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freew33zy 6y ago
One plate is a GF
SeekingTheWay 6y ago
The abundance is supposed to protect you from taking too much shit from a girl. Like when you know you can get a new one immediatelly, you're not going to let her abuse you or annoy your or just generally stay with a low quality girl.
oytrp 6y ago
It's toxic because now you have limited options.
You now depend on that one girl. Most of the time, that dependency will show through and be seen by her as neediness. That will make her put you in the beta category.
fnordsnord 6y ago
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JerryLawlerPigFace 6y ago
Ahh I was just in this scenario and I can say that yes, having only one option is not a good idea. As someone else said, you most likely become the plate at that point.
Regardless if you’re only seeing one girl because you’re busy, lifting, working, chasing your mission, at the end of the day she is still your only option for sex, emotional connection, etc. You are now dependent on her for sex, and when it goes awry, you’re left with nothing. You are also much more likely to develop feels/ONEitis, jealously, neediness, anger, etc.
Force yourself to have more options for your emotional and mental health but also the quality of the interactions between the girls will actually improve as well, as you’re no longer coming from a place of dependency, scarcity, fear of loss.
Yes, one “plate” is a bad idea.
CainPrice 6y ago
If you only have one plate, you don't have a plate. You're the plate.
She's your only source of sex. Meanwhile, every time she's out fucking someone else, you're at home jerking off. You're going to get lonely, jealous, angry. Because your only source of sex is out fucking other guys, and eventually, she's going to meet somebody she likes and drop her casual guys to try the girlfriend thing, or eventually, she'll meet a casual guy who looks and fucks better than you or just get bored of you.
You need five more girls just like this one.
Musicgoon 6y ago
Yes you're setting yourself up to get cucked and ditched. Abundance is one of the keys to game. Don't worry, if you continue with this pseudo oneitis you will learn the hard way.
Retstortion 6y ago
Oneitis comes when you “plate” one girl.
[deleted] 6y ago
Not true. Abundance mentality doesn’t just exist if you have 2 or more played.
Retstortion 6y ago
Lol go back to the sidebar. If you’re fucking 2 women and get oneitis you’re just a pussy
[deleted] 6y ago
Bro, I’ve been spinning plates for over a decade. I don’t like having more than 2. Sometimes plates break and then you only got 1. Don’t be a ‘tard.
“OMG! One of my plates broke. Now I’m forced to be beta!” Lmao. Get the fuck outta here.
Retstortion 6y ago
That’s not a plate, that’s a girlfriend.
RPGivesYouWings 6y ago
I think his point is that plates can break and bring you down to one... likewise, you could start at zero and build up... with one plate being the necessary number in between 0 and 2.
You’re being pedantic. Yes, if you’re only seeing one girl, she’s not a plate. But it’s more of a mindset and an intentionality— if he has one on roster and is actively seeking more and isn’t afraid to let his only pussy break, he isn’t in beta territory.
To your point, yes, you shouldn’t settle for one plate ever as that will lead to oneitis or taking shit.
[deleted] 6y ago
She comes over fucks then leaves. A girlfriend? Have you even had a girlfriend before?
Retstortion 6y ago
That’s your girlfriend
[deleted] 6y ago
K, buddy. Someone else already explained it to you. At this point you’re just being dumb on purpose.