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friendandadvisor 5y ago
Thine ass is out yon door. Get thee hence, and findest thou a new maiden. She wilt have none of thee in weeks anon.
In short, your bitch is trying to upgrade to him. She doesn't want to know what you have to say about him, she wants to fuck his brains out. You need to start looking for a replacement super quick. I don't think that he's trying to do you dirt, your gf is just trying to latch onto him. She's the bad apple, not the dude.
MisterRoid 5y ago
Her daughter calling you "daddy" is supposed to be a good thing? Fucking pathetic. Get some self-respect.
ishyman 5y ago
It’s not gonna be easy bud, but I am sorry. End it. She already crossed a unspoken boundary and broke your trust by hiding his name. Heart breaks suck but at least you’re not married or engaged to that mess. Consider yourself lucky.
Exodus230 5y ago
If a woman ever talked about a guy like that in my presence they'd be out the door faster than a blink of an eye.
manwhoknowshow2feel 5y ago
"her daughter calls me dad"
friendandadvisor 5y ago
Like she did the last bf that mom had. Like she will the next bf the mom has.
alleyteris 5y ago
I ve noticed some red flags
Mate let me make it simple for you, your gf is a single mom who still wants chad to ram her in the ass but also someone to be a beta for her and her child and take care of them.And you are not the Chad here , i bet she already fucked him else she wouldnt try to had his phone number.You ARE NOT responsible to mate guard her from other men as SHE IS SUPPOSED to block other mens attempts to fuck her and i dont she her blocking him...
Put on your seat belt cause you are in for a bumpy ride with your relationship cause that smells like trouble ,fom miles away.
All you can do now is read the fucking side bar in the red pill main sub and after ypu binge read everything there , then read The Rational Male .
NavyBlueCrow 5y ago
Been in something similar. Yes, we had great relationship. And yes she fucked him. It's her not your job, and this phone thing nahh brother. You are cucked or you will be cucked.
XT3M3 5y ago
if a partner is hiding a person under a fake name. it means they know they aren't suppose to be talking to yhem. thsts literally grounds for a break up. i wont be surprised if they fucked already .
you said they haven't cause " i know her" congrats. you kbow a compulsive liar
C-ingRed 5y ago
You're probably right that she hasn't fucked him yet. But she is absolutely going to, save yourself the trouble and hard next her. I understand you have a lot invested but that is no excuse to ruin your life further.
The fake name in her phone thing is a sure thing she is going to cheat on you. You have to realize that it's not just one small thing, that's just the thing you caught her doing.
She absolutely Does. Not. Respect. You!
None of the time and resources you have given her matter because she is only concerned with her "right now" feels. And pretty soon it's gonna be kickboxer dong, do you understand?
wobbleelbbow 5y ago
Thing is OP values his own life the least in this situation. As if he exists for others only.
abudun79 5y ago
How did it happen, that you found this place, and not dare to read the sidebar? And why did reddit print your text in black and not in deep blue? The blue is dripping from every paragraph and you should do something about that. If not for this relationship, then for everything to come.
Read the sidebar!
By that I mean, read the books and articles linked there, not the sidebar literally. Read it until you understand it. The implement what you learned and read it again. Start with The Rational Male (blog over books) and NMMNG.
hyrea 5y ago
Let me get this straight, in your mind he is the asshole and your girlfriend is the victim? I would have been done with your post the moment you mentioned she had his number with a girl's name, but I continued reading for the cringe.
Bedtimeshine 5y ago
You look at yourself in the mirror and ask yourself why you don’t have enough self respect to show her the door. You shouldn’t get rid of him... you should get rid of her.
doorterblack 5y ago
Quality shitpost
wobbleelbbow 5y ago
Hmmm...
So basically OP is beta and afraid of losing a single mom to alpha boy.. sidebar.
She's not yours. If you wanna keep her you have to let her go. Otherwise she will feel that you control her too much. And that, my friend, is why most relationships fail when it's a guy's fault. They start controlling too much.
You have to let her dig her own grave if she wants and there's plenty of other bitches and single moms in the world. Abundance! Fucking SIDEBAR
And the fact that you tolerate her having his phone number is enough to know about your status. You have oneitis.
Incognito_famous 5y ago
She had him under a girls name on her phone? That's a serious red flag for me.
Zhigaag 5y ago
This, right here.
throwaway2_5_5_2 5y ago
yeah, more like, completely fucked.
Rares5555 5y ago
Yeah, more like, fucking next.
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friendandadvisor 5y ago
As the kitty said, "Tough Titty." It doesn't matter what YOU want. What matters is the way things are. Count your blessings that you found out when you did.
This girl doesn't want you, and she is trying to drop you for the other guy. Even if he flakes off, she'll still be a piece of shit, and worthless to you. Always looking for someone better. It's hard to swallow, but, it's not the end of the world.
epictetus_irl 5y ago
Dude get real. Please.
The last girl I fucked just signed a 30 year mortgage with her boyfriend a few weeks before I met her. One screenshot and I could ruin the rest of his life.
They don’t fucking care like we care. Loyalty is not a female concept.
Hypergamy doesn’t give a fuck about your love.
arphmaal 5y ago
She’s not your girl it was just your turn and it sounds like it’s someone else’s turn bro. I’m sorry
BecomingChad 5y ago
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BuckNekkid18 5y ago
Might as well off yourself right now with that mentality. Don't be surprised when you marry her and find out that your kids are Chad's after he pumped and dumped her.
wobbleelbbow 5y ago
You're a moron who loves being cucked. You want this? Wanna see her banging your bully??? Might as well call your dad and let him join too into this sausage train. You should love yourself first. And it seems you don't.
Jack0fDiamonds 5y ago
The line was crossed when you found her texting him UNDER A FAKE NAME IN HER CELLPHONE. Not to mention this guy is a person who wronged you-and she doesn't give a fuck about how that makes you feel. That is an overt statement on where you stand in your relationship. You can see this as a gift-as her true nature has been exposed for what it is and leave. Or you can force her to choose and redeem herself. Doing neither of these options is a disservice to yourself, and you deserve a fair and loyal partner. Also if you see this guy's car anywhere pour sugar in his gas tank.
Chad1738 5y ago
Dig a 7x3 ft wide hole with a shovel. Use said shovel to hit him on the head when he isn’t looking. Dump him inside the new hole, cover hole with dirt. -end-
No but really. You don’t. It’s your girls responsibility to get rid of him. If she doesn’t, Time to next her as a gf and find new girls. Go read the sidebar btw. You have lots of shit to learn.
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Wtf she had him saved under a girl’s name? That’s fucking grounds for you dumping her dude.
SniXSniPe 5y ago
This sounds fake, honestly.
There's nothing that needs to be discussed here. Just dump her and move on. It's clear as day. She'll be all over him as soon as you breakup, if she isn't already. This shit will drag on until she finally does something (I mean, she kind of already has at this point even if not physically).
He's tall to the point where looks don't even matter, probably has smooth game, and is a fighter. Nothing you can do to really compete with that-- but you shouldn't have to with your girlfriend. Plus, I guarantee you all of her friends/sister are influencing their opinion of him.
The fact that she is unwilling to cut contact off with him and keeps him in her phone under another name says enough about her character. She's a single mother, anyways. Don't let your attachment of the kid blindside you for how shitty her mother is, even if the kid is great. She isn't and doesn't respect you, and found something she feels is better.
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friendandadvisor 5y ago
I've invested over 2800 dollars, excluding purchase price, in a 2003 Dodge Durango. The best thing that I ever did was to take it to the scrap heap.
Let her know that you are rethinking your relationship and planning on moving out, or, if you are living in YOUR house, let her know to make other arrangements. She will never change her attitude, although this dude will start ignoring her, once she becomes too tiresome for him.
SniXSniPe 5y ago
Why can't you? You can certainly plan for it to happen in a short amount of time, right?
You shouldn't have to message a guy to "back off". It's never your job to enforce your girlfriend's behavior.
Your girlfriend shouldn't be keeping contact with a notorious playboy who obviously wronged you in the past, when you have already basically laid it down you don't like it.
Worst, she keeps saving his name under different names, which means she is very much aware she is doing something wrong and doesn't want you to find out.
Let me guess, she always keeps her phone with her now, and will soon change the password?
Bedtimeshine 5y ago
1.) yes you can. Easily. You just don’t want to. 2. This has proven to be a poor investment. It’s time to cowboy the fuck up and adapt. Your investment doesn’t seem to mean much to her so you should stop investing. Google “sunk cost fallacy.” Your playing this all wrong. You speak with your actions. No ultimatums. No arguing. No complaining. She crosses a line, you end it. Period. She acts right and earns you back then Great... if not... then You know you made the right choice by ending it. You have done nothing but show weakness... it’s time to start acting with strength
ShotgunTRP 5y ago
Yes you can
And it’s all you’ve got at this point
You’ve made so many mistakes that it’s ruined and you need to let it go
wobbleelbbow 5y ago
Then uninvest because the ship is sinking
CalvinRichland 5y ago
LEAVE HER NOW SHE IS A LYING WHORE
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Chill bro i can almost hear some guy (you) by reading this. Though, when people do stuff like this it is usually funny.
epictetus_irl 5y ago
You’re fucked.
I’ve been the guy that women put in their phones as a girls name so their boyfriends won’t get suspicious.
I was fucking every one of them.
Also.
The fact that you verbalised how much you don’t want her talking to him only means you’ve increased his value in her eyes. If you see him as a threat he must have value right? That’s how women think.
Dread is the only viable option at this point . Assuming she hasn’t fucked the guy already.
friendandadvisor 5y ago
This. The fact that he beat you when you were younger actually excites her. And, your crying to her about it makes her despise you. She no longer wants you, and is just waiting for him to snap his fingers and she will dump you like a ton of bricks. Just think: you told her that he actually used to beat your ass...and she defended HIM! How bad is that?? She must really think that you are a pussy.
Start looking for her replacement right now. Read the sidebar. Lift.
TRPKiddo 5y ago
“If you could bag that bitch, you could have that bitch.”
You’re supposed to not give a fuck. Can’t do that? At least act like it. Every time you act mad about her talking about him, you literally push her toward him. This was hard to read.
500mg sidebar DAILY.
wobbleelbbow 5y ago
Increase the dosage to 1500mg better
light-----------dark 5y ago
Next her.
If you weren’t spending all your time trying to control what your girlfriend is doing, then you would probably have time to build your frame so she can worry about what you’re doing.
Zhigaag 5y ago
My thoughts on this (and the group will set me straight if this is incorrect) is to alpha up and beat the living shit out of him. That's what she wants.
A kickboxer ain't shit if you can get the jump on him with a tazer and a baseball bat. Break both kneecaps and both elbows, bust his nose, jaw, break a few ribs. Crack his pelvis a few times. Make sure you really cripple this fucker without killing him.
Then confront her and tell her the next time she steps out of line and decides to be a whore, that you won't stop at just putting him in the hospital and that she'll be burying the body, not you.
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friendandadvisor 5y ago
HE isn't your enemy; SHE is.
ETA: Good to see you're still reading the thread.
ShotgunTRP 5y ago
That’s why you can get an ak47 in the usa ????????
Load up and pump him full of lead and when the police arrive put a screw driver in his hand and say “self defence I dindu nuffin”
friendandadvisor 5y ago
Username fits.