To start off, I'm no incel. I've been around the block.
One of my regular plates has exhibited behaviors I've never seen before. Here's the rundown:
Positives:
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Drives two hours to see me every weekend.
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Pays for my food.
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Massively helped me out when I moved.
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Doesn't withold sex.
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Does whatever the fuck I tell her to do.
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Lets me drive her car.
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Short, cute, slim, and a fat ass.
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Only has been with two guys before me (or so she says, I'm no fool).
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She knows I'm seeing other girls, shit-tests me about this constantly.
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Hasn't pushed for commitment.
- Isn't clingy.
Negatives:
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Always has to have the last word.
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Occasionally challenges my authority.
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Has shown flaky behavior in two instances (instinct tells me she was dicked down)
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Sometimes behaves as if she's been dicked down prior to seeing me.
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Hit it raw the first time we fucked (big mistake I know, but didn't catch anything).
- Acts VERY differently with her friends. She's loud and there's a slight change in dialect with friends. With me she's the quiet, proper good girl.
There are no unicorns, and yes, AWALT. I'm finding myself slowly catching one-itis, or maybe I'm in the deep-end already, that's what you guys are here to tell me. I haven't been showing much BB or provider traits. I fucked this girl the first day we met so our relationship has been purely sexual from the start.
What do you guys think?
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strikethrough123 6y ago
It's been a little less than five months now. There hasn't been any changes in behavior.
fnordsnord 6y ago
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strikethrough123 6y ago
Thank you good sir
quicklogaccount 6y ago
If you're not in scarcity and you're still getting oneitis, great, she brings something more to the table besides sex and you happen to enjoy it. Maintain your ability to leave at all times and you're good to go man.
RAiderNat88 6y ago
Sounds like she's already a fwb not a plate. If you decide to LTR the shit-tests will continue and also intensify as she tries to beta you. Remember some times bitches are just good fwb and nothing more. I wouldn't advise the LTR, limit your time to said fwb, and possibly demote to plate until your oneitis subsides and you can think clearly to make a proper decision.
Based off this alone I wouldn't LTR the bitch.
strikethrough123 6y ago
Will keep her as FWB and not upgrade to LTR. Part of the reason I thought I wanted to LTR was because of the guilt I feel for not committing despite all she's done, but once I realized that's the blue pill beta bitch boy talking, all desire subsided. Your input helped, thank you sir.
LordThunderbolt 6y ago
Your positive 4 and 5 don't compute wih your negative 2, 3, and 4. There is an error in her matrix.