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Metalgear222 5y ago
Many of the people that come here for pussy, leave hardly caring for it. Typically these are the ones that actually swallow the pill. This is because when the reality that women are largely a waste of time sets in, you're truly free.
That being said if you're exaggerating or being dishonest with yourself and us, I've heard it best summed up like this;
"If you are having success with women and doing it right, you aren't going to go MGTOW."
Narcissist456 5y ago
Mgtow doesn’t necessarily mean no pussy, it just means no commitment.
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monsieurhire2 5y ago
I feel the same way, but worry that this selects for crazy chicks, because high value women are constantly being pursued and competed over. If you become passive because you REALLY don't care, which as you get older, becomes more and more of a thing, you can get jumped on by some crazy broad savvy enough to keep it under wraps until she has you hooked.
Metalgear222 5y ago
That's fine as long as you know that you're describing a fantasy and that you'll always have to show a base level of interest and actually talk to any girl you want to fuck.
red_matrix 5y ago
If you want quality girls you need to do the chasing, they won't come to you. That's not how this shit works. Op needs to read the Book of Pook again.
mallardcove 5y ago
You aren't wrong, but you simply need to initiate the chase with quality girls, not do all the chasing. Once you have initiated, then you can sit back and wait for them to chase you back.
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red_matrix 5y ago
It's the only one that matters.
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I don't blame him. MGTOW is no longer "men going their own way" it seems to be more "men hating women and blaming them for everything" atleast this is what /r/mgtow is like now. People stating "I hope she gets raped" or "she deserves to die"..... SMH
red_matrix 5y ago
It reads like a professional wrote it, I always wondered if Rollo was the author.
blister333 5y ago
I understand your point and somewhat agree, but what is success? I doubt we’re talking about marriage and probably not LTRs. So a string of shorter term flings? I guess... doesn’t really seem like success really amounts to that much imo
Metalgear222 5y ago
I define success as a never ending stream of girls in and girls out with low investment. To satiate being a male and having a sex drive. I don't fight it, and I certainly don't cheat it by jerking off in excess of once a week.
abudun79 5y ago
It is not normal if the strongest instinct (by far) that you have fails you. For a period of time it might be overwritten by something else, like the success you described.
Hormones, addiction, fear, ... whatever it is you should check that, it is not good for you.
If you perceive thant as an achievment of any kind, see a therapist.
W_O_M_B_A_T 5y ago
Apathy/depression phase.
TheTrenTrannyTrain 5y ago
No, I love sex, can't get enough with different women.
VoidInvincible 5y ago
How tall
NewHum 5y ago
Same here Brother!
Im 22 and hadn’t had sex since the end of high school and so far I don’t give a single fuck about it.
For the last two years I have been so busy improving myself that I hardly have the time for friends let alone women. I have been working hard on my career, have started boxing every day of the week, I run every day and hit the gym 6 days of the week.
When you compare all that to dealing with women it just seams like the most tremendous waste of time.
Mr_Badass 5y ago
This is normal in monk mode, (currently 4 months). The more time I spend with women the less I care about chasing them. I have a higher calling for adventure and getting stuff done. I believe the reason this happens is due to an abundance mentality and that they are a distraction.
empatheticapathetic 5y ago
I have lost my sex drive. Asked many questions about it over the last few years on here. I’ve definitely suppressed it somewhat and am having trouble bringing it back out in a healthy way.
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I couldn't give a shit about romance even if I was looking for it.
After swallowing the red pill a couple years ago this is all I see when I look at the opposite sex: every girl is just another girl, they're all just the same, there's millions out there just like her, they're all just animals following their biological imperative. I'm not even able to take girls seriously anymore and I'm only 23.
Travel a bit and you'll reach this mindset in no time.
cglehosit 5y ago
Yep, I’ve arrived here too. My epiphany was in Vegas, all these fake women wandering around drunk. That’s the dream right? A girls night in Vegas. And it’s pathetic. Now that’s all I see, the potential for them to be absolutely wasted.
NewHum 5y ago
Im 22 and think exactly alike. Once you learn enough about females and their mentality you find out that 99% of them are doing exactly the same stuff and are all incredibly predictable and often quite pathetic in their daily pursuits.
Peter_B_Long 5y ago
It comes and goes. Some days like this week I'll just be in the mood to focus on myself (gym, work, hobbies, plans with friends) and pussy will be the last thing on my mind, even though I'll still approach a cute girl just because I know I need the practice.
Some days maybe when I have all my shit together and I'm feeling happy with myself I'll hop on Tinder or set up a meet with a plate and I'll be a bit more focused on trying to get laid.
I think I just don't like hanging out with girls when I'm in a "productive / serious" mood. I think that I just like to "have fun" with girls you know by gaming, teasing, joking, etc. so when I'm in a serious almost monk mode state of mind, I don't even like to text my plates back or reply to some texts / DM's from girls.
RivenHalf 5y ago
Getting laid is great but there is millions of things that are great and far more fulfilling. The Red Pill teaches you that the most important thing is your own happiness and women can't and will not change that. If you're genuinely happy as you stand now then so be it.
NewHum 5y ago
Also the more you develop yourself and the less you give a fuck about women the more they are attracted to you and will try to chase you.
imtheoneimmortal 5y ago
this is so true, when you don't have target as i have to met 10 new girls sometime they will contact you
Backfrominceldom 5y ago
I only feel like that when I'm not around pussy. I live ina very young and dynamic city where girls are gorgeous. One visit to the beach and I swear you'll change your mind. When you see 4-5 girls laying on the sand with just a thong and a fat, perfect oiled ass, then another 4 playing volley ball in the water with their tits bouncing, you'll feel the urge to fuck reallyreally bad.
GucciGangBucks 5y ago
Yes, but only if I’m incredibly focused on my purpose at the time. Me being successful is more important then women at this time in my life. If I’m heavy focused on goals I don’t have the time for the shit and my focus goes to my goals. If you’re mind is always on women and worrying about women you’re not redpill imo.
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Yes.
And I am always saying here, RP is not just about banging chicks. It is about becoming a real man and living life properly. I was forced to swallow the pill again on a dry throat recently because I realised I was not doing this (overweightness).
You build your frame and girls will come. Either way you have a frame. Money, muscle, longevity, health, happiness, attitude...all these things are important. Women are not important. They are just the good side effects of having a strong frame.
beefthathasredmiddle 5y ago
Sounds a lot like me right now. It’s just almost been a year, one more week and it will be my no pussy anniversary. Certainly not intentional lol.
Though, my place is consistently clean, I doubled my income, I’m reading, going to the gym, and going out and trying new things.
I guess there was comfort in knowing I was at rock bottom. Still a lot of room going forward, and it wasn’t always easy cutting out toxic friendships. I think for the first time in my life I’m excited for my journey. Keep on going man, cheers.
inhiarashi 5y ago
Happy for you.
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Yep. Pretty much.
I was at a low-point in my life back then. I was obese, no job, no income, clinically depressed and all I think about is how to get girls. Don't get me wrong college was a blast and things were great but after I graduated everything went downhill for reason I've yet to figure out. After I had enough of all of it, I began to work myself up, learned new skills, went to gym and then lost a lot of weight, and have a career and all that.
Now I'm on a much better spot and eventhough life is far from perfect when you are self-confident in yourself, women usually came like an after-thought than something you fret yourself every day. I've been single for about few years by now and although it does bother me from time to time going out alone on weekends and all, at the end of the day I think I wouldn't trade-off all of the things I've worked on just for the sake of a woman, especially if I heard all the stories that go around about LTR nightmare out there.
It's not a good idea to let yourself down just for the sake of getting laid anyway. If you are going into any LTR I suggest you do it with a clear conscience rather than necessity, since if you flip the script you might be compelled to stay in the relationship to settle and you think with your dick, not because you honestly want to have a good partner. Been there done that.
zboo1h 5y ago
I have sex quite regularly and I still don't give a shit about it or "romance" or whatever. I don't pursue it any harder than I'd pursue a pizza that I'm ordering, it shows up at my door and I eat it then shit it out later and never think about it.
VoidInvincible 5y ago
So how tall are you?
yeezymacheet 5y ago
excellent wording haha, happy bday btw man!
Morphs_ 5y ago
It will likely change for what it is: women as a fun pastime without drama or extensive attention. At least, that's what it is right now for me. I feel great and focus on myself, while getting loads of pussy whenever I like.
Tousen71 5y ago
That monk mode is real my guy. Much respect. I’ve been looking to cut off all pursuits myself but breaking the hunter urge has been difficult. I’ve got 2-3 distant plates (can hit them up to chill but they aren’t on my dick) and I just reloaded the Bumble and Tinder accounts. How did you break through the “I need to fuck something NOW” urge?
needoptionsnow 5y ago
MTGOW
wobbleelbbow 5y ago
Incel cope it is.
3d_truth 5y ago
You haven't had a realization. I think you are lying to yourself. The fact that you had anxiety about girls leaving you shows me that you haven't transcended sex and relationships, you are just hiding from a part of yourself you don't like.
You get anxiety about girls leaving you think you need girls to be happy. To change this, we don't shut ourselves off and avoid girls and think that we have improved because we no longer have to experience that feeling. We change by realising that if a girl leaves us, we are absolutely fine. It doesn't even affect us, or diminish us, because our happiness comes from ourselves and not girls.
That being said, this attitude is attractive to girls, and thus we still have girls in our life and enjoy having sex with them.
Edit// also, girls aren't going to pursue you. If you want to have casual sex with hot girls, you have to make it happen. And don't tell me you don't want that.
Shredderick420 5y ago
Are you on ableton?
I guess fulfillment comes in many different ways.
hazaraMoghul 5y ago
MGTOW babe
willowhawk 5y ago
How much you wanking dude
trpboy123 5y ago
It's a phase.
ThatGuyIam123 5y ago
U could always switch teams and have anal sex with men.
bluefingerblue 5y ago
If you stopped wanking I’m gonna guess you’ll start caring about sex.
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chazthundergut 5y ago
That's the thing though. You're supposed to deal with feelings and attachments and emotions.
Deal with them and handle them.
Don't live your life afraid of a bitch. Time to leave the bat cave and go bag yourself a Joker.
Good luck.
PappaSmurfAndTurf 5y ago
Check out r/MAGTOW it might be a little more up your alley.