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bondbandito 5y ago
Most likely you're cute.
Anyway. It's most likely that they all do have interest but you overinvest upon knowing they are interested - when there's no chase, there's no challenge.
Red_Ninja7 5y ago
Starting off on the red pill you are better off to concern yourself with increasing your own SMV and frame. That will help a lot with getting 'friend zoned' and other specific little issues like these.
For the "Can't you see I have a crush on you" maybe go cocky/funny. Like "Yeah, I know, but I don't think you could handle me in bed."
If a girl talks to you about a guy in a sexual way you could start talking even more explicitly about what she should do with him sexually (sort of agree and amplify). Maybe end with "At least that's what I'd do, if I was fucking you."
bondbandito 5y ago
Could you tell OP how a stronger frame would have looked like in his scenario?
NeedingAdvice86 5y ago
I don't think this is the best info because honestly he sounds like he is pretty young.
And very doubtful that he is talking about the level of girl who would respond well with the "if I was fucking you" or "handling someone in bed" along with he likely doesn't have the image or SMV to pull it off.
It is going to come out autistic as hell in the high school cafeteria.
ZeppKfw 5y ago
Girls love to gossip. He'll end up fucking himself in the end.
[deleted] 5y ago
The only way to find out is to make a move.
Worst case she says “ewww we are friends”
Best case she is into it.
There’s a middle case where she says, “ewww we are friends” and then a few weeks later she is into it.
Make a move
El_Serpiente_Roja 5y ago
To break out of, or reveal, the friendzone you have to polarize...do something that draws a line in the sand.. and it can be as simple as stating intentions or asking out or sexually playful remarks etc ..alot of dudes in the FZ have never polarized a girl because they are afraid of rejection/reaction but that shit is nothing to be afriad of
pnzndltn 5y ago
Probably one of the most important lessons I've learned from TRP. Either they're into it at that point, or they're not. Either way, you obliterate the "friend zone" so many clueless guys put themselves in.
NeedingAdvice86 5y ago
The only answer isn't the one that you are searching for.....
You find out by making your move.
And here is the thing...you will be forever more forgiven\rewarded by making a move on a girl who only sees you as a friend than you will ever for not making a move on a girl who is interested in you.
Only reddit girls get offended at a guy asking them out on a date.....and those chicks are virtually all anti-social drabs who someone cobbled together just enough social ability to get some HB4 dude to ask them out which they instantly made their BF so that they would have to be sociable any longer.
Most girls think of you as a man when asking them out if you are not their type.
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mikkeldaman 5y ago
Derivative of x or partial differential of x? I'm confused. I'm not asking about ex's.
Ezaar 5y ago
Nut
boy_named_su 5y ago
You kino escalate and go for the kiss. If she kisses you back, she's crushing on you
vicious_armbar 5y ago
How can you tell the difference? If she’ll let you put your penis inside her you haven’t been friendzoned.
mikkeldaman 5y ago
That is not only contradictory to the red pill community but to the whole reddit community. It seems like everyone here has a friend with benefits, of course on top of the six figure salary.
vicious_armbar 5y ago
No it's not. It's easy to get a fuck buddy if you have: a car, your own place (even if it's a one bedroom apartment), a phone, and basic dating skills (read The Attraction Formula by Paul Janka or Black Dragon's Blog). Especially if you aim at least 2 points below your SMV. If you don't have any of those things it's time to start working on getting them.
You can tell if a woman is into you by putting the moves on her and making her shit or get off the pot. If she gets sexual with you than she doesn't see you as just a friend. If she acts flirty but he rejects you when you try to close the deal she's just stringing you along for your: attention, emotional support, resources, etc.
mikkeldaman 5y ago
OK. This was a bit more of a developed and helpful response. I responded sarcastically to your initial comment because it came across as snarky.
friendandadvisor 5y ago
You haven't read the sidebar, have you??
mikkeldaman 5y ago
I asked a general question. I didn't ask how to make a girl who friendzoned me like me or shit like that. Also it's interesting that only people who actually know what they are talking about gave helpful advice.