I invite a girl out tomorrow,
She says ‘Oh I was thinking about paying a visit to Mr.Baldmaths (my school’s teacher)’
I say :”Was it a surprise?”
She says: “you like surprises (blink emoji)” Then adds when do I come? Are we gonna eat?
Since we met I treated her as TRP suggests, she’s fun to hang out with etc. But it may be just friendly behaviour idk. I asked girls out after TRP but they either flaked or didnt seem to be interested. Add that to my dateless kissless past, Im unable to believe any girl will date me. Ive just started lifting. No notable gains from outside.
What do I do if she acts as if this was a group meeting or a friendly meetup?
What is worse is I dont know what will I do if she also thinks its a date? Previously I tried to escalate other girls by throwing arms behind her touching her etc, it all feels so awkward. Can you guys advise me on this?
chimera7 5y ago
It is what you make it, and if she doesn’t respond then at least you tried and you can move on. The last girl I had a date with was kind of social circle and when I showed up she literally said “is anyone else coming?” Lol. Didn’t sweat it. Lead the interaction how I wanted to and got very touchy.
BigBallsJamesHunt 5y ago
Learn how to escalate, I don't have time to find it for you but you can start with this:
https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/hlmra/dicarlo\_escalation\_ladder\_concise\_and\_emphasized/
yeahhhhhhman 5y ago
Ok but what if she thinks it was a friend meetup. Ive not treated her like a friend. Implementing TRP only. But still man I am so inexperienced to the point where Im completely an outsider.
BigBallsJamesHunt 5y ago
Laugh it off, don't be afraid to escalate, if she doesn't want to be sexual with you just agree and amplify, diffuse the situation with a joke.
Remember, failure is not a failure as long as you learn from it. You will fuck up a lot of times, but it is only going to make you stronger.
Cgbgjr 5y ago
If escalation fails end the meetup quickly--be nice but tell her you forgot you had to be somewhere.
lionmenden 5y ago
Why do you have two threads on this, both with different info?
yeahhhhhhman 5y ago
This was before I fucked up.