My LTR wears clothing that exposes her cleavage quite a bit and it has caused some problems in our relationship. Her reasoning is “I do it for myself and I like the way I look.” but I simply don’t believe that. Also likes to add “I can’t stop boys from being creeps and looking.”
I’m wondering whether this is something I should care about or not. It bothers me because her body gets a lot of attention and I’m sure she knows this. Is this a red flag? Something I shouldn’t really care about? Thanks.
StrifePrevails 6y ago
She likes attention. The vast majority of women do. Just ignore it. If it gets to a point where you're uncomfortable and she won't change, leave.
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StrifePrevails 6y ago
This is the greatest argument against this I've ever seen. Consider it stolen
RiderHood 6y ago
Mate guarding is unattractive. She raises your SMV if she’s hot and goes home with you at the end of the night. If you don’t trust her to not fuck someone else then there are bigger problems and you can next or demote her. Otherwise just let her be her and enjoy it.
light-----------dark 6y ago
Tell her to put on a turtle neck, or else it’s over.
voxiqs 6y ago
You can’t make her do anything, she will resent you
Dread game or leave if you isn’t acting accordingly
I honestly see nothing wrong here unless she’s giving guys attention back though
devilkingx2 6y ago
Insecurity will kill your relationship. If you can't keep your confidence around her you've aimed too high
A lack of trust will kill your relationship, if she's such a slut you can't take your eye off of her or else she'll have a dick in her mouth wtf are you doing being in a serious relationship with her? And if she's not a whore why do you care?
Isn't it summer? Is she supposed to go outside in a sweater?
The only real problems in this situation would be: A) she doesn't give a shit about your input B) she's dressing for other guys and not to titilate you
In those cases It's a screening error, except instead of a slut you've either got an AW or someone who's too selfish to be in a relationship
CalvinRichland 6y ago
Never LTR an attention whore
69odin420 6y ago
Hard next
JohnDick2k 6y ago
Ignore, if shit gets more intense then ghost her.
GoldZone1 6y ago
Well OP she dont give a shit what you think, neither should you give a shit what she wears. You are not confident enough?
Edit: Ignore if confident, confort if ready for more bitchy behavior
JerryLawlerPigFace 6y ago
She’s advertising. Just don’t be surprised if this chick seizes what she feels is a better opportunity. Do t take it personal, it’s nothing you did, it’s her problem. Ride the wave until it’s done.
Gravel_Roads 6y ago
I certainly wouldn't give a shit, presumably how she dresses is part of what you found attractive about her when you met her. Srs, dude, don't get controlling about what your mate wears, it sets a really bad precedent. Are you going to get squeamish about men seeing her in make-up next? Will it bother you if she wears bikinis at the beach? Is she only allowed to wear her low-cut clothes inside the house where only you may see her? Do you want to be the one to buy her a whole new wardrobe? Because those low-cut shirts are, y'know... the shirts she currently has to wear.
VasiliyZaitzev 6y ago
Well, actually she could, but wearing more modest clothing.
dulkemaru51 6y ago
Unless she dresses like that when alone at home, it's a lie. I mean... it's a lie.
lol
She's signalling fertility to the outer world and enjoying the reassurance that male looks give her. She hamsters it away with iconic basic bitch justifications. She's feral and most likely stupid and delusional as well. She might be a total genius but she's definitely a whore. Her high primitive sexuality is present in both scenarios.
So next.
edit: don't next, necessarily. You can keep banging but do demote to lower rank.