This definitely motivates me strongly to talk and approach a lot more because being lazy in this regard means staying thirsty on that day and thinking about how much this would suck is quite effective at giving me that push.
The downside is that I probably give off a 'I definitely need to get laid right now' vibe which is the inverse of a 'I am a relaxed, content man which has abundance and choices'.
Do you prefer to game while being 'hungry' or do you rather prefer to be already sexually satisfied so that you don't really mind the rejections?
AsianWater 5y ago
When you are horny women sense it. Mix it with abandance mentally and you won't seem as desperate. Just a cool dude that's "attracted" to her.
Gruss_p 5y ago
Only if you expose your horniness through your body language or talking. They can't sense it or smell it, don't be silly.
redpharma7789 5y ago
Yes. I don’t know about you but when I jerk off, I become a crusty, miserable, and lazy fuck. I need a nap and some social interaction before the oxytocin leaves my body. So I don’t jerk off on nights out.
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Just_Isaak 5y ago
Unless you have forskin. No need for lotion then. Just stroke, and empty inside your belly button.
[deleted] 5y ago
Nice try Alpha.
alvaro10101 5y ago
This.
[deleted] 5y ago
Abstaining from masturbation is generally a good idea.
twdziki 5y ago
Being horny is not necessarily detrimental to the game. If they consider you attractive, women will actually be flattered seeing that you're turned on by them.
Just don't be desperate or obnoxious about it.
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Unpopular opinion on here but if I know I'm going out that night I'll "clean the pipes" earlier that day or the night before.
I've cut my jerking off to once every 10-14 days. If I've gone 14 days without busting a nut then grind with a girl at a bar or club then foreplay there's a decent chance I don't even make it to fucking.
abudun79 5y ago
I think you'll have an easier time to control your desire and turn it to down to a working level, than motivating yourself to really get it on with a girl if you're balls are drained and you're basically out of fuel.
Just try it, the cost is the same. Experiment with the time frame between last jerkoff and actual date. Find the sweep-spot.
Lambdal7 5y ago
If you're a very shy person and need to get out of your shell, yes.
If you're an outgoing, bold person, no, it will make you look thirsty.
PR0JECT_XIII 5y ago
THE PHEROMONAL BETA
You choke the chicken before any big date, don’t you?
Rational Male
Edit: yes, they want a loaded gun.
huge_gap 5y ago
Abstain as much as possible in general for maximum effect.