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[deleted] 5y ago
You're overthinking. Even if you wait 2 weeks she'll flake. Sounds like an attention hoe to me. Anyway, I'd agree and amplify:
Wait for her response, ignore it and ask for her number. Couple more texts and say you'll be at X place at X time and she can join. If she flakes then soft next.
Zhigaag 5y ago
This, right here, is why I L-O-V-E you guys. That is freaking awesome!
novasoline 5y ago
The hell is with constantly saying "one day", it sounds uncertain/unconfident. Give her a specific date for a week out. If she says no and doesn't counter, then move on. Doesn't waste your time.
cptgoatsack 5y ago
If she was interested she would have jumped at the chance to have you show her around the city. Next.
always_sad12 5y ago
Just say yeah of course and then message her in two weeks. Meanwhile meet other girls.
RedSkeller 5y ago
Any time you try to set up plans and you get hit with up to a week - she's not interested. Not that you can't lazily ping her a week later but generally she's just fishing for validation. Best thing to do is not act butthurt about it and give her your phone number. Sometimes they come back around eventually and then it's an easy pick up.
a_nus 5y ago
Gewt her snapchat and forget about her for 2 weeks.
Peter_B_Long 5y ago
"ok, let me know if you change your mind" and then just let it go. She seems like she's looking for validation.
dbz0x 5y ago
Unmatch and on to the next.
DeontologicalSanders 5y ago
Read between the lines.
Her manifest message is "Aw, shucks. I'd really like to see you, but now is not a convenient time, and also I'm an understanding person in case you didn't know."
The latent content is, "You're not that attractive and I'm on the fence about you. You can keep messaging me and giving me attention, and maybe at some point I'll exercise my option to meet you. But probably not. Also, here's a dose of plausible deniability so you can't call me a bitch for rejecting you."
Not that you should be upset by it, but her tone and timbre is insulting.
Ignore her indefinitely unless she messages you, then ignore her some more. Only respond if she's suddenly and obviously enthusiastic.
Delusion67 5y ago
Beta bait, soft next.
Ricklogical 5y ago
Tell her sure, hit you up when she is ready.
Let her contact you. Get busy with other things, other women, etc.
Phoenixston 5y ago
Have you read the sidebar? Gauge her interest by her actions not her words. Words from a woman are meaningless.
She clearly already has many dates/fuck sessions lined up over the next couple of weeks. She may be interested, but only if her other options don’t work out.
swishandswallow 5y ago
Abundance mentality. Think and act like you have 10 women waiting for your text (even if you don't). Don't ask her again and taper off, if she's interested she'll ask you.
effyouasshole 5y ago
"You gotta strike when the iron's hot, princess."
If she doesn't change her mind: "I'm not here for penpals. I wish you the best of luck!", then soft next until she reaches out with solid plans.
She's probably looking to make you an orbiter, but it doesn't matter. Either she agrees to meet, or she's done.
DeontologicalSanders 5y ago
Bad advice. "Strike while the iron is hot" is logical male advice. It will not resonate with her emotional vagina-brain. Furthermore, women don't have to strike while the iron is hot. She's a woman. The iron is always hot lol.
BrutalMan420 5y ago
agreed. this is weak and desperate.
effyouasshole 5y ago
See my other response.
effyouasshole 5y ago
Yes, it will indeed resonate with her, because it projects high-value. It shows he's not desperate and thirsty. He's got things to do, other options for dates, and doesn't care too much about her.
Even if she already decided she's only interested in a new orbiter, this response has the chance of changing her mind. You can gain a new plate this way.
DeontologicalSanders 5y ago
Nope, you're wrong. Here's why:
It absolutely does not. Words do not project high value; actions do. Women communicate through words; men through their actions.
Actually it shows the opposite. Exercising other options and not dealing with a girl who's lukewarm about him would show that he has other options. Trying to convince her that he has other options by saying "I have other options" is a weak move that women can see right through.
Furthermore, if a woman is lukewarm about you, why would you care to 'show' her anything? What has she done to deserve any info about or exposure to your life (which is already awesome, right)? If you put your best foot forward, and she comes back with "meh", why would any self-respecting man put any more effort into the interaction?
It seems counterintuitive, but the absolute optimal response here is nothing at all. The minute she expresses that she's not sure about wanting to see you, any answer you give is qualifying yourself to her, which high-value men do not do to women, because bitches ain't shit.
effyouasshole 5y ago
Nexting a woman is an action (namely, the lack of initiation and withdrawal of attention). Low-value men do not do this; they instead fall all over themselves and pour on the attention. High-value men move on when average women come their way; they have more important things to do/women to bang.
Its fine if you don't prefer my approach. There is more than one correct way to handle this. But if your replies suggest you don't understand the fundamentals yet.
11-Eleven-11 5y ago
She wouldnt make chad wait 2 weeks.
FieldLine 5y ago
I count four times in this dialogue that she expressed she isn't interested.
"But FieldLine, she said she wants to meet up in two weeks. Clearly that means she's interested?"
That's why we say to watch her actions, not her words.
Why the fuck is she on Tinder (action) if she can't meet anyone for two weeks (words)?
Two options:
In general, despite all evidence seeming to the contrary, until you get her number, secure the meet-up, and escalate in person there's a solid chance she's jerking you around. Women on Tinder are flaky as hell.
clausternn 5y ago
Out of curiosity, what are the four times she expressed disinterest? I count two at most. One being the obvious "busy for the next 2 weeks," the other being rejecting the city tour without suggesting a different activity.
Zhigaag 5y ago
"I also just moved in so I'm waiting until I can move into the house"
Huh? She just moved in, but she's waiting until she can move in? That's what I call a contradiction right there; she totally contradicted herself in the same sentence. She is a bad liar.
clausternn 5y ago
Contradictions aren't an IOD or a lie. It's just dumb girls being bad communicators.
Translation: "I just moved into a hotel/friend's couch in the city, I'm waiting to be ready to move into my actual house"
FieldLine 5y ago
When she's interested communication suddenly becomes a non-issue.
Carbone 5y ago
"Okay, too bad for you"
always_sad12 5y ago
No lol