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MrBowlfish 5y ago
It doesn't really matter. Is a girl going to care if Chris Hemsworth takes her to coffee, drinks, bowling, sewing class? No. It's about the experience you provide her, your frame, not the beverages or items in front of you. Those are simply a reason to meet where your charismatic aura will give her a taste of her new addiction.
Kevin19Fish 5y ago
I hate this logic on trp.
"X doesn't matter because if Brad Pitt did/didn't do X hed still get laid"
Guess what you're not Brad Pitt, if you wanna get laid you better give the girl a good damn date.
Brad Pitt could not lift and still get laid. Lifting doesn't matter.
Brad Pitt could be smell bad and get laid, showering doesn't matter.
Brad Pitt could be socially awkward as fuck and still get laid, game doesn't matter.
ReformSociety 5y ago
C'mon, really? There's no difference between a bungee-jumping date followed by drinks at multiple bars vs sewing class?
BeATrumpet 5y ago
That's true, but I prefer alcoholic drinks. A) it lets me know if the chick is "fun". If she drinks, I can push to see what else she's into. Drugs? Open sexually? B) alcohol is a social lubricant. When she has that glass of wine or beer, she loosens up more, her shield lowers. C) she can blame alcohol for any sluttiness.
DadOnDabs 5y ago
Coffee is my go-to.
1) coffee and chit chat to build rapport with very light playful kino
2) go for a walk, hold hands, go for the kiss
3) pull back to your place with the, "I'm going back to my place to bake some cookies. Wanna help?"
Works every time
dragonwarrior997 5y ago
Are you being sarcastic?
DadOnDabs 5y ago
100% serious. I've used "make pancakes" "cook dinner" "watch a movie" but "bake cookies" seems to work the best. Who doesn't love cookies?
Unlucky_Leader 5y ago
not op, but all sounds good. baking cooking is a fine excuse to get pounded.
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Coffee dates are great for me because of my logistics. I have a coffee shop close to my house next to the beach. I know alot of the personal there, so I have social proof. And I have plausible deniability to "go for a walk along the water" which makes us end up at my house
Two_kids_in_a_coat 5y ago
Drinks if you’re old enough, ice cream if you’re not.
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Youcantbanthechamp 5y ago
Do you live in a porno?
BeATrumpet 5y ago
Maybe if you're already fucking her. Or the vibe is extremely sexual which is kind of hard for newbies to get into.
Tldr: this is a little autistic lol
eddie_hascal 5y ago
Coffee is an alright place to start. But have a plan as to where to take it. Don't sit around for too long, you lose any inertia. Look for live music. Comedy shows. Some activity. And have a plan to pull.
NorthWonder 5y ago
Literally anything. Just don’t be boring. I always invite them over to cook. Easy day.
Unlucky_Leader 5y ago
go to meals? i have tried meatballs. getting hands dirty rolling them is fun.
NorthWonder 5y ago
Whatever you want to eat, but keep it light. She wants to feel sexy, not bloated.
MattyAnon Admin 5y ago
Drinks is better.
As a FWB once told me "the nice guys ask you out for coffee, the bad boys ask you out for drinks".
kabuto_mushi 5y ago
Unfortunate to hear. I hate alcohol.
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A nice guy who asks her out for drinks is still a nice guy, a bad boy who asks her out for coffee is still a bad boy. Who you are and how you interact with her is more important than the venue you are at. Coffee dates are very good ime
MattyAnon Admin 5y ago
It's not you drinking ;)
ioncehadsexinapool 5y ago
Same
[deleted] 5y ago
shit faced chicks ftw?
MattyAnon Admin 5y ago
That would be rape, according to modern law in which the man is responsible for the woman's actions.
[deleted] 5y ago
Not unless you beat them to the reporting office first ;)
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Maybe. This is just one case though lol but it is... weird. Someone should try this.
MattyAnon Admin 5y ago
Hang on, I thought women wanted victims to always be unconditionally believed? :)
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Pick one.
noPTSDformePlease 5y ago
Coffee is for business meetings.
Drinks are for business meetings ????
KeffirLime 5y ago
I never do coffee, it's too much of a friend vibe, casual drinks, easiest position to escalate from.
ronalddrump69 5y ago
+1. coffee is boring, drinks are fun, get her tipsy
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PlebDestroyer 5y ago
Well if he really means “casual” drinks then this means before there’s a bouncer there to ID you.
Most chicks in college towns have reals or fakes at my school for going out at night.
alucard1uk 5y ago
Then food, dinner. You don't pay for her food FYI and don't go anywhere expensive, it's easy enough to go cheap and cheerful.
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MrBowlfish 5y ago
They're just afraid of it. If you have the right frame, you can pull from dinner no prob. It's about the man behind the wheel, not the starting point.
alucard1uk 5y ago
To me dinner means you can get drinks, either before after or during. I'd normally meet up at x get a few drinks then dinner.
Also a few women will think they are getting a free meal... Drinks pre dinner you get to vet their shit first. Hell I've done cinema on the first date, said cinema had a bar, I'm always early....
FirstnameLastnamePKA 5y ago
I'm assuming the poster is American. No ordering any alcohol below 21, no loopholes such as ordering food that accompanies it.
BeATrumpet 5y ago
Yeah feed her for free, she's full of free food and not horny, you have poor positioning for physical game, you go home and jerk off and your wallet is $50-100 lighter. Fuck dinner dates
alucard1uk 5y ago
Who said anything about you paying for her food? You can suggest w/e that doesn't mean you have to stick to it.
BeATrumpet 5y ago
It's still fucking lame. Food=boring. Drinks+activity=sexual
alucard1uk 5y ago
Right so you wouldn't have any drinks when you initially meet up? Or during food? Or after? Not my issue if you can't keep someone ropped in with your chat.
BeATrumpet 5y ago
It's just not my thing. I feel food with a chick is good for example: a date where you guys make food together, fuck and then eat.
alucard1uk 5y ago
That can work as well, it is just a template and we all need to build our own game around whatever works for us. Hell I'd take a girl to weatherspoon (chain in the UK) pint and burger £8 and £ 2.20 for decent beers(give or Take) Pay for your own if they get pissy then hey ho make sure you got the second one lined up.
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Unlike other commenters I actually like coffee dates because it's a lower time and money investment and I'm not wasting a valuable friday or saturday night on a girl who might not pan out.
But it's all about my impression of her. If it's a girl who I think is a slut then I'm definitely choosing drinks. A "nicer" girl, then I'm probably gonna do a coffee date or another type of day date.
[deleted] 5y ago
Surprised at some of these answers, fellas... but coffee dates are actually great and are an important tool in the arsenal. When you are juggling multiple plates (or y'know cheating on an actual gf), you will find there are only so many hours in a day and only so many days in a week - subtract a few of those evenings for solitary pursuits or non-pussy related duties and all of a sudden you could find yourself trying to juggle Jane, Sheila, Cynthia and Lisa in a three day window. This is where a.m. pimping comes in and coffee dates coupled with a bracing morning stroll are a great way to make an impression on a mark... first of all, little to none of your competiton is doing it, so you set yourself apart immediately. Secondly, if you are able to locate a non-chain cafe and/or a lesser known venue for a stroll, it will create a story in her head in which you are the star! (Anecdotal note: I used almosy exclusively a.m. entanglements like coffee or breakfast dates to wheel a smoking hot Persian personal trainer I destroyed and didn't even phase in drinks until it was time to seal the deal).
mrHappyPotatoe 5y ago
How about motorcycle ride?
LeDolceVita 5y ago
the coffee might spill
BeATrumpet 5y ago
Oh god I want a motorcycle so fucking bad.
boy_named_su 5y ago
Coffee and a walk. If you're still having fun after the coffee is done, go for a drink.
I use this for internet dates, in case they're psychos or liars
bruiser18 5y ago
Don't ask, tell her you're going for coffee. Drinks would be better though
mushroom_overlord 5y ago
Nothing wrong with it.
si1ma31 5y ago
There is a whole subpopulation that doesn't drink so nothing wrong with coffee. I've seen it called Date 0.
Kevin19Fish 5y ago
Nah. Take her bowling, than to the Cheesecake Factory, than to a field to lay down and look at the stars.
Bowling = fun expierence
Cheesecake Factory = semi romantic setting to get to know each other
Field with stars = perfect for escalation
Always works for me
Youcantbanthechamp 5y ago
Dirty talk over texts then meet up somewhere. If you can't get to the point where you're dirty talking during text, don't bother meeting up.
BeATrumpet 5y ago
Is this from tinder/bumble or after getting her number in person? I use texting mostly for logistics and meeting up and then sexually pursuing her on the date.
Youcantbanthechamp 5y ago
I know a lot of people do it like that on trp. My strategy is unorthodox but has been so brutally successful and efficient that it's almost unfair. Of course, a prerequisite is knowing how to escalate via text and investing some time doing that.
And so, because it works and because it's so easy at this point, there's no need for me to ever pickup in person in the first place.
BeATrumpet 5y ago
Ok but is it from online apps or numbers from real life meetings
Youcantbanthechamp 5y ago
BeATrumpet 5y ago
You know what dude, you have a point. I'm going to try this.