I joined temporarily this group of five guys and like twenty seven girls at college, and I thought it would be the perfect opportunity to meet more girls without too much competition, but there's this guy we will call Mike.
I won't get all butthurt and call Mike a loser, because he isn't. Mike is a cool guy, he's handsome, tall, has an incredibly deep voice, he draws like a boss and he's funny. I haven't met him enough to tell if he has frame or game, but the downsides I can tell from him is that he is extremely skinny and doesn't take a lot of care for his personal image. Despite all this, he was the only above average guy in the group, he basically had no competition before I came.
All the girls love him, even the ones I'm trying to game, I can't avoid to feel a little bit of jealousy. But despite all of this, he looks like a cool dude to hang with, so I view him more like a friendly rival instead of an enemy.
I know this situation seems very specific, but I think this is an important lesson to apply in all fields of life where you are competing for power and dominance.
So how should I proceed? Is befriending him the easiest way to show my dominance? Should patience be the key? How can I avoid getting AMOG'd? How can I AMOG without looking like an insecure try hard?
I would be really grateful for your advice.
streetlecture 5y ago
You're in a group with 27 girls. A few dudes. And all you can think about is some guy named Mike. STOP FOCUSING ON MIKE!
Talk to the lovely ladies and build repertoire.
looseonthemoose1321 5y ago
You should humble yourself and learn a thing or twenty from Mike.
You're a newcomer to the group. I assume Mike's been there. Don't try to assume dominance in a group that you haven't formed, especially if you aren't favored to win.
Obviously, Mike's doing SOMETHING right to get the attention from the women you want, and I say if you can't beat them, join them.
And it sounds like at this point currently with your level of game, you can't beat Mike.
I would say become genuine friends with Mike and learn from him (subtlely). Why make an enemy of a strong ally? Mike could be a GREAT wingman for you, and it's not easy to find awesome dudes you can win with.
Chainega 5y ago
Why can't I beat Mike?
markinsinz7 5y ago
Holy fuck you're about to become an insecure wannabe amog. Listen unless you're naturally a leader, U won't beat Mike, a tiny Crack in ur frame and ur done - not just not an alpha anymore but they might exclude you entirely. Plus he has history with em.
The key to being a leader in the group is simple, become the MVP. So Mike's cool, goodlooking n shit but maybe that's it right? Like is he doing any business? Does he have any talents? He probably has a lot of connections if I had to guess.
Well bring something value to the group but has to be something they value. Like talent or sports or something.
Lastly like others said why the fuck u trying to compete when u got 27 girls like man if I had a friend or (any friends at all sigh) like Mike I'd learn so much and just embrace the adventures with the group. Only one thing u must concern yourself with is not being Mike's bitch this means don't do what he asks of u unless it's a personal favor and make sure u ask one later if it comes to that.
Not_A_Twist 5y ago
Just invite him out and give him a blowie. He can’t steal your girls if he’s gay, nom sayin?
vas_mhtro 5y ago
This.. this. Just do it
derrtderr 5y ago
Mike sounds cute. You should ask him out. Maybe he’ll AMOG you in the bathroom.
Chainega 5y ago
Lol
KeithR420 5y ago
Its a bit of sarcasm pointing out you should start focusing on talking to and being with the girls than thinking about a boy..
trpthrowaway2003 5y ago
Read the sidebar - this situation is covered extensively.
quadraticreciprocal 5y ago
Honestly Mike isn't the problem here. Your abundance mentality seriously is though. What are you doing joining a club for the sole reason of getting girls? Furthermore, there's 27 girls there and your afraid of Mike?