messages you. You really considering playing her games? You must demonstrate you're perfectly willing to never see this woman again in your life and that it will not phase you whatsoever.
MattyAnon Admin 5y ago
Just tell her you don't have one, but add subtle value. Eg "I don't have facebook - I don't have time" or "got too much else on the go".
PhaedrusHunt 5y ago
I'll do the stalking around here
ArabSigma 5y ago
Answer a ridiculous request with an equally ridiculous statement.
"I'm not old enough for social media"
"I was banned for having too many followers"
"My mom won't let me have one"
"I substituted facebook with another blue website"
"My potato phone doesn't support it"
Tell her you got too addicted that you had to be put in rehab
Tell her you lost your accounts. If she asks how then proceed to tell an elaborate lie about how you got mugged and the thief took your facebook account at gunpoint
Tell her you were receiving marriage proposals and unsolicited nudes from a rich old homosexual prince from Panama
"Every time I try to create an account I wake up barefoot in the middle of nowhere with a throbbing headache and short term memory loss"
Tell her you don't know how to use the internet
Throwaway-242424 5y ago
Tell her you've been banned from social media for hate crimes.
icecoldwhoknows 5y ago
"f*ck going online that ain't part of my day"